H2O2:

It's the asinine American mentality of female liberation (emancipation or whatever else they would like to name it), through misplaced priorities and acts of promiscuity  that is worrying platk.

H2O2:

If you love your casual sexual promiscuity which makes you slutty, just own up to it instead of pointing accusatory fingers at men for your sleazy habits.

davidylan:

Its obviously "them" not the dude. Dudes are not silly, facial beauty and being good in bed are not necessarily criteria for marriage.

davidylan:

Absurd. What religion where your forefathers practicing 300 yrs ago? I'm sure your mom would tell you that women of those days were far more moral than the dross we have on offer today.

H2O2:

If you love your casual sexual promiscuity which makes you slutty, just own up to it instead of pointing accusatory fingers at men for your sleazy habits.

na2day?:

thank u, u know these girls create a problem and complain about it later, they want a man that is sensitive, the guy becomes sensitive and they cry out later, i want a real man bcuz the guy now is a master in being overly sensitive just like they are. they want casual s3x and they will complain that they cant find a faithful partner. tomorrow they will say men dont know what they want, we do, all we want is s3x, if u want more than that then we will add other qualities to our demand, church close!

follypimpi:

Can't they focus on any other thing apart from MEN,is pathetic being bitter when they are the creator of their own misfortunes.You hardly see a girl whose in a relationship with her man right by her side moan about half of the things i see on here,so the reason could just be cos they r SINGLE.

follypimpi:

Can't they focus on any other thing apart from MEN,is pathetic being bitter when they are the creator of their own misfortunes.You hardly see a girl whose in a relationship with her man right by her side moan about half of the things i see on here,so the reason could just be cos they r SINGLE.

H2O2:

I seriously think so too. IF they aren't so single, bitter, frustrated, constipated, Hot. . you name it, they wouldn't be here spewing these jagbajantis. Real women who've got real men in their lives don't partiipate in all this trash talk.

follypimpi:

Can't they focus on any other thing apart from MEN,is pathetic being bitter when they are the creator of their own misfortunes.You hardly see a girl whose in a relationship with her man right by her side moan about half of the things i see on here,so the reason could just be cos they r SINGLE.

davidylan:

there are married women here and those who are in genuinely loving relationships, do you see them supporting such nonsense?

H2O2:

I seriously think so too.  IF they aren't so single, bitter, frustrated, constipated, Hot. . you name it, they wouldn't be here spewing these jagbajantis.  Real women who've got real men in their lives don't partiipate in all this trash talk.

davidylan:

there are married women here and those who are in genuinely loving relationships, do you see them supporting such nonsense?

follypimpi:

So you got issues with the double standard from what i have gathered from your post,if MAN can bed 500 girls,you should be able to bed 500 dudes too with your dignity intact ?

davidylan:

Absurd. What religion where your forefathers practicing 300 yrs ago? I'm sure your mom would tell you that women of those days were far more moral than the dross we have on offer today.

davidylan:

I dont think so. the problem is they just arent finding the men they wish they could have. You can only settle for what is available to you.

You know the facts, you're just pretending. Men do it NOT because it is an only option but because they want to. For women it is either that or a life of pining away in relative obscurity.

H2O2:

I seriously think so too. IF they aren't so single, bitter, frustrated, constipated, Hot. . you name it, they wouldn't be here spewing these jagbajantis. Real women who've got real men in their lives don't partiipate in all this trash talk.

follypimpi:

Can't they focus on any other thing apart from MEN,is pathetic being bitter when they are the creator of their own misfortunes.You hardly see a girl whose in a relationship with her man right by her side moan about half of the things i see on here,so the reason could just be cos they r SINGLE.

H2O2:

certainly not.

the lots are not loose and irresponsible. they have no time for such.

na2day?:

oh there is one who got her hubby through "casual s3x" , she is supporting her fellows to continue in their stupidity although we know that she is also asking pastors to pray for her so that they may see vision, just in case the hubby still into casualties  

platinumnk:

Maybe I think too deep for all of yall.
think back of the days, when the ten commandments were laid down.
Do we choose which commandment to follow for a certain gender?

How many actually practice what they preach?
Whats good for geese aint good for the gander?

follypimpi:

Can't they focus on any other thing apart from MEN,is pathetic being bitter when they are the creator of their own misfortunes.You hardly see a girl whose in a relationship with her man right by her side moan about half of the things i see on here,so the reason could just be cos they r SINGLE.

davidylan:

hmm i humbly beg to disagree on that one. thinking deeply does not seem to be a strong point of urs.

