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So me and my girl have been together for about 2years, and she was the one who approached me. but regardless I love her and we are mentally married even planned a future together.
This morning she went to charge her phone somewhere, and I also went to charge mine too, so I just went to to her whstsapp and saw her complaining of pain due to the rough sex.
my heart has been shattered I dnt even know what to do... this my cousin is way older than me and is married, if I confront her Shey may tell him and he may try to hurt me. so pls guys tell me what to do




Will you keep quiet and stop lying to people. You just fabricate story make we pity you abi.

Ok Iet me tell you what to do................... Kill yourself

dvkot:
So me and my girl have been together for about 2years, and she was the one who approached me. but regardless I love her and we are mentally married even planned a future together.
This morning she went to charge her phone somewhere, and I also went to charge mine too, so I just went to to her whstsapp and saw her complaining of pain due to the rough sex.
my heart has been shattered I dnt even know what to do... this my cousin is way older than me and is married, if I confront her Shey may tell him and he may try to hurt me. so pls guys tell me what to do

Op don't brk up with her.
Just convert her to sexdoll and be fvckin her anytime u get hornny

Saff:
I’m guessing you want to console yourself by saying she approached you first. How is that necessary to anything? Or you felt she could do no wrong because she approached you first? Anyways give her second chance

@op, don't follow this advice, if want live long in life.

dvkot:
So me and my girl have been together for about 2years, and she was the one who approached me. but regardless I love her and we are mentally married even planned a future together.
This morning she went to charge her phone somewhere, and I also went to charge mine too, so I just went to to her whstsapp and saw her complaining of pain due to the rough sex.
my heart has been shattered I dnt even know what to do... this my cousin is way older than me and is married, if I confront her Shey may tell him and he may try to hurt me. so pls guys tell me what to do

My brother walk out and see her as a family asset that is available to all.

dvkot:
bro eeh, I would av done that but she's trying to trap me with a baby, and also I can't imagine drilling the same well with my elder cousin... honestly I think I will also find a way to hurt her emotionally not physically... same bitch text me dz Morin DT she will never cheat on me, she loves me bla, bla, and I told her jokingly told her to break up instead of cheating on me. I just weak

bro, block her. Do you have blocking feature on your phone?. Please do. You have no reason to be communicating with silly human. Talking to her further will melt your heart and'll eventually give in.

But guess what, she will do it again. I won't advice you sleep with her. Block her forever and move on no matter how hard it is.

First of all, you have got to break it off with her. And u say she's trying to blackmail you into the relationship with pregnancy. Well I am 100% sure the baby is not yours, who knows how long your cousin has been bleaping her? And then again, you have got to tell close relatives or friends about it since you said that u are scared your cousin might hurt you so everyone will know in case anything happens to you. And then again tell the girl the truth, she needs a break from that guy cos she seems to be in more danger than you. The guy is married and he would do anything to make sure his wife doesn't find out, and let's assume the worst happens and the wife finds out. Won't the wife hurt the girl? Dude I see you love her, so talk to her with all the love u can muster, it's hard but if u have really loved her before then you can still advice her. Take a break from her and don't judge her mistakes,we are who we are.

kenddys:
oga walk out of that relationship and make sure you don't give her any explanation.

His cousin must be rich.

dvkot:
thanks bro, funny enuff i was advising someone against that last week, sleeping with random girls Cus u hurt won't make you better I dnt knw sha, I guess I will gradually break it off, but is hard cos she lives in the next street

Stop being stupid and move on with your life. What’s with these excuses you are making for a cheating slut.

Bro just go and drink body wise... Walk out of DAT relationship.

First of all, you have got to break it off with her. And u say she's trying to blackmail you into the relationship with pregnancy. Well I am 100% sure the baby is not yours, who knows how long your cousin has been bleaping her? And then again, you have got to tell close relatives or friends about it since you said that u are scared your cousin might hurt you so everyone will know in case anything happens to you. And then again tell the girl the truth, she needs a break from that guy cos she seems to be in more danger than you. The guy is married and he would do anything to make sure his wife doesn't find out, and let's assume the worst happens and the wife finds out. Won't the wife hurt the girl? Dude I see you love her, so talk to her with all the love u can muster, it's hard but if u have really loved her before then you can still advice her. Take a break from her and don't judge her mistakes,we are who we are.

Really? what do you want to hear?

First I commend you for not confronting her immediately.
Well is obvious the relationship is over but there remains one thing you must do.
Find out how long this has been happening and try and convince your gf to tell you the truth your cousin don't have to know and of course you have to promise her that you won't ever talk about it.
Cos your gf might as well be the one who started it. I didn't see a reason why they HV to sleep together unless it has been happening long before you met her.
On the other hand, if your scared you can just pretend as if nothing happened and let go of the girl but be advised, the scar stays there for a long long time.

dvkot:
srry my hand is shaking I can't even think well, just want to talk to someone

Bro don't answer people telling you to treat her like a biitch and all that, just walk out of the relationship. A girl messed up one of my guy like you, guys need to be like me. Walk out bro and live your life

gunnersway:
First of all, you have got to break it off with her. And u say she's trying to blackmail you into the relationship with pregnancy. Well I am 100% sure the baby is not yours, who knows how long your cousin has been bleaping her? And then again, you have got to tell close relatives or friends about it since you said that u are scared your cousin might hurt you so everyone will know in case anything happens to you. And then again tell the girl the truth, she needs a break from that guy cos she seems to be in more danger than you. The guy is married and he would do anything to make sure his wife doesn't find out, and let's assume the worst happens and the wife finds out. Won't the wife hurt the girl? Dude I see you love her, so talk to her with all the love u can muster, it's hard but if u have really loved her before then you can still advice her. Take a break from her and don't judge her mistakes,we are who we are.

