Billyonaire:


It is so scary. These days you cant tell a lady 'I like you', cos the moment you do, they transfer all their liabilities to your balance sheet. It kills the feeling, not because you can not do it, but because it was not your responsibility to do that. Love is now transactional. I guess we are all prostitutes now, it is no longer an issue of going to club or road to find a man. An average girl wants financial exchanges for love. Its a barter like never before.

26andsearching:


I rarely speak of myself or status when wooing

U ladies are just too complicated

abels:
Guy if u nor b worwor boy dat means u r among guys dat bug women too much and such guys irritate ladies so they wil do evrytin to chase u out.. After d first day toasting bone dem for som time, even if u have their number, do as if u regret even toosing dem. U ll c they will start flashing u, dont call immediately.. The day u ll eventually call warn her never to flash u again nd cut d call guy d grl go de kolo for u.. On ur first dat wit her dont praise her too much, tell her tins like, "for beauty i score u 60/100",tell her" ur make up is too harsh nd it does nt fit ur face", just let her knw u r in charge, guy d babe go de tink of u de wet.. All tis tins if u knw hw to play ur game u ll get any grl of ur dreams

Joavid:
Let me give you some clues.

* When you approach a girl wearing expensive Brazilian hair, makeup on fleek (which I think is your definition of beautiful) using Iphone7,ask yourself, how is she able to afford that?

If you put all indications together, and you see she definitely can't afford that on her own, flee!!! cos you're about to be her next maga.

*When you meet a girl that's desperately interested in what you do for a living, where you live, if you have properties, flee!!


*when you meet a girl, roaming around a mall for instance, and by your conversation with her, her didn't come for anything in particular, flee!!

*When you go on a date with a girl,and she orders heaven and earth, flee!

@26searching

Joromi1:

Always making sense.

But the part I highlighted is not clear to me; are you saying girls can't buy expensive stuff with their own money? I'm sure there are still many independent ladies out there.

abels:
Guy if u nor b worwor boy dat means u r among guys dat bug women too much and such guys irritate ladies so they wil do evrytin to chase u out.. After d first day toasting bone dem for som time, even if u have their number, do as if u regret even toosing dem. U ll c they will start flashing u, dont call immediately.. The day u ll eventually call warn her never to flash u again nd cut d call guy d grl go de kolo for u.. On ur first dat wit her dont praise her too much, tell her tins like, "for beauty i score u 60/100",tell her" ur make up is too harsh nd it does nt fit ur face", just let her knw u r in charge, guy d babe go de tink of u de wet.. All tis tins if u knw hw to play ur game u ll get any grl of ur dreams

repogirl:
You are what you wish for ....like attracts like.... You are most likely a vain persona and you attract the vain girls... just be prepared to always be stuck with vain, pretty and spongy females.

Joavid:
Let me give you some clues.

* When you approach a girl wearing expensive Brazilian hair, makeup on fleek (which I think is your definition of beautiful) using Iphone7,ask yourself, how is she able to afford that?

If you put all indications together, and you see she definitely can't afford that on her own, flee!!! cos you're about to be her next maga.

*When you meet a girl that's desperately interested in what you do for a living, where you live, if you have properties, flee!!


*when you meet a girl, roaming around a mall for instance, and by your conversation with her, her didn't come for anything in particular, flee!!

*When you go on a date with a girl,and she orders heaven and earth, flee!

*For instance, you're talking to a girl on GSM, and you run out of airtime, she doesn't call back, or never calls you, flee!

* If she's always telling you she has no airtime, data or constantly talking about her problems, flee!

@26andsearching

I don't know about guys, but as a lady myself, I can smell a materialistic lady the moment I meet her.

ImaIma1:


This is really for some set of ladies, I believe. It still has to do with the kind of ladies. I never asked a guy I was dating to buy me a phone,pay my bills. It's either i buy my phones myself or disturb my siblings. I would rather task my brothers/sisters instead of asking my boyfriend. Same goes for my friends around me.
What I even see around me is men using different stories to collect/borrow from ladies. The men have turned the gold diggers. Borrowing and not returning. Coming up with one money story or the other.

Billyonaire:


Your kind of ladies are rare these days mam. Trust me I have designed relationship structures and followed blueprints, even to the point of putting girls on salaries (allowances). But it happens that they see that as 'running cost for the relationship', while special demands like 'I need to rent new apartment', 'Vacation to Dubai', 'I need a car' became the centerpiece of my relationships with ladies. I have ran out of ideas and I really cant be without some extra-marital romance in my life. The OP is only experiencing a fraction of what others go through. And if one goes to the club for escort, you lose wrist-watches, necklaces and sometimes rare gems.

Love and relationship is becoming a trap.

mctowel01:

Yes, but in very few numbers compared to the growing number of beggars ou there. Nowadays, a churchy bimbo will enter university and become a beggar by year 3 so as to keep up with the lifestyle she can't truly afford.

26andsearching:


I don't want to believe your statistics

It's scary

DivinelyBlessed:
The way you present yourself?

egbabiekperemo1:


Change the class of girls u roll with. I guess u roll with hungry girls, cos my girls dont act this way

Mimimaidservice:
How about you meet a guy you havent even agreed to date him and he is already asking you to borrow him money, or how much do you earn? or telling you different problems that involves cash? the truth is it is most university girls that asks guys for money, girls who have jobs do not ask guys for money... (atleast i do not) but every guy i meet wants something from me.....* broke a**

Girls: give me 3k for hair,
Guys: borrow me some money i will give you back (they never pay back)
Society to the guy: she wants to eat your money
Society to the girl: Plan with him, support him, grow with him, he may become rich tommorow

kimbra:
How about you bring yourself down when you want to woo a girl. This could be the issue.

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.

Thanks

lexy2014:
am not arguing with u my oga Infact I agree with u. I dont no whether d gentleman is broke or stingy. am not interested in that info.u said "from survey". and am asking who did d survey and when was it done?

Softorgasm:
Hmmm op its not your fault..

That your friend is lucky because a larger percentage of ladies in Nigeria are only after the money.

zeezeegal:
Better Soup Na Money Kill Am... U Lyk Fyn Gal Na, Ur Money Na Her Own Bobo... Plenty Milla For Her Account O!...

alexialin:



Thank you dear.
Above all looking good , looking fresh , smell sweet is not cheap .
Na money make am so.

Word!

lexy2014:
if d girls were his taste would he b complaining?

BoboYekini:
It's not even about working class or not.
'Working-class' women ask for financial favors. The only difference is that they do it surreptitiously but it quickly becomes a normal weekly thing. Never believe what they say. Na mouth.
Every woman demands for more than she gives or will ever give. Every single woman.

It's a trend in human culture and evolution. Our fathers, and their fathers before them - all the way to the stone age, they put the money down.

You provide, or you die alone. No sugar-coating it fellas. The reason it is so frustrating now is because the earning power of men has reduced considerably in comparison to today's women. And women are not willing to make the necessary adjustments; they will chop your money and keep theirs.