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Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Atmmachine(m): 7:21pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
This is one of the many reasons i can't date a Nigerian girl, they think differently. So, a girl shouldn't spend on her boyfriend ?? But you want the boyfriend to spend on her ?? Go fucck yourself 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by mizzbouqui(f): 7:24pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
ehix89:He will still appreciate it but not only that |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Titilayooni(f): 7:31pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27:Babe,I won't agree with you...I can spend on my man,it doesn't make me stupid...Men too want to be pampered ONCE in a while,U might be speaking his own love language too..Ts not only on his birthdays...Give ur man treat:pay for ur eat outs too,surprise shopping for him,get him a nice wristwatch or footwear,small surprise bday getogether.....I buy my bf's favourite drink especially when I know he is cash strapped.....So I go against that motion 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 7:33pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27:Nigerian ladies and their archaic mentality. So you wanna be like the leech who keeps asking for more. Well, spending in a matured relationship is mutual, based on love, trust and where you see the relationship going. My lady spends on me, like really spends on me, that's because she knows the value she places on me and knows that I am worth it. Maybe that's because she has gotten a different orientation by studying abroad. Many true blooded Nigerian ladies would bore me with their unromantic idiosyncrasies. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by misspicy(f): 7:35pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
kilokeys:Hi |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by stiflerdrug: 7:36pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
halfricanadian:wbt the ones that does good and still die btw |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Longman6(m): 7:37pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
The reality of the Nigerian society is telling on every aspect of life not excluding relationships,on a normal day spending money should not be an issue in and after a relationship,but because most people have had bad experiences in the past or heard about people who have,everybody" is unconsciously trying to be careful of spending,which makes them practice excessive economy in spending and affection.because nobody knows who is who,Real love I would say don't get scared of spending,Hillary Clinton was taking care of more of the finances before marrying Bill,but poverty in Nigeria has made love difficult.people value the money they spend than the affection they share.What's love if not companionship,? 3 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Titilayooni: You really should sit her down and give her an education. I'm however not surprised this is coming from a western Nigeria lady, they are more exposed and lovable than those from the other divide of the Niger who would never use a dime of theirs for their man. Little wonder men from that side soo covet the ladies from the west. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 7:46pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
sapiosexual1:Goodluck with ur lady spending one you, like i said "there's no harm in helping a boo when he's broke, buying him gifts when the need arise.....bt is totally not safe for ladies to spend on u guys. Jason Derulo gifted Jordan spark a car, she's rich hope you knw. Beyonce didn't buy JayZ a house while they were dating, they're both rich, he still pays for dinners. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Jay542(m): 7:50pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
It's very inappropriate for a lady to spend on a guy. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Titilayooni:Hope you knw i mentioned that there's no harm in doing all you've said. Comprehend, don't be stupid in love, by doing all the manly roles. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ehix89(m): 7:52pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Jay542:where is the quote from |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ehix89(m): 7:54pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:you gurls should up your game, the community ain't comfortable with that anymore |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 7:55pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27: Not talking of helping out a broke dude, what are friends for if she can't help him out? I'm talking of spending on him like spoiling him. Jeez naija babes have a long way to go, soo unromantic. I don't need her money cos I'm richer than her, buh it stokes the flame when she spoils me with gifts and treats. Or you think men don't wanna be pampered too? I for one loves to be pampered alot. Thank god say i no waka miss road date a typical naija babe, my life would have been miserable by now |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Titilayooni(f): 7:55pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27:BABE!!! Am not stupid in love,ok? U can also try it and U will see how ur man will feel...It doesn't mean u are doing all d manly roles but put it on a ratio 4:1,he does 4 times and U do it just once,IT WON'T KILL YOU.. What do u do with your money then,if u can spend out of it for ur man?I dint say u shld spend everything now#LOL# 8 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Jay542(m): 7:56pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
ehix89:From nature. If the lady is the one doing the spending then what's the duty of the man? 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 7:56pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Atmmachine:You're not the one fuccking me, so why will i go n fucck myself. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Getrich47(m): 7:58pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
ehix89: You are wise |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Getrich47(m): 7:58pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
ehix89: You are wise |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ehix89(m): 8:02pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Jay542:no one is saying a lady should do all the spending, but she should be able to chip in some support here and there, what do you make of a woman who earns 300k and does absolutely nothing to support her man?, some ladies are just too stingy to be considered partners 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Jay542:Help me ask them. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
ehix89:You don't need any lady's money to be a man. What makes you a man?. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by mizzbouqui(f): 8:06pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
ehix89:Lolssss okay ayaf hear |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ehix89(m): 8:08pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
mizzbouqui:please share the goodnews |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 8:09pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
sapiosexual1:Why should a lady be spoiling you with spending. When you're not her husband. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Jay542(m): 8:10pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
ehix89:A man shouldn't care really how much his woman earns. He is meant to still give her allowance even if she earns 500k and he earns 200k. A womans' money is for herself while the guys' earnings is for the family. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ehix89(m): 8:15pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27:I quite agree with you but not absolutely I don't need my woman's money but at the very least she should use her head, I don't just tolerate stingy and self-centred people around me, it irritates me. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ehix89(m): 8:17pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Getrich47:Lol, Wisdom is of the Lord |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Jay542(m): 8:18pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Benita27:Lol. You might disagree with me on this but that's why i don't support the idea that the ladys should be equal to men. We are to provide for you ladies. |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Titilayooni:Unfortunately for you, you attract the ones you spend on. I pity you, dey spend dey go, nairaland broke guys go pm you tire. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by ehix89(m): 8:22pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Jay542:, is that how you roll?, the ladies will love you absolutely |
Re: Should A Lady Spend On A Guy She's Dating?. by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Jay542:I don't disagree with you. Women and men are not equals, God created the woman as a man's help mate. So frm the scripture the man was already made a boss. It went ahead to say that women should be submissive. And after Adam and Eve's blunder both were cursed, the man was made to toil b4 he eats, while the woman was made to undergo labour pains. Most of these guys saying it shld be mutual, are the once that will still say men are above women, why so?, when a woman is the one taking care of ur needs. 3 Likes |
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