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Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by vulpeslopez(m): 4:02am On Aug 18, 2018 |
The only best friend my wife is allowed to have besides me is God the Father,God the son and God the holy spirit....any other best friend is counterfeit 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by flames01: 5:05am On Aug 18, 2018 |
ImaIma1: It isn't about having male friends; it's about getting too close to them |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by victorian(f): 5:10am On Aug 18, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Their brains is all wired up on sex! Even when all she sees just a brother, in him. Generation of men we have springing up these days is so wacked up on fucking just anyone who smiles at them.. What a shame. My dear, leave them to their delirious thoughts.. No use. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by practicalclass: 5:10am On Aug 18, 2018 |
Wisdom they say is profitable to direct. But it amazes me how we disregard wisdom in matters like this just to satisfy our flesh desires. Keep a distance to avoid temptations and eventually 'stories that touch'. Same goes for Married men keeping having a close friendship with a female friend. It threatens the peace and joy of a marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by victorian(f): 5:10am On Aug 18, 2018 |
vicben27: Story. Keep deceiving yourself! Smhhh 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Roseey0(f): 5:45am On Aug 18, 2018 |
Which folish man stays on the queue of a married woman. What is it you are waiting to gain.... |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by hotwax: 6:58am On Aug 18, 2018 |
I have noticed some females on this thread trying to twist this topic. The topic is about keeping opposite sex as close/best friends. Majority of them can't agree that a married woman or engaged lady should refrain from close contact with besties. Examples of close contacts are Going out to dinner Meeting him/her in a private place Discussing ur relationship Calling in the night when you should be discussing with your husband or wife. There is no harm is having opposite sex as friend solely for business and connections, work colleagues, academics, career.. Most of these 'close' friends have ulterior motivates. But they would pretend. The women arguing here will go crazy the moment they realize their husband have female best friends. Women are known to dish out what they can't take. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by hotwax: 7:01am On Aug 18, 2018 |
Roseey0: It's quiet unfortunate that those guys u chatting with on whatsap are not just their as friends, they are waiting for your mistake to pounce on you and drill that hole. Reality 101 |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by hotwax: 7:03am On Aug 18, 2018 |
victorian: I have seen a strong boss lady falling well fcked by a driver who was later sacked. Sack or no sack...the deed has been done. Men are masters of trickery . Even those pastors you so trrust are masters of sleeping with married women. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Druss(m): 9:52am On Aug 18, 2018 |
No to platonic male or female friends post marriage. One thing will lead to another. One can still have friends but it is much complicated post-marriage than pre-marriage 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 10:39am On Aug 18, 2018 |
flames01: Thank God one person finally sees it |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by victorian(f): 11:50am On Aug 18, 2018 |
hotwax: That's them.. Like I said not every woman is the same.. Be it Boss lady or career lady or even Presido lady.. Not every woman thinks with her toto. U can choose to believe it or not, am least concerned. Cause other women u know cannot control their toto.. Does not mean every woman cannot theirs.. It's like you saying every man out their cannot control their dickk.. And they all loose control and just be fucking house helps or any woman in high place that are close to them.. I know u are still in your twenties, possibly early twenties that's why u have such mindset.. Is sex so irresistible that no human on earth can resist? Because one is close to a opposite sex? Abeggi go and rest with your inconclusive theory. If that's the case, I should be fucking all the hot guys coming around me seeking for my professional services... Smhhhh. Whats even in the dick sef.. Dick I enjoy every week from my man.. His own no do me, na to eye another woman's man abi? Because I come this life because of dickk! and sex? Oh Jeez! Abeg u are still naive. People are making millions and billions of naira,pounds and dollars everyday. You are talking of women not been able to resist a male friend dick! Lol. I pity for this generation.. Suffer never hook una yet. When suffer hook una, and u start seeing ordinary paper as money. Nobody will tell u to seat up, and place sex at the back burner. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Roseey0(f): 12:24pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
hotwax:All the waiting just for drilling... |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by trapQ: 3:55pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
It is easier for a camel to pass through the eye of a needle than to find a Nigerian man who isn't a hypocrite. pocohantas: |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
MissJoy29:aghhh! ..u took quite a risk oo. U know u women are quite vulnerable when u have issues with ur second half and when a guy sees that chance and strikes..u might just fall. He must be a guy who highly respects himself. On the issue of having a very close friend when u married ..yes it can be a distraction. Imagine u with ur husband in the sitting room and he's gisting with u but u paying more attention chatting with ur male friend on whatsap.sometimes such can affect the husband in a negative way. Same with a husband having a very close female friend that he spends more close time with...such marriage is hanging over the cliffhanger.Anyway to each's its own sha. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by vicben27(m): 7:56pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
hotwax:tell her Bro. they claim to be wise, when they fall they start blaming the devil |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
hotwax:so true. Nothing wrong in having the opposite sex as a normal friend but when u as married lady has a male friend that u go out to dinner or cinema with, u share intimate moments and problems of ur marriage relationship with him, u have night calls or long night chats with him..sooner or later e go move to the next level. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
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Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by candygirl4real: 8:48pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
victorian: |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by Nobody: 9:30pm On Aug 18, 2018 |
I will never allow my wife to have a man frnd never not even in the church or office no man can come to my house under the pretence of being frnds u can't dare it |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by MissJoy29(f): 6:01pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
lefulefu:He doesn't just respect himself, he respects me too. Besides, my own vulnerability doesn't make me forget I'm in a relationship. So no matter how vulnerable I am, I still remember that because I don't condone cheating, I shouldn't cheat too(by God's Grace). Yeah, in a happy marriage, the couples are each other's best friend & closest confidant. Remove "happy" from the marriage & you will see the two parties allow others come into their lives and threaten the existence of the marriage. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by MissJoy29(f): 6:06pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
Druss:So so true. Spot on! |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by MissJoy29(f): 6:18pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
flames01:Thank you. There should be boundaries. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 9:28pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
MissJoy29: The guys on this forum expect that once you are married, you severe every friendships with guys and talk to only ladies |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by MissJoy29(f): 10:56pm On Aug 19, 2018 |
ImaIma1:It's not that easy. Besides, ladies can still mislead a married woman. The most important thing is to know the kind of friends you one keeps. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by hotwax: 11:32am On Aug 20, 2018 |
Roseey0: Trust me 99% of them |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by hotwax: 11:35am On Aug 20, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Thats not what they are saying. A married woman should keep distance. Still be friends with them, but on long distance basis. This isnt hard except you are a cheat. And they that are still gluing with you after your wedding are trying to wreck your life. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by ImaIma1(f): 1:29pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
hotwax: Any sensible woman will know that she needs not be too close to avoid awkwardness or stories that touch. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by hotwax: 2:08pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Nice one..I have noticed you are reasonable. |
Re: Is It Proper For A Married Woman To Have A Platonic Male Friend? by megareal: 2:23pm On Aug 20, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Don't mind those quoting you. They are yet to understand that relationships are unique. I had only male friends before marriage. Hubby, then fiance use to come meet us where we were and give the guys drinks. They were there at my wedding and child dedication. We still talk but hardly meet. Infact I am still the refree in most of their relationship ish as it was before I married. Hubby maintained his female friends too and as each of them married off, we will go to their weddings etc. The problem I see with a lot of folks commenting is that sex to them is too cheap hence they think everyone indulges in it casually. The sooner folks learn to control their libido the better trust will be established between both parties. |
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