Back to topic . . . i wonder what the 10 commandments had to do with this. You said and i quote - Morals and so called "good manners" stemmed from religion.

But 300 yrs ago the women in Owerri didnt have the liberty of knowing that anything called the "10 commandments" existed. they had 1000 times better morality than the women of today who have the 10 commandments in their faces all day. So just exactly what is your point?

I notice that a lot of the women here are quick to label others "bitter" for daring to disagree with a clearly wayward lifestyle. It just makes me wonder . . . "bitter" of what and who?   We really dont know you at all . . . and are not in a hurry to do so. thanks.

platinumnk:

You cant prove that David.
They have nomad societies where women  have more than one husband - polyandry
So are you to tell me they dont suscribe to morals?

platinumnk:

No bitter is when you have all kinds of posts ragging on women- issues for real.
When they are at home with mr Tissue and Mrs Lotion  

Mmmbop:

Platinum dear, there are double standards on both ends, doesn't mean it's right, that's just the way the cookie crumbles

davidylan:

I basically cant understand what exactly it is you are responding to. You seem to go widely off tangent half the time . . . here we call it "fishing".

I specifically reiterated igbo societies of 300 yrs ago when they had no established religions as you had today . . . they had morals. So your claim that morals only stem from religions is wrong.

platinumnk:

Then what leaves those who see past that? In the Christianity sense, hell burns for both men and women.
So why should society castigate one and raise the other?

So next time a dude rapes a woman he should not recieve more jail time if it's the other way round

davidylan:



1. this is not one of those posts . . .
2. This isnt discussing "women issues". This is a discussion on misplaced priorities, lack of morals and emotional imbalance is masquerading as "liberty".
3. How do you know the men here are at home with "mr. tissue"? Many here are happily engaged sorry to burst the bubble.

platinumnk:

There wasnt a bubble to begin with Dont use yourself to speak for others.

follypimpi:

So next time a dude despoils a woman he should not recieve more jail time if it's the other way round

H2O2:

When society castigates broke men what do you say?

platinumnk:

Sigh-
Your points Women in Owerri has morals before religion (as per se)
As per custom.
Morals according to you AND this topic is where the woman would not be sleeping around casually ( as per the topic)

I say there are societies where women are sleeping around with more than one man.
Does that also mean they dont have morals.
Since it is also in their custom?

follypimpi:

Serious ??

davidylan:

hmm i humbly beg to disagree on that one. thinking deeply does not seem to be a strong point of urs.

Back to topic . . . i wonder what the 10 commandments had to do with this. You said and i quote - Morals and so called "good manners" stemmed from religion.

But 300 yrs ago the women in Owerri didnt have the liberty of knowing that anything called the "10 commandments" existed. they had 1000 times better morality than the women of today who have the 10 commandments in their faces all day. So just exactly what is your point?

I notice that a lot of the women here are quick to label others "bitter" for daring to disagree with a clearly wayward lifestyle. It just makes me wonder . . . "bitter" of what and who?   We really dont know you at all . . . and are not in a hurry to do so. thanks.

platinumnk:

I dont understand.

despoil is a crime.
Crime warrants punishment.
You commit a crime, you warrant punishment.

davidylan:

I wasnt addressing any of the above. You dont seem to have the capacity to follow your own arguments coherently. I was responding to your comment that morals stem from religion only. That would make no sense as women 300 yrs ago from Owerri west who didnt have the bible were more moral than women of today.

trying to use customs were it is allowed for women to have more than one husband as an excuse for todays conscienceless woman doesnt wash. The society does NOT approve of women sleeping around for fun . . . dont blame me, that's the way i met it too.

Its funny how women want the liberty to sleep around (only when they are single and desperate) but call men dogs for doing exactly the same.

davidylan:

I wasnt addressing any of the above. You dont seem to have the capacity to follow your own arguments coherently. I was responding to your comment that morals stem from religion only. That would make no sense as women 300 yrs ago from Owerri west who didnt have the bible were more moral than women of today.

trying to use customs were it is allowed for women to have more than one husband as an excuse for todays conscienceless woman doesnt wash. The society does NOT approve of women sleeping around for fun . . . dont blame me, that's the way i met it too.

Its funny how women want the liberty to sleep around (only when they are single and desperate) but call men dogs for doing exactly the same.

follypimpi:


Well so u think if it's the other way round both sexes will serve same jail term ?