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Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by thunderbabs: 7:24pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
What did u do to ur vagina gangan? Das wha me i want to knw fa |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by maasoap(m): 7:24pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
KreativGenius:Thank you. I said it, it has gone beyond lying. The guy will never be happy with what she did (fake hymen), not with she said (claimed to be a virgin). |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Impostor: 7:25pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Cedarseeds: Stop arguing, just tell him a man took advantage of you. SIMPLE. BETTER TELL HIM THAT THAN ALLOW HIM find out in future. TELL HIM THAT THE MAN TOOK ADVANTAGE OF YOU |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by smada13(m): 7:25pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
My sister, quietly let it pass by and shut your mouth for some years, since he had sex with you and he couldn't know, why scatter your incoming marriage with your wide mouth madam? . |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Mydazz(m): 7:27pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Lomprico2: That wedding OAT cracked me up big time 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 7:27pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
maasoap: She will lie she didn't know, or that she didn't bleed. If it's tight sha, or if she didn't have intercourse since then it will be tight, and the guy will imagine she didn't bleed, this is the other or only excuse she has to give |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by SPOILT9JAOLOSHO(m): 7:29pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
thunderbabs:Baddext guy sighted 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Talkwell: 7:29pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
sniperwolf: ur username is similar to a youtuber that runs a gaming channel |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by free2ryhme: 7:30pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Cedarseeds: fabricated lies |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Adebowale89(m): 7:31pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
not all lies are lies. some lies are psychologically regarded as wisdom I felt is unnecessary telling him, so far he had found his was inside of you I'm a man, if you tell me sth like this thereafter, my respect, love and trust for you we melt down ask for God forgiveness and move on |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Chukazu: 7:32pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
what nonsense! you both already had sex,so if you would feel guilty before a priest ,he should as well feel guilty . if he was looking for a decent girl then he should have been decent enough not to sleep with you |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by edumondial: 7:33pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
My sister kindly tell him the truth about urself. What happened was like a rape, u didn't consent to it. And since then, u hv kept to urself and detest having any affair with any man. Kudos to you! Pls tell him and believe me, he would love u the more. Do not build ur marriage foundation on lies. Thank you |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 7:35pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
freakthingz: Marry a fifteen year old...what the hell for..?? Marry means u'll go in depth knowing the persona nd ask a lot of info. Casual sexx don't require a lot of info...when I use to shag without care...I've had sex with a girl in less than 4hs of meeting.. I'm just saying a lot of men sleep with these minors not knowing they are minors...u need to see my 14year old niece..u'll think she's 25 or something..her mum is just afraid..they monitor are social media life 24/7 |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by tosyne2much(m): 7:37pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
KreativGenius:It's better she shut her mouth because the truth will most likely cost her the marriage, or what do you think? |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by kennypedia(m): 7:38pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
frenzyduchess:I believe not everyone is lucky, why do girls lie when it comes to sexuality I have met with someone who had consentual sex with her ex but due to parental problem they were separated but had to lie she was drugged to her fiancée just because he knew she's not a virgin |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Raphael007(m): 7:39pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Good day OP, well you didn't only lie about being a virgin to him but you also deceived him by doing some stuff to your virgina which make it premeditated, well my own two kobo is that you keep it to yourself, since it has already happened but strive to be truthful at your dealings it will help you a great deal since it has to do with marriage. |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 7:39pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
tosyne2much: If she's reading this, if she didn't have sex since then, the passage will be tight and almost the same like a virgin, at times, if it's very long, it becomes super tight, she needs to shut her mouth up. Not every virgin bleeds, more son, every guy knows girls lose virginity from intense exercising or may not bleed at all. Please Tosin tell her to shut up |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 7:40pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
freakthingz: Yes I would if I ddnt know she's 15....did u see the Rmd's daughter's from a thread yestday..by this time last week she was still 15... Tell me u won't shag if she threw herself at u and u ddnt know about the age details... There was a time I go to parties and clubs alot..u dnt enter Nigerian bars and clubs with ID...guy, pple asks for age when konji is calling a the lady infront of you looks like 25 |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by macphilip: 7:41pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
so you were fairly used OK but lied that you are brand new Naija girls can lie for Africa |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by dollytino4real(f): 7:42pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
why lie? who virgin epp? 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 7:43pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Because of the mentality of people, now the writer stated that he thought she was decent because she was a virgin, I am sure that is one of the things that also motivated him to put a ring on it, they forget that even so called virgins are doing anal, go north, you go fear Looking at it from all angles, it's better she shuts up sha kennypedia: |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by iamrammy(m): 7:44pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Cedarseeds:you did some stuff to your vagina....if truely u only had sex once u wouldn't have needed to do anything to your vagina because it would have still been intact,stop lying to yourself the only reason you are here is because you had relationships and you are worried that you will need to keep doing stuffs to your vagina to keep it tight. i won't judhe you but you are wicked for decieving that young man.more reasons why i can't trust no biatch 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 7:49pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
sinaj:On your mind now, you think you made sense... ...you are right on your mind! YOU MADE SENSE!! |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by MrDKR(m): 7:49pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Madam, why complicate your problems? You no know say "follow-come" na follow come? Well, since you said he had had sex with you if I get you properly, he might not get too mad @ you, after all, e don chop him own share too. But on a more serious note, find time to confess to him as soon as possible that you lied to him, HE WILL SURE RESPECT YOU for that, but IF he discovers in future, trust me that's the beginning of the crack in your home. Goodluck Girl! |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Codes151(m): 7:50pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Cedarseeds:you are a crook! But it’s cool... Is he a virgin? If no! Don’t bother telling him shit. |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by kidneystones(m): 7:51pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
My darling sister, its your conscience n the bitter truth about conscience is until you clear , it will keep coming and haunting you , my compromised advice is that you let him know , cos your conscience won't free you easily. Talking from experience. |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 7:52pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
OrestesDante: As a lady if you do not have sex for a long time it gets tight there. But since the op said she did some stuffs that means she had sex after her incident with her uncle. If its only your uncle that has slept with you then let your husband know you were raped. |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 7:52pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
freakthingz: U don't have to ask me a polar question on this matter just to hook me..we are not in a court of law..we r only being objective here based on the OP's presented information... No a fifteen year old is not an adult....but pple ought to learn to be responsible and not blame the sex she fully had consent to on ignorance just because her birth certificate is saying one or two digit less than 18... Her mates are making millions...how old is Kylie jenner when she started making money...I get all ur points anyways.. |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by enemyofprogress: 7:52pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Tell him and be rest assured that you will lose his confidence and respect. Who truth epp? |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Rhea(f): 7:52pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Cedarseeds: You need to sit down with this man as soon as possible and tell him everything you have not told him about yourself. I can guess that there are so many things you are keeping from him. It also gives him the opportunity to open up to you fully if he has not done that part. When you build your marriage on one lie, you set the stage for a guaranteed disastrous marriage. After that, if he still wants to go on with the marriage (and he will, if he truly loves you), then you can enter the marriage vow with a clear conscience that fears no accusation. If you think you can slide one cheap lie here and there and play it smart, my dear, you never see anything. If the man is marrying you because you are a virgin, then you should not be entering such a marriage anyway. Make sure you have this meeting as soon as possible. 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by AryEmber(f): 7:53pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
1StopRudeness:Don't mind Op jare, 15 ko 2 ni.The only kid I believe may be innocent is a 6 years old. I was 13 when our ex-neighbour said he'd like to show me how much he loved me in his bedroom,the kind of song I sang to my mom en,she was shocked sef cause we had not talk about anything sexual before but trust school friends to fill you in. 1 Like |
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