justwise:

What you just said now is like me saying 99.9% South Africans are HIV positive. Do you have any evidence to show that Ken Oyakhilome's wife is engaging in any fraud activity? Where did you get that 99.9% figure from?

I'm really really holding myself back as i type this, why do pple with little or no brain at all keep insulting Nigerian cos of a few scumbags?

Because she's also a scumbag, it takes a scumbag to know a scumbag

siyanda.N:

What made you think that ALL Nigerian men are scammers?

Well if its not ALL THEN[b] its 99.9%[/b]. I am sorry but Nigerians are NOT to be trusted. I am in South Africa and there is a Christ Embassy church here by Chris Oyakhilome, his brother Ken Oyakhilome's wife is heading it. Come on!!!

sweetie, thats taking it to the extrem, I know Nigerians are tag with this scammer title
but not all of them are bad. but HEY, am not telling u to marry one, if u have decided not
to marry one, thats your prerogative, but do not generalize so broadly.

Am not Nigerian, am not here to support them either, am just talking
like any sane human would. am pretty sure, infact very sure that where ever
you're from must also have (some) scammers so babe there are bad people
in society, it has been that way before me and you were born, and it
will fever remain so and these sort of people are not limited to one tribe,
country or race.

siyanda.N:

What made you think that ALL Nigerian men are scammers?

Well if its not ALL THEN its 99.9%. I am sorry but Nigerians are NOT to be trusted. I am in South Africa and there is a Christ Embassy church here by Chris Oyakhilome, his brother Ken Oyakhilome's wife is heading it. Come on!!!

@ Siyanda; so sorry that 99.9% of people staying in South Arica are HIV positive. It's a pity for y'all.  

SmashingM:


@ Siyanda; so sorry that 99.9% of people staying in South Arica are HIV positive. It's a pity for y'all.  

in the next 10yrs, their population would be less than 50 thousand

siyanda.N would not marry Nigerian men but she has time to join a Nigerian forum and navigate to the Romance section to be precise. What a Cricket!! Why not go to SouthAfricaland? Xenophobic bombaclaat

Though I don't think I'm near marriage yet, a woman who nags and who is fond of comparing my weak areas in relation to other people in my face, such would be a no, no.

I'M NOT NEW TO NAIRALAND BUT I'M NOT A FREQUENT USER. SO I DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO POST THIS BUT I NEED THE ADVICE OF THE HOUSE, IT'S SERIOUS!!!

I'M A YOUNG WORKING-CLASS DUDE AND I'VE BEEN GOING OUT WITH THIS PRETTY LADY FOR A LITTLE ABOVE TWO YEARS NOW. MET IN NYSC CAMP AND WE HIT IF OFF AND IT HAS REALLY BEEN BLISSFUL. THEN THIS LAST EASTER SHE TELLS ME SHE ACTUALLY MADE A 3RD CLASS FROM SCHOOL!!!!
SHE'S BEEN LYING ABOUT HAVEN MADE A 2.1 JUST TO GET ME TO LIKE HER SO MUCH NOW AND DIFFICULT TO LEAVE HER.

MY CRITERIA FOR TOASTING CHICKS HAS ALWAYS BEEN  - INTELLIGENCE, GOOD HOUSE-KEEPER, PRESENTABLE AND IN THAT ORDER

NOW I REALLY LOVE HER AND DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, I CAN'T BEGIN TO TELL THE HURT I FEEL BUT PLEASE PLACE YOURSELF IN MY SHOES AND ADVICE?

ADMIN PLS HELP ME CREATE A TOPIC FOR THIS, THANKS.

It took her 2yrs to say that,then how long will it take her to tell u hw many guys she slept wit or is still sleeping wit.dont be stupid there are so many fishes out there.

i'm really so worried, really like her, just that with her revelation she doesn't meet my first criteria

i can never marry an ugly man and "mr i am too neat."

A lazy, dishonest, ugly, short, unreligious and free for all lady.

A man who is full of deceit, untrustworthy
A man who doesn't have the 3Cs (Christ, character n competence)
A man who is lazy.

@OBEHIOYE:
Sir, I mean no disrespect whatsoever to you, so please take no umbrage at what I'm about to say.

I note that you say when you're toasting "chicks." Do you seriously want a LTR with a "chick"? Such vernacular usage suggests that you might not be taking the women you toast seriously.

Perhaps I'm misreading what you're saying.

A LOUD woman

Will marry,

submissive(Thats how I like em')

short(So I can feel even more powerful)

kind(So I can pound any time)

OBEHIOYE:

i'm really so worried, really like her, just that with her revelation she doesn't meet my first criteria

yeye fowl you. who told u you are inteligent when you cannot figure out how to post a new thread. go sit down o boy make we hear word. na people marry women with primary school leaving certificate

I can never marry a woman with Mills-&-Boons expectations of life. They are dangerously boring, they are nags, and they are soon bereft of liveliness when you think you should both be settling down to tackle life.

iI doubt if iI will ever marry at all