Temilade£:

Why can't men be straight forward with girls if they are only after sex, why can't they say,  before we start this, i want to let you know that it's purely going to be sex and no other stuff involved rather than act like you want a relationship with them and have intimacy with them, then never call them or avoid them. Why cant you just say the truth and stop leading us on, thinking we can't handle the truth, Trust me there ARE girls out there, who just want sex, guys tell me why?

deji2009:

Nothing like MR nice guy anymore. lol

Temilade£:

Why can't men be straight forward with girls if they are only after sex, why can't they say,  before we start this, i want to let you know that it's purely going to be sex and no other stuff involved rather than act like you want a relationship with them and have intimacy with them, then never call them or avoid them. Why cant you just say the truth and stop leading us on, thinking we can't handle the truth, Trust me there ARE girls out there, who just want sex, guys tell me why? 

Ujujoan:

@ Poster

While I cannot completely disagree with you that most guys are not straightforward anymore, I don't think they are entirely to blame. If only people will realiz that deception, just like survival, is a human attribute. It has nothing to do with being a man or a woman.

Imagine how many broken hearts that would have been saved if women took the time to study their 'chykers', observe them properly and pay attention to little details and their instincts. Instead we get carried away by the 'swagga', the money, and sometimes the innocent looks. 

Everybody has an agenda in every relationship and time only will show it. That's why it's a bad move to jump into bed with a guy you barely know. Cos when he walks out, it's not the intimacy that hurts the most, it's the fact that you didn't see it coming . . .

ebila:

@post,
Let's face it,how many of u gurls would find it reasonable if a guy tells u wot he wants from u is sex?

hbabe:

A guy blurting out that all he wants is sex will definitely make a girl go through the act without gusto. Everyone likes romance to add spice to life.

I would not find it reasonable and I won't accept the invite except the attraction on my part is uncontrollable which is rare.

Temilade£:

Why can't men be straight forward with girls if they are only after sex, why can't they say,  before we start this, i want to let you know that it's purely going to be sex and no other stuff involved rather than act like you want a relationship with them and have intimacy with them, then never call them or avoid them. Why cant you just say the truth and stop leading us on, thinking we can't handle the truth, Trust me there ARE girls out there, who just want sex, guys tell me why? 

whitelexi:

Cos girls are never straight-forward with men. . . From the word go, u make eye contact with them and they're wishing silently for u to make a move, u make a move and they change their poise [some dont even know how to act and some will over act and even insult u in the process], then they dont say no and dont say yes at the same time, they string u along and assess u in the process - check how deep your pocket is, what car u drive, and what part of town u live. . .

If u want to start on men, look inside yourselves first!

Busy_body:

They are prolly scared of the slaps they are gonna "chop" from the ladies

Ujujoan:

@ Poster

While I cannot completely disagree with you that most guys are not straightforward anymore, I don't think they are entirely to blame. If only people will realiz that deception, just like survival, is a human attribute. It has nothing to do with being a man or a woman.

Imagine how many broken hearts that would have been saved if women took the time to study their 'chykers', observe them properly and pay attention to little details and their instincts. Instead we get carried away by the 'swagga', [size=20pt]the money,[/size] and sometimes the innocent looks.

Everybody has an agenda in every relationship and time only will show it. That's why it's a bad move to jump into bed with a guy you barely know. Cos when he walks out, it's not the intimacy that hurts the most, it's the fact that you didn't see it coming . . .

naija_swag:

How many girls actually own up to exactly what they want in a relationship? It is a cycle of deception.

rita@NL:

Becos most ladies wont be straight forward about their wants - MONEY

Sam Milla:

Our girl Temilade£ just discovered how every man is a liar. How they never come out straight with what they wanted.

OUR LIKELY SCENARIO GOES THUS.
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Temilade£ : i will never have anything to do with this kind of man. look at how ugly he is. look at his big eyes. Even if he ask me to marry him, i will never do such a thing. men are just disgusting. i m out of here. to hell with marriage. i have work. i m independent.

THEN THE GIGOLLO SHOWED UP WITH A COOL CAR


Temilade£ : OMG!! I might as well take back my words on marriage. he is so cute. look at his muscles, if only he can hold me in those arms. EVEN FOR ONE NIGHT.

GIGOLLO : Hi sweetie.
Temilade£ : Hello
: May i know you more ?
Temilade£ : I am Temilade£, i live in ikeja, i work in GTBank, I own a fashion shop in VI, i never had a boyfriend, i never gave men chance, i m single and searching, i m 21 years old {+deducted 7 years}

: would you go out with me ?
Temilade£ : Yes but just for casual friendship, no strings attached. nothing more. i like male friends .


GIGOLLO FINDS HIS WAY THE FOLLOWING MORNING AFTER A NIGHT MARATHON SESSION
AND OUR GIRL CALLS HIS PHONE IN THE EVENING AFTER MUCH FANTASIZING OVER ABOUT PROPOSING MARRIAGE.


: Who is this ?
Temilade£ : its me now, dont you remember voice ?
: {after thinking for a while} please remind me, i ma busy at work now and cant think well.
Temilade£ : its temi now, remember last night in a hotel

HANGS HIS PHONE AND OUR GIRL RUSHES TO NAIRALAND. WHERE OF COURSE HIS TEAM MATES ARE EAGERLY WAITING TO VERBERLY PUNISH THE EVIL CALLED MEN



VENUE : ROMANCE SECTION
TOPIC : Why Can't Men Be Straightforward With Girls?
CONTENT : Why can't men be straight forward with girls if they are only after intimacy BLAH BLAH BLAH


SAM MILLA : "Look not in the body of a man but in his mind for when the body fails you, his mind cannot"