Girl846:

I honestly mean no insults but:

There is always a story behind a girl who has reached a point where she freely gives herself away to different men meaninglessly and with no importance attached to it - in the defense that she just "needs to get her rocks off". A point where her self worth is detached from her body.
I believe we (men and women) all want to love and be loved. The only thing that stops us from achieving this is fear, a past heartbreak or a bad experience.

This is why we choose to go down the easy and often self-destructive route of multiple meaningless casual encounters. Where deep emotions and the risk of being hurt will not be encountered.
You will not realize the damage it has caused right now but in the long run its effects are undeniable.

You wonder why some people (men and women) find it hard to be faithful to each other these days? People often deceive themselves and think that "once I get married I will quit my lifestyle and commit to my spouse". What a delusion! Past behavior indicates future behavior!

I think a long deep and serious self-assessment and reflection needs to be done.
May God help you all.

dont worry abt those that will take offense, u cant please every1, just tell the truth as u see it

I want some  2. . .

Girl846:

I honestly mean no insults but:

There is always a story behind a girl who has reached a point where she freely gives herself away to different men meaninglessly and with no importance attached to it - in the defense that she just "needs to get her rocks off". A point where her self worth is detached from her body.
I believe we (men and women) all want to love and be loved. The only thing that stops us from achieving this is fear, a past heartbreak or a bad experience.

This is why we choose to go down the easy and often self-destructive route of multiple meaningless casual encounters. Where deep emotions and the risk of being hurt will not be encountered.
You will not realize the damage it has caused right now but in the long run its effects are undeniable.

You wonder why some people (men and women) find it hard to be faithful to each other these days? People often deceive themselves and think that "once I get married I will quit my lifestyle and commit to my spouse". What a delusion! Past behavior indicates future behavior!

I think a long deep and serious self-assessment and reflection needs to be done.
May God help you all.

it's nothing short of an excuse to be wayward.  
double standards or no double standards, they are blatantly sluts and loose women, and if they're fine with being sluts it's their burden to bear.

well coming from a forum that has posts like

'women wearing trousers will go to hell'

id expect this kind of reaction

to me the whole double standards thing is bull crap

the whole psycology theory is what eludes me

how is one swallowing lies and deciet now the one that psycologically stable??

they are the real ones with the problems to me
take a good look thru some of the pathetic stories here

coming from women that bang cos they think the dude luvs em

or is gonna marry em

or for every reason except for the fact that they enjoy it??

i mean if u think cos a woman is in a casual relationship shes a slut

then ur welcoem to ur thinkin--- i aint gna change it! wats my bizniz

some men say women that aint virgins are sluts

or if she does certain things in bed shes a slut? i can listen to nigerian men blabber all day long

abt this and that

they are the ones sittin in aso rock eyein underage gyals-- off topic

kaaiiiiii is that wat brunel bois get up to

all beauty and no brains! shouldve known smh

^^^^ bla bla bla blah!

Pweety4me:

I want some  2. . .

u want what?

_{Nevermind. . .}

I don't know why you always feel the need to blabber and go off on tangents.
We already know the bitter truth is hard to swallow anyway, and you are definitely not being forced to agree with my opinion; neither will i be coaxed into agreeing with yours.

A slut is a sexually promiscuous woman who has casual sexual relations indiscriminately with multiple partners, randomly, frequently, and once again CASUALLY.  That's what the thread is about and that's my interpretation of it.  To each his own.

Pweety4me:

_{Nevermind. . .}

LMAO!

[PyRo]:

I don't know why you always feel the need to blabber and go off on tangents.
We already know the bitter truth is hard to swallow anyway, and you are definitely not being forced to agree with my opinion; neither will i be coaxed into agreeing with yours.

A slut is a sexually promiscuous woman who has casual sexual relations indiscriminately with multiple partners, randomly, frequently, and once again CASUALLY.  That's what the thread is about and that's my interpretation of it.  To each his own.  

preach it son!

