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Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Fxwarrior: 6:24pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Cedarseeds: Ignorance is bliss in this situation . He himself is not a virgin, abi you never ask am.. Telling him will hurt his pride and he won't trust you again thayt is if he doesn't cancel the weddin. 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by tolexy123: 6:24pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
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Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Klington: 6:25pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Awkward moment Men don dey suffer since the days of Adam and eve
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Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by tolexy123: 6:25pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Please help I had to create a new account for this. When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days. I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied. The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with? After God, abeg fear ladies |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by sogud(m): 6:26pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Cedarseeds: My dear tell him d truth, he's ur husband to b, bcoz if he find out on it own he wil neva trust u again......tel him nw b4 it wil b too late.. for mre advice contact dis nmber 0806-3588-264 |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by 9jatatafo(m): 6:26pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Scammer!!! Using your fake virginity to scam the innocent man. |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Kondomatic(m): 6:26pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
makydebbie:You don't know a third of what I know about Vjay |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by tosyne2much(m): 6:27pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
OrestesDante:Some babes go be like, "OP, abeg tell us the trick wey you use wey make the thing be like tear rubber nah" |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by madjune(m): 6:27pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
I don't usually comment on topics like this. For you to have closure or peace of mind, it may be best for you to go a priest and confess. The matter is beyond your husband now. 80% of marriages and homes have untold secrets and lies swimming under and still, both parties try to make the best out of it. We just learned Tinubus dead son wasn't born by Remi and you still see them beaming happily as ever after old couple. You just bought your first box of secret. I'm sure your husband might have his. That shouldn't erode the love you two share. It makes you both human with common weaknesses. 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by 9jatatafo(m): 6:27pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Fxwarrior: You missed it all. The man did not lie to the wife that he was a virgin before they got married, it is the woman who lied. we are talking about lie here 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by stuffs4me(m): 6:28pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Cedarseeds: Thunder fire that your evil lying mouth there. See who is talking fa. You are a pathological liar. How can a 15year old girl not know what sex was. Saying a 15year old girl doesn't know what sex was is another big lie. After you have fvcked the whole street you now went on to deceive an Inocent man. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by walex2(m): 6:28pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
He already had sex with you before marriage, therefore there is no justification to tell him anything. Both of you are culprits enjoy your future home |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by theemy(m): 6:28pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
pocohantas:So blunt and wierd |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Ishilove: 6:29pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Cedarseeds:So why do you want to now open up a can of dead, stinky worms? Why the awkwardness? He has already slept with you and was satisfied so why do you want to complicate your life? Be wise. Forget the past, move on and let your secret remain between you, the long married man, Nairaland and your God. |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by makydebbie(f): 6:30pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Kondomatic:Busted!! |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Ejomax77(m): 6:30pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Seriously I don't know why ladies lie bout their "virginity status" |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Strobe(m): 6:31pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Tell him before you regret your actions at a later stage. I doubt it was only that man you slept with and if i am correct, just disclose everything to him. Hopefully,he is reasonable and doesn't call it off! Good luck |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by dharts: 6:31pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Some secret are better carried the crave. Keep shut and enjoy ur marriage babe. Evenif he finds out, deny it nothing will happen. |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by makydebbie(f): 6:31pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Ishilove:Trouble will be sleeping and she's going to wake it. |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 6:32pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Ishilove:What is your own now? Alarina. |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 6:32pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
tosyne2much: |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Matam(f): 6:32pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
You didn't need that lie to prove your decency however, you have lied and now you can't keep it anymore. You can keep this as your secret after all what he doesn't know won't kill him but with the way you are acting I suggest you tell him when he is in a good mood and be ready for the consequences. 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Yusuf54: 6:34pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Dont tell him,keep ur secret to urself,trust no one,just try to forget ur past |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by tosyne2much(m): 6:35pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
The decision is yours but I want you to know that there are two things involved It's either you tell him the truth and you lose him or you tell him the truth and things still work out fine. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Dearlord(m): 6:35pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
...With due respect , I disconcor with those who says let the sleeping dog lye because a sleeping dog will surely wake and when that happens it might be too late and your cross won't be carried by any of them above . So, the best thing to do as your feet can't withstand the lies is to withdraw the lies on a soft tune. ...have a blessed marriage in advance my child. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by eyekaynoble: 6:35pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
stuffs4me: bad mouth |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by tosyne2much(m): 6:37pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
OrestesDante:Abi how you think am? |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 6:37pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
tosyne2much: She has lost him before the wedding, the guy will definitely feel conned, and she'll pay for it big time. I wonder why chicks lie. If a guy loves you, he loves you. Stop raising expectations and then making pipu look stufid 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Nobody: 6:37pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
7Alexander: The husband is just a novice...what could she have done, sow back the hymen.?? The guy just dey vex me.... One chic tried to fool me with swelling injections administered to the vaginal opening faking a tightened feel...and a force cause a partial bleed... but as a confirm street boy.... I decode the parole sharp ally... Guys allow themselves to be fooled...virgin pvssy isn't just in the feel of tightness, it also has a look,...the chic wey go package parole give me go try gaan oooo... I Say again..the husband dey vex me.. . 1 Like |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by amunkita(m): 6:37pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
OP, do u think we re foolz Do u even have the slightest idea that my neighbor deflowered me story don cast tey tey... I pity the man sha cous wen that alum u used wears off, u would be as wide as d Atlantic ocean. |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Ishilove: 6:37pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
OrestesDante:Ayam just observing ni o |
Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by Gbire111: 6:37pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
[quote author=Cedarseeds post=62088232]Please help I had to create a new account for this. When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days. I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied. The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with? |
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