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Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by aloyin(m): 4:11pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
mheeen! This issue is serious, i fall under number 4 position ryt nw. She introduced me to her fiance as her best friend yes we dey do hunhun. (if u knw u knw). Infact i and her fiance has becom friend dat we cn do widaout calin oursef. I try to brake d friendship bt it hard. D friendship sef dey affect my marriage. I stil dey pray may God help me ooo 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Icon79(m): 4:12pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
It's called Friends with Benefits aka FwB. O pari ImaIma1: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by abbacool(m): 4:12pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Honestly am against the idea of keeping opposite sex as best friend, you cant gave a goat yam to keep it will surely eat it one day. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by irumanle(m): 4:14pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
eagleeye2:This bro just said it all. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by pocohantas(f): 4:14pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
TimeManager: LOL! It doesn't stop your wives from fùcking around, and bringing home the kids for you to train. So, keep making rules o. While women keep running their show undercover. #RuleMaker #StayWoke TimeManager: You sound angry. Calm down, your wife won't cheat you hear? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by gees101(m): 4:15pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
ImaIma1:leave the male friend alone or mentain seriouse distance, guys na rattle snake waiting to strike if the babe jons |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by odehman: 4:15pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by sulakishop(m): 4:15pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Keeping opposite sex as friends is risky especially when married |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Icon79(m): 4:16pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Trust me, you'll eventually breach "the boundaries". I have been there done that so I should know. You won't set out to do anything wrong but, if you two are real close friends, it would happen. Right now, I believe that PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE. Nobody is saying that you can't have any associates of the opposite sex but, for a married man or woman, having a really close friendship with a member of the opposite sex is not a very good idea. O pari victorian: 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by babakb: 4:18pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
safarigirl: Self control always fail when temptation set in continously. Plus for the woman to stay faithful she must consider a lot of things: She must always remember that all men want to hit the P. He can't call frequently especially in the nights. She can't start comparing him with her husband. She shouldn't bad mouth her husband in front of her male friend. She should tolerate her husband's female friends too. She mu 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 4:18pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
AmiciLord: Pls know me. You guys only think of sex when with the opposite sex. All my friends didn't evaporate because i got married and it's same for hubby too 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by tunary(m): 4:18pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
kinibigdil:lol no be lie o because girls of nowadays na ashawo them dey do in the name of relationship. prostitution in another level |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by JacksonOyibo: 4:18pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
ImaIma1:you can have a male friend as a married lady but distance should be maintained oo for safety's sake. The idea of some married ladies having long late night chats with dudes they claim is a close male friend or him taking u out for one thing or the order might lead to feelings or old feelings sparking off.soon u go start to dey compare him with ur husband...especialy if ur husband dey fuk up small.na so e dey take start. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by gees101(m): 4:20pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
ImaIma1:na calabar woman be dis.imaima1.....love love1 |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by hotwax: 4:24pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
pocohantas: Then stay away from marriage. Be a single mother who will not be under anyone. WHy be in a marriage and still have close boyfriends. Why marry ur husband when you know you are not best friends? 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by mikejegede(m): 4:24pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
hotwax: It's okay as long as they r not having sex.. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by 1Sharon(f): 4:25pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
abbacool: Speak for urself. Are you the type of guy that must have sex with every woman you set ur eyes on? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by ibkkk(f): 4:26pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Ere kinni aja n ba ekun se? It's better to stay away from things that could cause stories that touches the heart. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by pocohantas(f): 4:28pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
hotwax: I don't know why you are hyperventilating on my post. It isn't you that will tell me not to marry, you are not the standard for men. So, keep this your under anyone to yourself and wife. I responded to her post on women having 'just platonic friends'. Nowhere did I mention having a best male friend or close boyfriend. I have friends of both gender, I won't cut them off because of marriage. It doesn't affect you. No vex you hear? 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
It's wrong for u as a married woman to keep close relationships with other men. Men are men and will always take advantage of u anytime the opportunity arises. You may think u guys are just friends but if it were possible for u to open their minds and see the lust in them na there u go fear men. Your close male friends should be your brothers and cousins. Or families and no other. Even your Male business partners are not excluded. People no longer respect marriage in this generation. They sleep with any woman. If you like wear the biggest wedding ring for hand and neck dem go still wan do you. Even your husband's friends. Just test one of those your male friends and see how they will fall like naira vs dollar. ImaIma1: 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Nobody: 4:29pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Hanseel1: Maybe you should check the statistics of the rate of divorce in 1980 and compare with the rate of divorce in 2018, and you'll realize that modernity isn't always "progress". 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Seunnzy(m): 4:29pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
To the OP,Karma go soon visit cos u have done it to others too 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by DWJOBScom(m): 4:30pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
NOOOOOOOO |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 4:30pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
lefulefu: Any sensible married woman should know where to draw the line when it comes to friends generally, not to now talk of male friends. Please you guys should relax. My husband doesn't even stop me from relating with them. He trusts me. And if i want to cheat, i don't need to have male friends to do so. If he acts too strict, he knows that i will still do it if it is on my mind to do. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 4:33pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
AmiciLord: They might not respect marriage but i do. Besides, i don't just have any kind of twisted person as my friend and it takes me nothing to drop a friend if we don't fit. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
hotwax: I didn't get the survey o, how did you reach 90% ? You're those type of guys that paint all men to be thirsty, and its not every girl we want to fvck some of us recognize that friendship is okay, I have female friends I've never thought about fvcking not one day. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Karma don travel since my guy. Let's not wait for karma instead we should learn to do unto others what we would want others to do into us. With this you will learn to stay off married women or other people's girlfriends. Seunnzy: |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Olalan:smart guy |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by gees101(m): 4:37pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Hanseel1:u nor dey read post? for married people nothing like best friends with opposite sex, married couples should be their own best friends. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by hotwax: 4:37pm On Aug 17, 2018 |
Seunnzy: I no publish my house address na. |
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