[PyRo]:

I don't know why you always feel the need to blabber and go off on tangents.
We already know the bitter truth is hard to swallow anyway, and you are definitely not being forced to agree with my opinion; neither will i be coaxed into agreeing with yours.

A slut is a sexually promiscuous woman who has casual sexual relations indiscriminately with multiple partners, randomly, frequently, and once again CASUALLY.  That's what the thread is about and that's my interpretation of it.  To each his own.  

we both agree to disagree

ur interpretion is obscured

but i wont waste time explaining

to each his own

na2day?:

LMAO! 

ooo this is on the front page!!!

*jumps up and down*

ayettymama:

we both agree to disagree

your interpretion is obscured

but i wont waste time explaining

to each his own

looks like i gat a sister here 

y me lolz!!!

abi na

im soo gonna write a book!!!

Pweety4me:

hey honey, hope u are doing good? gotta bounce now, will be back online lata  

y me:

looks like i gat a sister here 

right!

I think I've sugarcoated too much.
Simply put: enjoy your bevy of casual flings. Just know that you are a slut.

ayettymama:

y me lolz!!!

abi na

im soo gonna write a book!!!

we are gonna do that together dear--lol

[PyRo]:

A slut is a sexually promiscuous woman who has casual sexual relations indiscriminately with multiple partners, randomly, frequently, and once again CASUALLY.  That's what the thread is about and that's my interpretation of it.  To each his own.  

i mean imagine this

[PyRo]:

I think I've sugarcoated too much.
Simply put: enjoy your bevy of casual flings. Just know that you are a slut.

DDDDDDDaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuummmmmmmmmmmmm!

y me:

i mean imagine this

what is there to imagine, that is the definition of a slut period, just the same way u girls define a man that sleeps around as a dog, goat or whatever more juicy names u have in ur arsenal

y me:

we are gonna do that together dear--lol
i mean imagine this

What's so difficult to imagine, grasp or even fathom about "this"? You can either articulate yourself or remain taciturn, it's your choice. What's casual sex if not a sweetened word for sexual promiscuity? Perhaps you prefer to be called a "new feminist" who is simply expressing her right to female empowerment and sexual liberation in a very colorful way.

na2day?:

what is there to imagine, that is the definition of a slut period, just the same way u girls define a man that sleeps around as a dog, goat or whatever more juicy names u have in your arsenal

na2day nah you wan make me talk now abi ok
listen the guy was right when he said this A slut is a sexually promiscuous woman who has casual sexual relations indiscriminately with multiple partners, randomly, frequently
but the fact is that, not everyone wants commitement
i mean what is wrong with having a guy(not numerous)whom you just fu-ck with no strings attached
and in this case you can call it quit anytime anyday without both party taking it to be heartbreak  

[PyRo]:

What's so difficult to imagine, grasp or even fathom about "this"? You can either articulate yourself or remain taciturn, it's your choice. What's casual intimacy if not a sweetened word for sexual promiscuity? Perhaps you prefer to be called a "new feminist" who is simply expressing her right to female empowerment and sexual liberation in a very colorful way.

the truth is i gat a lot to say concerning this topic but am really not in the mood for long typing
like i said earlier you are right and wrong at the same time

y me:

na2day nah you wan make me talk now abi ok
listen the guy was right when he said this A slut is a sexually promiscuous woman who has casual sexual relations indiscriminately with multiple partners, randomly, frequently
but the fact is that, not everyone wants commitement
i mean what is wrong with having a guy(not numerous)whom you just fu-ck with no strings attached
and in this case you can call it quit anytime anyday without both party taking it to be heartbreak  

do u really want me to answer that? dont get me started

yawns

officially

*ignored*

yme i wont bother if i were u

some people are not worth the energy to type

na2day?:

do u really want me to answer that? dont get me started

dont, i mean not now when i dont feel like typing

ayettymama:

yawns

officially

*ignored*

yme i wont bother if i were u

some people are not worth the energy to type

that is one nice advice and am sticking to it

CONSEQUENCES - http://www.rense.com/general65/slutpride.htm

Feminism is responsible for turning woman into a sex object by undermining her identity as a wife and mother. Let me remind you of the hate feminist theorists feel toward heterosexuals and the biological family.
 
