EzeIgboNwaChukwu:
shut up there. Unam ikot

UyaiIncomparabl:


No. I won't.
I don't know why most persons cannot comprehend. For the fact I said that I'll love to be really comfortable before I get married doesn't mean I wouldn't stay with my man when the table turns. I'll be with him through thick and thin but seriously, he's gotta be worth the stress. We can't lose everything together. One person has gotta hold the other up.

chinchonglee:
mumu...
Mind ur business next time
u want to speak 4 everybody
pokenoser

Earthbound:

Angy55, whatever you do, don't follow this advice from all these aunties that their time has passed and all they have to show is a fat vagina i.e obo olora as selling point.

vicben27:
now ur talking most ladies now a days, would Just seat back waiting for an already made man.what are you bringing to the table, should be the question.no man will respect his woman if she's fully dependent on him.ecept he chooses to.If you see prospect in him, and a hope for a bright future, encourage him and let the both of you build an empire together, money will come and go. what if his earning well and later looses his job? my elder bro. his an example, and a few others too. the start of a journey may be rough, it's the destination that matters.

BIXYBABE:
Even if I see 30 I go marry, after all I'm also working. I no go kuku kill myself .

Timothyoj:

Bro, with this statement of yours, you cannot plan. So many started small but with their hardworking spirit at work and sound planning they were promoted and also earn more.
Do NOT despise little beginning my brother. Our God of Miracle is real. Activate your plans and thoughts positively and with time you are there.

jeff1607:



Lets just say he looses interest in you.

when money comes it changes people, when they know that money can get you whatever you want, you will begin to weigh options, compare, looking for that thing to drive you happy.

All we hope for is that we are happy and our spouse doesn't change from what we know or met them to be.


Get married or wait till 8years then you would understand.

money is important but the same goes for peace of mind

UyaiIncomparabl:


Don't worry. It's on course. Till I achieve that independence, then there'll be no plans for marriage.

jolyment:
.

You can decide not to reproduce.

Earthbound:
Some of them will come and lie on this thread but don't believe all of them.



Guys, if you are earning five figures, don't marry. I repeat, don't marry unless you have savings northwards of a million after the wedding and new house rent. God has blessed us, as a guy, you can marry even in your 40s. Don't rush into commitments that will make you cash strapped for a long time.


You want the best for your kids, don't settle for less. 60k is perfect for a bachelor. Unless your woman is boxed up, don't try it!

justy15:
Why not, I have people around me whose allowance is just 15k n they are happily married with beautiful wives n kids. What is most important is starting

phemmyfour:
you don't..... The giving should be from both sides

adebayal:
Anytime i come across questions like this, i just laugh out loud cause i knew the responses will not be sincere,so many people living in fantasy land forgetting reality,same people saying they can't marry a guy who earns 50k monthly don't even have a job. i posted a job advert here recently and despite stating i needed a WAEC or OND holder a lot of graduates called to apply and this is a job that pays less than 50k and am sure many among those that called are married....Fact is there are no jobs out there now, even those who have jobs are getting fired everyday..prudent matters a lot even someone that earns 1million a month will still not have savings compare to someone who earns far less, lets always see the Bigger picture today his salary is 50k tomorrow it could be 1million,so also today his salary is 1million tomorrow it can be 50k.everybody wants to get better nobody wants a better last year except for lazy ass dudes i believe with support and passion everyone will get to there goals but at least do not forget Rome was not built in a day.

Afrocentric:
then you are a FOOL.Even those that are liking your comment knew it. Sometimes when you get married things change

resurgent2019:
I read this thread from start to finish. Very interesting read i must say. Personally, i cant marry with 60k. I used to earn three times the sum of 60k but i lost the Job. I didnt marry then and i now earn less than 100k and i am not even thinking of marriage. The issue is, i cant just suffer with a Nigerian girl in Nigeria. The girl might just kill me before my time. Maybe it is my destiny not to marry. I am now resigned to fate.


However, i can marry a Nigerian or foreign girl in a stable society where things work. I am in my mid 30s already and although i feel lonely at times, i am comfortable being single and i can do what i want. In summary, i dont think i can marry a Nigerian girl in Nigeria even if i earn 250k. I guess it is a mind set issue.

UyaiIncomparabl:


How far?

Offpoint:

I no dey fine at all , I dey see your handwork.... so the guy I dey plan give you no earn a mill you no go settle down with am?

Martinez19:
you also forgot two cases:
1) it could be one million today and still be one or more million tomorrow.
2) it could be 50k and still be 50k or less tomorrow.

Life can be dicey, it's safe to remain single if you have 60k as monthly salary. Let's be realistic and discourage marital gambling.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I no need any man now abeg. Financial stability before anything.

Offpoint:


ah! Bluezy13 your attention is needed here o. your crush is saying important here o... double your hustle brother.

maasoap:


I do and that was why I answered your question by saying no. May be you lack comprehending ability.

Offpoint:


ah! your attention is needed here o. your crush is saying important here o... double your hustle brother.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Abeg free that 'Vocabulary' guy.

Bluezy13:


Hehehe...


It's called family planning. That's what we have agreed to do.

She wants to be financially stable before we will take it to another level in order to reduce my expenditures.
Isn't she a wife material?

I'll gladly wait

UyaiIncomparabl:

Abeg free that 'Vocabulary' guy.

Offpoint:

Don't wait brother, when with mans' salary hit 7 digit?

From the view of things she want a break from you... I know she's tripping for you inwardly

Elviswifey1:
60k good nah to compare wit my cousin husband case.he does nothing only walking around spoiling d wife name.they feed him,cloth, pay rent n children fees for 9yrs no support from him to d family only gossip n sleep like woman.give him money to do business he will eat d money n still owe d person that gave it to him.I feel for that woman. She hoped for any amount job for hubby if he will agree to work even if 30k so he can support her n d children.I never see