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Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(f): 2:45am On Mar 22, 2010 |
So ive noticed Nigerian guys (well the shipped ones anyways) dont really understand the concept if a woman tells them they #onlywannabang the guy starts declaring undying love if she says she wants a relationship he says hes bein suffocated I really dont get it Is it to do with thier african ego's?? |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Nobody: 3:01am On Mar 22, 2010 |
Who knows hun, who knows. I will leave it to the men to answer it |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by madlady(f): 3:06am On Mar 22, 2010 |
@Poster, don't jab me oh. I think they are very bad for girls , the guy's the only one who's got anything to gain from this kind of arrangement |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(f): 3:17am On Mar 22, 2010 |
Not really madlady not only men benefit from sexual satisfaction lolz but i can see why alot of people would think that its still a taboo for women to be sexually expressive! what of someone like myself??--- everyone knows i dont like men i think relationships are a waste of time (look at all those women lamenting!) but at the same time am not willing to go all sista mary I think as long as your old enuff and know what you want theres nothing wrong with it my only problem is these men- what is thier problem?? because you relationship is sexual doesnt mean u need to start talkin to her anywho doesnt mean she cannot get a man if she wanted doesnt mean shes available to massage you when ur sick! thats what gf's are for! at the same time its when ur clear of this they all fall in love with you and dont leave u alone im sooooooo confused!! |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by madlady(f): 3:27am On Mar 22, 2010 |
^^ Don't be funny, of course I know it's not only guys who benefit from sexual satisfaction. If the guy does not care about you, chances are he will not care if you are satisfied or not, I am sure this is not always the case I am sure you must have some expert lover lover guys but girl I really am not sure this arrangement would work for many girls. |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by na2day2(m): 3:32am On Mar 22, 2010 |
ayettymama: question, have u ever told a nigerian guy that u only wanted to have him for S₤X and he confused that with love? |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Nobody: 3:34am On Mar 22, 2010 |
ayettymama:*death* |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(f): 3:37am On Mar 22, 2010 |
na2day will i have to run away if i say more than once?? i have come to realise naija men dont lik ebein used for sex i mean its ok when they are doin the usin but thats another story i just simply only pick up the phone when im h88rny anddont when im not thats when the niggas call u EVEN MORE!! kai can men no longer read the writings on the wall?? and then when i try and say- erm well unno its neva really gonna work #butwecanstillbangdough they keep disturbing me!!! ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Pweety4me(f): 3:38am On Mar 22, 2010 |
Oy u r u gonna bang doe. . .hehe |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(f): 3:41am On Mar 22, 2010 |
^^ you no unfortunately 90% of these aff man #dontwannabangdoe they are all lookin for women they can decieve!!! |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by chic2pimp(m): 3:46am On Mar 22, 2010 |
na2day?:I made a point of not being the first dude to post on this thread alas Na2Day to the rescue On you post, I'm as baffled as you are Which dude confuses sex with love? |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by na2day2(m): 3:49am On Mar 22, 2010 |
ayettymama: well, i will be very glad if u can at least honestly answer my question. if u want honest from naija guys, how about u show some and just answer my question. chic2pimp: u dey craze oo, na me u bait so? wait make i catch u! |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by chic2pimp(m): 3:52am On Mar 22, 2010 |
na2day?:Go siddon jor You don pass your expiry date and therefore your service is of no use to moi |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Pweety4me(f): 3:52am On Mar 22, 2010 |
@na2day how u dey r u gonna take me 2 d BBQ? lolz i have been mentioning dis BBQ so much 2day i may just have a dream about it. . .am i sad or wat? |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(f): 3:52am On Mar 22, 2010 |
chick2poor u tell me?? na2day i answered ur q ayettymama: just stylishly so i dont get crucified tommorow! |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(f): 3:53am On Mar 22, 2010 |
