@ Op, tym will tell...

Billyonaire:
There is nothing wrong with changing the dp, even up to 1 million times per day. The fact is, that you feel insecure and it is okay to feel insecure as long as you know that insecurity is a personal weakness on your own part.

There is a fear, deep in you, that someone will take the girl from you, not because you are not man enough, but because you do not consider yourself man enough to make her yours and only yours for ever, what ever that means.

But note that no one belongs to another. When you understand the dynamics of Life, you will have enough confidence to know that you are complete, without the other. It is the false teaching of religion that makes us feel that we need the other to complete us. No, we need the other to produce more Earth bodies for spirits to come and enjoy the game of life.

Allow the woman to enjoy her passion and work on your insecurities. You are the problem not her, after all, if she finds you not adequate for her cravings and quiet desperation, that is her truth, she is then advertising for a new mate, that, you can not stop her, cos she is a free born human, ready to mingle.

Find comfort in yourself and in being alone, it is only in loneliness that you have time for yourself, and yourself alone to love.

Rest in peace, and save yourself the heartaches, it is not necessary. Be human, dont reduce your self to an incomplete half of a specie.

U just blew my mind. Awesome advice

chizzy161:
Guy she is just your girl friend and not your wife. Even if she is your wife you have no right to control that because she is an individual.

God judge u oo

Chiccly:



You are just a boyfriend and not her husband.

Please respect her privacy and stop being unnecessarily jealous.

Have u considered how much the guy has spent on her before you echo the boyfriend itch.

Send her this link Make she read.

She's addicted to social media a lot, she must be one of the so-called "slayqueen" "bosslady" "mhizposhberry LA sexy diva" kind of girl. She's not your type brother. Unless you can endure the future heartbreak

vanhayor:

u jst jealous

Common sense is obviusly not available to you. What is wrong in being jealousy concerning who you are dating ?

dom:
Send her this link Make she read.

My thought exactly

HateU2:
Glad it's coming from a guy

I tire for the guy. Of all things to lose sleep over...

Ballmer:
Common sense is obviusly not available to you. What is wrong in being jealousy concerning who you are dating ?

People resort to insults when they are all out of
ammo for logical discourse.
Practitioners and experts in the field of
psychology would call what you are doing
projecting. By all means continue.

enshi:


My thought but she takes this selfies first thing in the morning upon getting to the office, at lunch and at closure of work.. . Then the others are sunday morning outfit and sometimes saturdays

Take her to a Psychiatrist

ladyF:
Which kind of controlling boyfriend is this? She is not allowed to change dp again?

I wish her all the best o...

check mail

enshi:
Have been dating my gf for six months now and for real i love her...
She is a banker and we met at the bank too... And sincerely she is pretty..

The issue at hand is she is always changing her dp on whatsapp and she keeps uploading selfies on fb and i am beginning to think she is seeking attention or trying to impress someone cos she is quite aware i dont like it.. ..

I have discussed it over with her more than four times yet she keeps doing this and has vowed never to stop ... As i write this piece 9:17AM she has changed her whatsapp dp twice ( one pic this morning at the office and the other one she had Before leaving the house).. We dont stay in same state though

Pls i need mature conttibutions on what and how exactly to tackle this and what could probably be the reason behind this

See ehen, if she was changing dp from one of your picture to another we won't see you ere, just cause she changing from one of her picture to another you r ere lamenting.... What if she was changing from one boy to another nko
Guy calm down, she would grow up and leave that with time...