I don't even think it is his business to advise her of looming danger. She puts herself into it. She should handle it all by herself. Op should sit back and watch and cut off contact with her 100%. But i do agree with you that he should inform family member of his cousin action for precautionary purposes.

If truly what you pasted us true,then
1a Send her a text breaking up.
1b.Give her no explanation or a flimsy excuse
2.Leave town for a while
3.make sure few of your friends you trust are aware of the situation
4Dont revenge. Relax.For you don't reap "where " you sow but what you be "sown".Let " GO" and let "God". Karma is a bitch.

Am speaking from experience. God bless u

Saff:
I’m guessing you want to console yourself by saying she approached you first. How is that necessary to anything? Or you felt she could do no wrong because she approached you first? Anyways give her second chance

She'll still f**k his cousin even if he decides to break up or not

slimjaney:

You are shaking because a girl you are fvcking without paying her bride-price is also fvcking your cousin.... Electric cooker dey inside your brain!!

GET OUT

lol wat a hard saying

Op, does your elder cousin give you any financial or accommodation support?

dvkot:
srry my hand is shaking I can't even think well, just want to talk to someone

i feel you are lying

nanauju:


Create something ke.. What happened to this reason that slept with your married coz. You better tell her what you discovered. She knows that alone is more than enough for breakup Are you sure you won't even take her back if she comes to you for forgiveness. The way I'm seeing you

Exactly what I'm thinking. He's got a very soft spot for her.

Sleep with her cousin too. Why are you dulling.

dvkot:
I don't think is wise for me to tell his wife, she's a devoted christian and a worker in RCCG and her husband (my cousin) is also a member pastor friend... they do hold house fellowship in the same house the he do sleep with dz girl

Tell her. If possible show her the screen shot and break up without a fight. She will regret it. Show the screenshot of the chat to your cousin too and see her reaction but don't tell his wife

O boy u don enter koto

Saff:
I’m guessing you want to console yourself by saying she approached you first. How is that necessary to anything? Or you felt she could do no wrong because she approached you first? Anyways give her second chance

Second chance so she can sleep with his daddy and brothers. I salute you na.

Abbeysunday:
Treat her like a bitch she is......Bleep her like animal morning day and night


Buh while doing so give ur heart to another girl....a girl dat is capable of cheating is capable of murder

U feel me

oga bleeping a girl morning, day , night , midnight isn't in any way a form of revenge against her you just draining your energy which supposed to be used to focus on the way forward with his life

slimjaney:

You are shaking because a girl you are fvcking without paying her bride-price is also fvcking your cousin.... Electric cooker dey inside your brain!!

GET OUT

OP: this is tough love, but he's right actually. She is not your wife, nor your fiancee, so, she's free to date who she wants, yeah? Most girls have like 2-3 guys they see on a regular weekly basis, with a few here and there as the opportunity arises. It's just that most guys delude themselves that they're the only one.

As for me, I understand the situation, but I don't honestly think I can continue with the girl. Imagine if you married the girl, then both of you jam cousin at some family function... won't it always pain you? Save yourself the drama and move on, not because she has multiple suitors - I can't fault her for that - but because the knowledge will kill you inside.

Don’t end the relationship, don’t even confront her if you can , just keep banging and withdraw every boyfriend responsibility you used to provide, if she starts suspecting you and acting up, nagging and all, just tell her she is worrying herself over nothing, as you are doing all this, make sure you are also cheating outside ... take time and reinvent yourself... trust me this is the fastest way you will get over this hurt and her...

Bigprick9inches:

your hand dey shake because of geh?
is this one ok?

I know heartbreak is painful, but it's disappointing when guys act like sissies.

He is even afraid to confront her with the truth.

slimjaney:

You are shaking because a girl you are fvcking without paying her bride-price is also fvcking your cousin.... Electric cooker dey inside your brain!!

GET OUT

pure savage

dvkot:
So me and my girl have been together for about 2years, and she was the one who approached me. but regardless I love her and we are mentally married even planned a future together.
This morning she went to charge her phone somewhere, and I also went to charge mine too, so I just went to to her whstsapp and saw her complaining of pain due to the rough sex.
my heart has been shattered I dnt even know what to do... this my cousin is way older than me and is married, if I confront her Shey may tell him and he may try to hurt me. so pls guys tell me what to do

Are you okay? Say instead "my EX-girlfriend slept with my cousin"
Mschew