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Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 1:35pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
dame134:if you are ,then I have nothing to say to you |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
mykel25:for what is worth, you could be that my ex |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by tolasosanya(m): 1:37pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Dear, Collect the phone, if your "steady" boy friend asks, you can tell him something else. He is still a boyfriend who might never end up as your husband so what's the worry about. Be SMART. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by dominique(f): 1:41pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
BlaQWolf: I've already posted, page (1) |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
awonwerey: na only eba u de use hot water for? |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by lawkenoz(m): 1:51pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
2dugged: your comments are on point, but there's one aspect you guys seem to be forgetting........ they are both students and financially dependent on their parents. it has got nothing to do with being broke. they are dating as students and most likely won't end up getting married, so its a case of two kids dating and seeing where it leads. if she has upright parents im sure she cant take a phone home without them asking her where she got it from. my parents knew everything I had while I was growing up and dependent on them.....there where limits to what I could get with my pocket money. a nokia phone no problem, but come back home with an expensive phone you had a.lot of explaining to do. your advice is more suited for after graduating and she becomes ready for marriage, she can avoid broke guys. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by LeanonGOD(m): 1:55pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
SMH. You and your friend must watch these movies title Indecent PROPOSAL, & Fatal ATTRACTION. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by ANNABERRY2017(f): 1:55pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
She should collect it and give it to her broke boyfriend shikena. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Psoul(m): 1:57pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
OP, I kw you already kw the right thing to tell your friend concerning this, though depending on your own moral standard. But to help you more incase you don't kw the right thing to do. Do it this way. Let us switch positions. Assume that you are the guy nd your boyfriend is ur babe. How will u feel if he(she now) accepts the gift and come to tell you where it comes from. Still confused? Let's take another one. Assuming ur boyfriend that u loves so much and who also loves you and u want to settle down with him. He is poor and you and ur family is not all that rich. He comes to u one day and tell u that there is this girl from a very rich family who has bn toasting him and that she want to help him secure a very nice apartment where she want him to pack into. Babe how will u feel? See, my dear, if u girls think that making money is all that easy, why not go out there and make money, buy urslf all u need and leave broke men alone. You cant afford it, ur papa and mama join together cannot afford it and if your boyfriend cant afford it, u call him broke. What are u and ur parents...broken or break...abi 3 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by donhils: 2:08pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
He got the phone cos he noticed you are not on WhatsApp. So he gets the phone and now have every opportunity to chat sense out of you. Then the old boyfriend calls some times and u refuse to pick up, when he asks why u didn't pick your calls you'll remind him that he didn't buy phone for you. And similar things go on and on and on... 3 Likes |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by mykel25(m): 2:09pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
2dugged: Rushed to check profile..... Ex bawo? Che I ve similarities with ur ex ni |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Lules(f): 2:12pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
funmisticqueen:don't accept the gift. it clearly has strings attached |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Izen: 2:25pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: Dude, you just repeated what I said. That's your mindset and it's fine. Joke of the century or not, it is not fair to the other person to date them if they're not priority in your life. Let them be on their own. It is deceitful. And I am not talking about a phone, I'm talking about the lady in the context of your comment. Anybody who feels he isn't ready to date should stay on his own. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by cheezy4real(m): 2:26pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
amokeme: In addition, she called her friend to narrate all this bull shit, with which PHONE? Hoes are not loyal... |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Debeloved87(m): 2:28pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Woww, seriously. You want your broke lover who is still studying and not yet working to get you something your parent can't get you, unhmmh. Just know that If you collect that stuff, you are sure gonna offer something in return, either your love, heart, body etc "give and it shall be given unto you" "collect and it shall be collected from you" bye. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by crunchyg: 2:29pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
repogirl:That's because there is nothing you can see with your eyes of materialism |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:38pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Izen: Nah, that is NOT what I am saying.... What I am trying to say is that there are better priorities in their lives, and a loving caring partner should "understand" that, instead of solely focussing on her life selfishly. This is the time when a man needs his woman the most (aka when he is down), and women who run at the 1st sign of struggle, DONT deserve this same man if/when he finally makes it. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
vicfuntop:Bravo, very well said. How about your husband though? What if you expect certain financial obligations from him and he can't meet up, what would you do? Will you be ashamed of him? |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Burgerlomo: 3:32pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
StPete: I called these type of people a pretender. |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by bidexmat(m): 3:38pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Your sense tight gan! I like blunt lads awonwerey: |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
mykel25:if he was a twin ,I would say you are his twin,anyway, I just hope the op puts herself first, there is no guarantee or indication that her bf is ready to walk down the aisle with her,so turning down other guys at her age, where she is in her prime may bite her in the ass,its just a risk, for some it turns out well,but for most ladies,it doesn't |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
lawkenoz:actually, its suitable for both, most youths especially dependent guys use relationship as an excuse for steady sex, the blunt truth is student or not ,a guy doesn't need a decade to consult his ancestors if he should marry a lady or not ,so I don't quite agree with the " let's see how it goes " slogan, its just a technique to waste time. Trust me, her bf already knows if he will marry her or not, that's the fact.The worse part is he cound just be making do with her until he is financially stable to go for his specs 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by skedy1(m): 3:55pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
firstking01:See me see wahala o!!! They seem not to know the difference between a boyfriend and a father! These our girls....SMH! |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by annyronnie(m): 3:55pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
I like asking people 4 what I can afford for myself she claims she loves the guy then every other suitor should not be given attention Truth of d matter is she's making a move already its better she tells d guy rather than beating about the bush I'm just sick n tired of being in love cos d will use ur impediment as an excuse gals of nowadays wants everything to happen now d old ones rushed 4 iphone4 did things dat took their life not knowing iphone7 is coming you're a student he's a student judge him based on he has it n he does not want to gv u than u going out simply because he did not get u what u can't get 4 urself 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Ikville(m): 3:59pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Confam YES! She can collect stuff from a toaster who knows dat d easiest way to open her legs is to entice her wit Trojan gifts. Then d toaster can fvck her even more senseless. Then d broke ass boyfriend can eitha stay for a while to enjoy d bounty before he goes to his real woman. Or he can dump d dumb biatch rite away. Then after a couple of week, she will gets busted by d toaster's real girlfriend, then she realizes dat she was just a weekend pvssy. No suitor will be looking to park his truck in anotha man's garrage |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Wolfbrother(m): 4:17pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
awonwerey: This reply needs to be framed |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Izen: 4:26pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
MrBrownJay1: Y'all act like women don't have their struggles too or something they're running after. Would you feel the same way if the situation was reversed? That's how one bobo was telling me not to be too ambitious because he felt I didn't have enough time for him. So Mr, while your comment is idealistic, would the same excuse be tenable if a woman gave it for not placing priority on you in her life. Because I've noticed it's the same men who comment like this that who insult ladies who say they cannot be cooking and cleaning and doing all shorts for their boyfriends. Same men who say they're not women's fathers are the same ones who want girlfriends who would care for them like their mothers. I'm not pro ask men for money, I'm just pointing out the hypocrisy here. 1 Like |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
j 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should She Collect A Phone Gift From Her Suitor Because Her Boyfriend Is Broke? by TheEminentLaity: 4:42pm On Jun 06, 2017 |
Honey is that you? Got to follow that booty Raine80: |
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