Ujujoan:

Why would I complain when that's what I wanted in the first place

every woman likes to know she got her spell on u, u cant just get enuf of her, even in a casual r/ship, and when she discovers that you dnt give a shit other than hitting ''it'' then she starts trying to hook a broda to get him to pay attention. that conforms to the first basic law of getting a girl, ''act like u dnt care, and see her coming at u''

ayettymama:

lolz

erm im not talkin abt players here

im talkin abt a single guy and a single girl having a mutual understanding

i dont form relationships with those kinda men!

men act like they dont enjoy it

but they all expect it

and when they see urnot on it

they start proffesin all sorts!!!!

any guy dat fancies that sort of arrangement is a player!

and blive me, everyman wants that kinda arrangement,

which means everyman is a player.

my take is, if both parties know whats going on then i have no problem with casual relationships

lol no u have it twisted!!!

it means ur both adults

im not big on relationships

esp when i no very well they ain goin anywhere!

nnobody is bein 'played' hence the term mutual understanding!

smooooooth:

every woman likes to know she got her spell on u, u cant just get enuf of her, even in a casual r/ship, and when she discovers that you dnt give a poo other than hitting ''it'' then she starts trying to hook a broda to get him to pay attention. that conforms to the first basic law of getting a girl, ''act like u dnt care, and see her coming at u''

D

i dont think u understand wat a casual relationship is??

lol, the shipped ones?

smooooooth:

every woman likes to know she got her spell on u, u cant just get enuf of her, even in a casual r/ship, and when she discovers that you dnt give a poo other than hitting ''it'' then she starts trying to hook a broda to get him to pay attention. that conforms to the first basic law of getting a girl, ''act like u dnt care, and see her coming at u''


any guy dat fancies that sort of arrangement is a player!

and blive me, everyman wants that kinda arrangement,

which means everyman is a player.

You are missing the point here. She doesn't want her 'spell' on you! She wants to be able to call you up only when's she's all hot and bothered. She wants you to be her natural vibrator!

Who cares if you are a player

hehehehehehe

if u eva tell a man u want him to be ur natural vibrator u will see tears!!!!!

kaiii

ibkaye- erm yea the ones that werent born and bred here

the ones that are are veeery different!

what kind of men you been rolling with ayetty?
the ones i know would jump at the chance of being ur personal vib with exclusive exclusion of NSA.
I honestly think most men would jump at that chance but how many women out dere would actually come out with such intention?
remember such things are frowned upon by the SO CALLED religious church going nigerians that hide under the umbrella of "i'm a good gurl".

It's a whole different thing entirely though if u rub it on der face that they are being used.
no one wants to feel used beit man or woman.
If things are clearly defined before the start of any relationship then i'd struggle to see any reason why one should expect different after.

lolz

i dont no!!

im yet to meet someone that would just chillax and stop givin me problem!

ayettymama:


ibkaye- erm yea the ones that werent born and bred here

the ones that are are veeery different!

oh I know what you meant

@topic
do you usually set them straight? beforehand that is

ibkaye:



@topic
do you usually set them straight? beforehand that is

i seriously doubt she does. no stereotyping here but i just can't imagine a nigerian girl stating such intentions but then again i have met quite a few whom obviously have been exposed to free expression kinda lifestyle.
Wots the biggie with intimacy anywayz?, both gender are helping eachother to curb much needed urges so no biggie

jay bee:

i seriously doubt she does. no stereotyping here but i just can't imagine a nigerian girl stating such intentions but then again i have met quite a few whom obviously have been exposed to free expression kinda lifestyle.
Wots the biggie with intimacy anywayz?, both gender are helping eachother to curb much needed urges so no biggie

friends with bens ey

Theres a subtle way of saying anything

these men jus cant handelit!

hmmmmmmm, *sniffs air*

the rate at which NL girls come here to fool themselves is unbelievable. none of these girls that run their mouth here has ever said that to a guy, and they very well know that over 99% of the guys they ever hung out with was just there for the killing and they come here to make mouth like they are all that. shior!

The guy in question clearly misunderstood your signals, and to make matters worse, you didn't make your intentions known before the wholetin started, because most guys will quickly sign the deal and move on,

sultan003:

The guy in question clearly misunderstood your signals, and to make matters worse, you didn't make your intentions known before the wholetin started, because most guys will quickly sign the deal and move on,

thank u jare, women and their stupid mind games

@ayett- some guys fall in love with the nookie and especially if he senses "more" with u

@topic- I dont do casual relationships. My mind dont flow that way.

^^I must have missed that post, just like women trip over men. men trip also.

kini big deal

Casual relationships can do more harm than good and will leave lasting scars.

Life is too precious to gamble with.

^^ not really the damage comes from when people decieve themselves!

ahh platti i see u! you know my philosophy!

na2day you need help!

are en difficult to talk to or should a shag be difficult to get??

pls say what u no then get out! cos u dont no me and the sounds of it women like me!

pls not every woman needs bs!

ayettymama:

^^ not really the damage comes from when people decieve themselves!

ahh platti i see u! you know my philosophy!

na2day you need help!

are en difficult to talk to or should a sleep with be difficult to get??

pls say what u no then get out! cos u dont no me and the sounds of it women like me!

pls not every woman needs bs!

LOL, I dont think women are meant to be understood

yea

women are onli meant to cry when a dude stops calling!

puhleeeze

the rate at which NL girls come here to fool themselves is unbelievable. none of these girls that run their mouth here has ever said that to a guy, and they very well know that over 99% of the guys they ever hung out with was just there for the killing and they come here to make mouth like they are all that. shior!

my nigga that's the bottom line. the nigerian bitches don't have balls. bitches don't have the balls to go all out to point blank tell you some sh't like that. i'll take stock in the white bitches, they can say that. even some black american bitches that don't give a Bleep can tell you that point blank. these nigerian ragheads, no way. bunch of noisemaking nonsense spitting bitches that only blame men for their nonsense.

Condom:

my nigga that's the bottom line. the nigerian bitches don't have balls. bitches don't have the balls to go all out to point blank tell you some sh't like that. i'll take stock in the white bitches, they can say that. even some black american bitches that don't give a Bleep can tell you that point blank. these nigerian ragheads, no way. bunch of noisemaking nonsense spitting bitches that only blame men for their nonsense.

Why do you have to call girls bitches

madlady:


Why do you have to call girls bitches

same way girls call guys niggas, monkeys and dogs.

na2day?:

the rate at which NL girls come here to fool themselves is unbelievable. none of these girls that run their mouth here has ever said that to a guy, and they very well know that over 99% of the guys they ever hung out with was just there for the killing and they come here to make mouth like they are all that. shior!

You summed up the entire thread in 3 lines.

Condom:

same way girls call guys niggas, monkeys and dogs.

I never have or will.

just saw this thread, so my ayetty is a cheerful giver

cool, now i know who the main chick would be (my plat ) and the side one!

looooooooool

o no he didnt

I left u for platti when i discovered your love for white girls!!!!!

*talk to the hand*