In the book, Feminist Politics and Human Nature, Allison Jagger, a philosophy professor at the Univ. of Colorado, writes that the nuclear family is "the corner stone of woman's oppression: it enforces women's dependence on men, it enforces heterosexuality and it imposes the prevailing masculine and feminine character structures on the next generation."
 
Feminist ideology aims to destroy heterosexual marriage, the cornerstone of social and individual stability. Our purpose, identity, values, support and companionship all depend on our family relationships.
 
Due to the decline of the family caused by feminism, male-female relations have been reduced to the level of sex and poisoned. Every man and woman has become a potential sexual object or predator. It doesn't matter if someone is married or underage. No one is off limits.
 
Men who do not become husbands and fathers and continue to see women as sex objects suffer from arrested development. Dozens of tits-and-ass magazines like Maxim perpetuate a juvenile attitude. There isn't one print magazine devoted to fatherhood.
 
Young women today put their energy into sex appeal. Men are attracted by sex, but they stay for a woman's other qualities. Someone said, there is nothing sexier than intelligence.

this thread is on anoda lane,

The main thing is that, it is a personal decision, if a person decides to do casual sex then it is their wahala afterall this world na by PER-HEAD

ayettymama:

yawns

officially

*ignored*

yme i wont bother if i were u

some people are not worth the energy to type

pls don't ignore me I won't survive, shior!

@ ayettymama
                   Can u pls explain why a good number of girls feel bad,wronged when a healthy intimate sexual relatnshp is called off by either party; but alas when rumours start goin round dat the guy slept with the girl(which we all knw obviously occured), the lady in question feels bad or wronged!. Y cant this perceived "wronged" lady spread her rumours as well by sayin SHE slept with the guy. Pls is ther sumthin amiss in dis suggestion NLanders?

y me:

dont, i mean not now when i dont feel like typing

good, bcuz I got a million pages to give u as my reply

ayettymama:

yawns

officially

*ignored*

yme i wont bother if i were u

some people are not worth the energy to type

Thats the best advice- Its these men who want to justify why they wankeroff on Sunday Nights  

@eldee- Its a shame we have these double standards

dskenky:

@ ayettymama
                   Can u pls explain why a good number of girls feel bad,wronged when a healthy intimate sexual relatnshp is called off by either party; but alas when rumours start goin round dat the guy slept with the girl(which we all knw obviously occured), the lady in question feels bad or wronged!. Y cant this perceived "wronged" lady spread her rumours as well by sayin SHE slept with the guy. Pls is ther sumthin amiss in dis suggestion NLanders?

The reason why anybody would want thier life private? Is it printed for the press?


@ayyett- have u copped that Sade CD? its smooth

[PyRo]:

What's so difficult to imagine, grasp or even fathom about "this"? You can either articulate yourself or remain taciturn, it's your choice. What's casual intimacy if not a sweetened word for sexual promiscuity? Perhaps you prefer to be called a "new feminist" who is simply expressing her right to female empowerment and sexual liberation in a very colorful way.

Treadcarefully, Nice new Id

y me:

the truth is i gat a lot to say concerning this topic but am really not in the mood for long typing
like i said earlier you are right and wrong at the same time

Even if you tatoo it on thier brains they still wont get it Its a shame

platinumnk:

Treadcarefully, Nice new Id

What's to be treaded carefully? You must have been expecting someone to appeal to your sentiments and emotions. If the dingbat hadn't banned the previous one there would be no need for the new. . . but then whose business is it?