oi pweety no derailin- this is a serious matter!!!! |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Pweety4me(f): 3:58am On Mar 22, 2010 |
Sorry ma but can u come 2 d bbq wif me? |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by chic2pimp(m): 4:00am On Mar 22, 2010 |
@ YETUNDE Tell you ke? You really don't expect moi to answer my own questions do ya? |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(f): 4:01am On Mar 22, 2010 |
lolz wat u on abt?? i thot there were alot of people goin?? go with one of them!! cant u go with some friends?? or are u underage?? |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(f): 4:02am On Mar 22, 2010 |
chic have u ever asked a girl out b4 and she told u she didnt need a bf?? |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Pweety4me(f): 4:05am On Mar 22, 2010 |
I'm just playing wid u jare abeg me under-age? i am old enuff 2 be your aunt uno? even doe i may act silly sometimes as 4 your topic . . . @OP men will always be men and how many women will just as 4 intimacy ehn? |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by na2day2(m): 4:06am On Mar 22, 2010 |
chic2pimp: may the southeast thunder of calabar fire u! ayettymama: i said answer it honestly, that's why i repeated the question but since u cant come out to say it categorically i will safely assume u have told a "NIGERIAN" that u only wanted him for s3x and he confused that for love. all i can say for now is, i need to see that id1ot that didn't thank his stars and cut himself a deal, i will give him a resounding slap! as for me, i don't shoot breeze, i will tell u if i want s3x up front in many many ways no matter what kind of r/s it is, causal or not. the fact i state that s3x will be in this deal does not necessarily mean i will feel like it depending if after meeting the person, i still feel the same. those that know me know that, that is a question i bring up even in yim chat let alone in real life. now am i endorsing casual r/s, NO! but i always like to have the s3x question clarified very early so if we get to that bridge, crossing it wont be a big deal. more so, i like to know where folks stand on their s3xual orientation(not talking abt gays or straight folks but what they are open to accept in a r/s) |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by na2day2(m): 4:07am On Mar 22, 2010 |
Pweety4me: wassup with the BBQ deal? iight, i will take u out baby sis |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by chic2pimp(m): 4:07am On Mar 22, 2010 |
ayettymama: Most Definitely!!!! All she wanted was a no strings attached casual thingy. We call em' Booty Calls!!!! |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(f): 4:10am On Mar 22, 2010 |
na2day u asked me if i ever told a naija man i onli wanted him for sex?? ans; not in soo many words im still a lady! i do try and make it obvious- and they get it- there just not happy with it! pweety yea- ur rite im guessin i caught him off guard! lolz! |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by chic2pimp(m): 4:11am On Mar 22, 2010 |
na2day?: For where? Southeast thunder of calabar dey fear Delta Boys moi Besides Amadioha has alreday impregnated you with octuplets so no biggie |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by madlady(f): 4:12am On Mar 22, 2010 |
na2day?: What a very up-front statement. |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Pweety4me(f): 4:13am On Mar 22, 2010 |
na2day?:Y doesn't any1 know about dis issh of a BBQ?we'll u can go check it out in d meeting up zone. . .abeg 4get dat1 sef. . . Can u agree 2 a s*.x alone deal? |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by Pweety4me(f): 4:15am On Mar 22, 2010 |
@Poster and u think i am bored. . .lolz ok. |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(f): 4:16am On Mar 22, 2010 |
lolz chic im very aware of wat a booty call is-- lolz i just wonder why most of these guys dont like it?? hows it right when a guy wants it but not for the girl?? |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by chic2pimp(m): 4:20am On Mar 22, 2010 |
ayettymama:What species of Men are you interacting with? . Dudes don't like it ke? Dem like am pass fire gan sef. Also there is a reason why it's known as 'BOOTY CALL' not 'D1CK CALL' ya know |
Re: Whats Your Take On Casual Relationships? by ayettymama(f): 4:24am On Mar 22, 2010 |
men dont like it when a woman initiates it lolz i mean maybe most of the perves on nl do and act all dissapointed when u say- well erm yesterday was fun but. . . . . . . . . . . |
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