Papiikush:


If everyone is to focus on their past experiences nobody will want to move forward.

My motto: what doesn't you only makes you stronger

There are loads of awesome women on nairaland. Some of these ladies who seem like a troll here are just having fun. <<<<<true story>>>>>

Papiikush:


If everyone is to focus on their past experiences nobody will want to move forward.

My motto: what doesn't you only makes you stronger

There are loads of awesome women on nairaland. Some of these ladies who seem like a troll here are just having fun. <<<<<true story>>>>>

Evablizin:
gbam gbam gbam true talk,moet fall on you.lols

SingleDad1:
wait, what exactly do you support in his comment?

Lionessza:



Why don't you want to be in a relationship if I may ask?. That's bad, but you were the one who made a bad choice in choosing someone like that but maybe you didn't know that side of her before.

Evablizin:
gbam gbam gbam true talk,moet fall on you.lols

Shey the drink or the lady called Moet?

SingleDad1:


I let my past down bro, that's why i decided to push ahead being single, but still play the game. But parents be taking the issue too serious.


Bro, no good lady on Nairaland , that's for sure.

Evablizin:
some of these ladies who seem like a troll here on NL are just having fun

SingleDad1:


I can't kill myself for nothing bro.

Bro, the good once are yet to be born, while the bad once refuse to die.

SingleDad1:


Honey. Relationship will give you 10% and take 90% from you. Believe me. I can't date a naija lady, reasons is that, they are all the same. Maybe some of them are different, but I am yet to find them.

Yeah, I made a bad choice, but I never knew she was like that.

Papiikush:

Shey the drink or the lady called Moet?



How long do you wanna stay in the game? We always say time is on on a lady's side without know it is also applicable to men.

No good lady on nairaland? Do you know there are more than 10,000 ladies on nairaland? Judging them because of some dimwitted guys who create female accounts to seek attention is a no no.

Papiikush:

Shey the drink or the lady called Moet?



How long do you wanna stay in the game? We always say time is on on a lady's side without know it is also applicable to men.

No good lady on nairaland? Do you know there are more than 10,000 ladies on nairaland? Judging them because of some dimwitted guys who create female accounts to seek attention is a no no.

teehamzat:

There was a time i also believed that, cant blame you, but keep up...when you meet the right person you would know

SingleDad1:


You have a great point bro. Then how do we know the real female when some attention seeking male create fake accounts.

I understands that, time is against everybody, but do you think , if I m unable to choose a girl to settle down with offline, i could choose one online?.

couple of guys are more successful in getting potential spouses though blind dates. Just try any which way but avoid club houses and church girls.

Real females reply PMs

SingleDad1:


Really?. A troll is a troll. They might be having fun, but honey if you re to be my sister, you won't like your bro to marry any NL babe.

Lionessza:



Lol, you sound like you're not willing to open yourself to possibilities. I don't know Nigerian ladies personally but I doubt they would all be the same . Hopefully in time you will meet your type, that is ofcourse if you know what that is and its realistic.

Papiikush:


couple of guys are more successful in getting potential spouses though blind dates. Just try any which way but avoid club houses and church girls.

Real females reply PMs

Evablizin:
if my brother meets a NL babe with a good character,she being a NLDER will never stop my brother from marrying her

SingleDad1:


Bro, when it comes to dates both online and offline, am kinda lucky, but i can't keep them up to 2weeks bro.

Real females? , maybe you've seen any here?

SingleDad1:


Honey. Dia was a time, I really took my time to see a single reason why i should marry my GF. At a point, I begged her to start acting one certain way, so I would be convinced. Secondly, she was so marriage conscious as if her life depends on it, but when it comes to committing myself, that is where the problem starts from.

At a time, i started thinking maybe, this is spiritual. But no, I was wrong. Its just in me.

Papiikush:


It's just the anxiety fading away. When you see a real woman you wouldn't wanna get tired of keeping her.

Yeah, I have seen more than 50 women from nairaland (not dates)

Next2Bezee:


You sounded mature with your first post but that is slowly looking like a front now.

No one can pressure you to marry, it is your life. Secondly it is crazy to classify all Nigerian ladies as bad because you had a relationship that went south.

What way were you trying to convince the ex you mentioned to act? Did you sit down to look at the relationship from any other point of view apart from your own?

Sorry to say you seem Childish. Forget not being ready to marry, it's better you don't go tying down someone's daughter or sister to a life of oppression because you're looking for someone who will change their all for you, while you don't seem ready to do the same.

Cheers.

SingleDad1:



Because your brother won't find any. Maybe you re.

Evablizin:
stop believing is negativity you got to calm down and change your mindset for good,

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talk to yourself saying i must marry a wonderful Lady and it must be very soon.

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SingleDad1:



I have tried to settle myself down to see any good reason why I should be with her, but damn it, no reason.

SingleDad1:


Honey. Dia was a time, I really took my time to see a single reason why i should marry my GF. At a point, I begged her to start acting one certain way, so I would be convinced. Secondly, she was so marriage conscious as if her life depends on it, but when it comes to committing myself, that is where the problem starts from.

At a time, i started thinking maybe, this is spiritual. But no, I was wrong. Its just in me.

teehamzat:

Girls are never the same, my third ex, that girl was good, i chased her away, it was my peak at the time, feeling fly and all, anytime i look back and imagine how i treated her , i cant but wonder how i let such woman outta my sight...the other ex, dat one no even waste tym before she been cheat, same as the next and the next, but this is me...i can't generalise....i cant advice you date a cheating gf, if she does it the first time she would most probably do it again..well for a different reason..lol

SingleDad1:


Bro, marriage is not something we jump into. Our generation is corrupt.

Lionessza:




Thank goodness she didn't start acting the way you wanted her to act because she would be "acting "to please you and not be herself and inturn the relationship would've have been fake..

I hope you will find someone you will be willing to commit to ,

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anyway not everyone is destined for marriage.

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Lionessza:

anyway not everyone is destined for marriage.

DeGuyNxtDoor:
but you're not making it any better by pouring your akamu in all holes that cometh thy way


#ReasonNotAccepted

SingleDad1:


Thank you honey, not everyone is destined for marriage. [/b]I am included.[b]