mhizsuzzy:

I am not sexually active biko

and I never even prime for marriage, i still be small girl ooh
and I forgot an important part, I am proudly a Christian so I don't engage in such, not trying to be biased though

NeeKlaus:

Where did you see me mention "two weeks" in my post? I was talking about the mood swings that come with the menstrual cycle and not the duration.


Moh una dey calm down dey read sometimes.

ritachinemerem:
That's how we women do behave sometimes,we worry less after seeing our monthly period /and worry more two weeks/a week before our monthly period,Hope i'm right ladies in the house?

Benita27:
You're wrong. No woman menstruates on the last two weeks of each month, consistently. Cycle changes. Count 28days from the first day it starts and tell me if you'll have this theory you postulated?. That's even the more reason why mood wings aren't consistent in nature.

Menzy86:
What gives women the notion that only they are entitled to "mood swings?". To me the inability to control these swings is a sign of immaturity. We can't be laughing one minute and the next, unprovoked you start making trouble out of a trivial matter in the name of 'mood swing' and u expect me to accommodate? That's crap!

Eniitan19:
I met a girl five months ago. She is a graduate, in her late 20s and very beautiful. Being that I am eagerly looking for a girl to marry, I made my intention known to her immediately we met. She did not say ''yes'' or ''no'' but rather advised that we should let the relationship run its natural course as answer will come naturally.

Being that she's beautiful, sexy and both of us are no longer kids, we allow sex to take place in the relationship. Although I like the sex part of it, but I observe that she reacts differently to me, as in she reacts in a particular way in one part of the month and in opposite way in the remaining part of the month.

For about two weeks in a month, she will be too friendly, lovely, demands less in terms of materials thing, cares much more, and above all demands for too much sex to the extent that I begin to wonder if she is human.

For the other two weeks, she is opposite of what she exhibited earlier. This is when she will recognize my supposed flaws like not being a fashion freak, not concerned about her materials needs, etc. She will never allow me to even kiss her and she prefers we see each other less this period. This is the period she will even prefer traveling out of the state to buy goods for her business. Towards the end of this ''two weeks sojourn'' there will be gradual change of attitude and the whole things will become normal again.

I have been trying to know why these changes but could still not be able to get reasonable answers. She is from Edo State while I am Ondo's.

Is there anyone that can explain probable cause of this strange behaviour?

musa234:
She may be double dating, she dates you for two weeks and date the other guy for another two weeks, when she travels she visits the other guy ..

Sirme411:


I know Gals Are Hot & Cold.....buh my Brother...I don't know what's with Edo Gals.....Atyms I thought my Ex Was a Witch or Sumtin....A min she'll call telling me she's.cuming over....happily on d.Phone....nd wen she gets to my place she.will jez be opening eye for me....it was rili frustrating my Brother

Edo Girls....No Offence...It's my Opinion it Shouldn't bother u...

cummando:
So we be like human behaviour analysts? I no understand. You wey dey see am no get explanation na we wey dey far go get?

Receive sense

cummando:
So we be like human behaviour analysts? I no understand. You wey dey see am no get explanation na we wey dey far go get?

Receive sense

rebirthforgoody:
This is what we called mood swing.that time she distant herself from you is when she is on her dry period and it takes 11 to 14 days.secondly the time she need sexx like tomorrow no they is when she is on wet period

nigeriancritic1:

She is suffering from likely Bipolar disorder and deeper mental issue.

Fourwinds:





What gives women the notion that only they are entitled to "mood swings?". To me the inability to control these swings is a sign of immaturity. We can't be laughing one minute and the next, unprovoked you start making trouble out of a trivial matter in the name of 'mood swing' and u expect me to accommodate? That's crap. Two of us will start swinging our moods since its now a see saw!
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Benita27:
You're wrong. No woman menstruates on the last two weeks of each month, consistently. Cycle changes. Count 28days from the first day it starts and tell me if you'll have this theory you postulated?. That's even the more reason why mood wings aren't consistent in nature.

lovelygurl:



What the hell where you doing in biology class?!

mhizsuzzy:


May be its the way of some u HV met..

But seriously why go into relationship with some one u can't trust

Trust is very vital in rship and u just get to start ooh, if u don't trust ur babe or boo pls kindly ditch them...

I trust my boo and he trust me so I don't see the reason cheating has ever been an issue for us

Eniitan19:
I met a girl five months ago. She is a graduate, in her late 20s and very beautiful. Being that I am eagerly looking for a girl to marry, I made my intention known to her immediately we met. She did not say ''yes'' or ''no'' but rather advised that we should let the relationship run its natural course as answer will come naturally.

Being that she's beautiful, sexy and both of us are no longer kids, we allow sex to take place in the relationship. Although I like the sex part of it, but I observe that she reacts differently to me, as in she reacts in a particular way in one part of the month and in opposite way in the remaining part of the month.

For about two weeks in a month, she will be too friendly, lovely, demands less in terms of materials thing, cares much more, and above all demands for too much sex to the extent that I begin to wonder if she is human.

For the other two weeks, she is opposite of what she exhibited earlier. This is when she will recognize my supposed flaws like not being a fashion freak, not concerned about her materials needs, etc. She will never allow me to even kiss her and she prefers we see each other less this period. This is the period she will even prefer traveling out of the state to buy goods for her business. Towards the end of this ''two weeks sojourn'' there will be gradual change of attitude and the whole things will become normal again.

I have been trying to know why these changes but could still not be able to get reasonable answers. She is from Edo State while I am Ondo's.

Is there anyone that can explain probable cause of this strange behaviour?

frankeinstein:
cycle lengths vary between 21-35 days, with a mean at 28days. There are a few women who have a regular 28-day cycles and my answer presupposes that she is one of them.

The menstrual cycle is divided into the follicular and luteal phases. The follicular phase culminates in ovulation and the luteal phase begins thereafter. NO MATTER THE CYCLE LENGTH, THE LUTEAL PHASE LASTS FOR ABOUT TWO WEEKS. The luteal phase culminates in the sloughing of the uterine endometrium, characterised by bleeding per vagina (Menstruation).

The point is, the PMS must occur in THE TWO WEEKS PRECEDING MENSTRUATION. This is due to the fact that before menstruation, there is a marked increase in progesterone production and progesterone is implicated in PMS (I will not bore you with the pathophysiology)

So you see then, why the 'two weeks' is striking. And why I had to assume she has a regular 28-day cycle.

TheManofTomorrow:
Mystique in the movie "days of our future hero right?

IamKashyBaby:




Chaaaii...what if really u both dating the same girl?

mhizesther:
It's normal for females to Have this mood swings joor...

Zhahovic:
.. hell yeah!

Benita27:
You bored me with your long epistle, and I don't seem to get the correlation between what you just explained and consistent mood swing.

It doesn't work that way na. Have you seen a woman whose period comes on the 15th of every month?...I mean, by virtue of menstruation. Use your calender and count 28days from the day it starts, you'll notice that on each month, the date changes...it's not consistent. Mood swings occurs rarely, let me assume it occurs on every month of her menstruation which isn't true 'cause I'm also a lady who may have experienced mood swings. How long is it meant to last?. It's a fallacy that mood swing would last as long as two weeks on each month. If she's not cheating then she has a mental issue.