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Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by Nobody: 9:17am On Sep 13, 2018 |
MexicanWolf: When then do you intend to be financially independent [right][/right] 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by Obakoolex(m): 9:18am On Sep 13, 2018 |
So when is the right time for a man to get money?? |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by Nobody: 9:19am On Sep 13, 2018 |
There is time for everything... marriage is not to be rushed into. You must be mentally, financially and spiritually ready. I personally think women should not get married too early, know yourself first. You should be sure of the kind of person you want to be with, the way you want to live your life. There are no latecomers in marriage, just pray for God to give you the right partner. 3 Likes |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by laoludavid(m): 9:23am On Sep 13, 2018 |
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Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by GuntersChain(m): 9:28am On Sep 13, 2018 |
Marriage is a thing of the mind. You have to have attained that level of consciousness before going into it. |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by FluidQueen(f): 9:49am On Sep 13, 2018 |
Xaos:Again. You said marriage. And Your age range is flawed. Female fertility decline from age 35. Still doesn't mean she wouldn't be able to make kids. But the chances of getting pregnant start to decline. And it's actually almost the same with males. Though men secretes sperm cells Well into their 50's. Their fertility rates also decline from 40, likewise women. No gender's an island. Everybody loses fertility with age. |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by FluidQueen(f): 9:51am On Sep 13, 2018 |
MexicanWolf:This is gold. I think every woman should adopt the above and let it sink in deep. "A woman's best protection is a little money of her own" But regardless. Let them choose what their goal should be. |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by Hopebringer: 9:52am On Sep 13, 2018 |
dairykidd: It is easy to hurl insults when you do not know better . Stupidity is when you think you know, but do not know that you don't but keep talking as if you do. I feel sincere sympathy for you as you were not raised to know better. But when you grow up you will understand. For now your parents did better than to raise such a disrespectful tout. You aren't doing their efforts any justice I am not your age mate so please desist from quoting me with insults |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by FluidQueen(f): 9:53am On Sep 13, 2018 |
Obakoolex:Since these people think they could dictate the age range a full grown adult woman should be married. A man should please start getting money from 14. Else, He's A corpse pretending to be alive. |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by 1miccza: 9:55am On Sep 13, 2018 |
IamPlato: Honestly you deserve a medal for this post... 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by 1miccza: 9:57am On Sep 13, 2018 |
laoludavid: Bros she won't see this here, look for her name with the search button , quote her comments and post this and she will respond.. |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by Realhommie(m): 10:05am On Sep 13, 2018 |
skarlett:He meant the good for nothings, those who only care about looking beautiful but have nothing whatsoever to offer.. The one you mentioned and others like her are the real slay queens, thumbs up to them. |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by omoelerin1: 10:18am On Sep 13, 2018 |
dasparrow:Chei. Life has taught this one serious lesson. See as S/he dey offloading her frustration and transferring her aggression on the innocents. hmmn. It is well with your soul, my dear. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:43am On Sep 13, 2018 |
Hopebringer: And how would u know that.. Circus baboon From ur first comment u sounded like a child trying to prove... If u hadn't quoted me with ur silly assumptions what business do i have with u.. A handful of NLers know me off here & if u ever quote me again as regards age then i would believe ur just another knobhead... Now run along & go play with ur " age mates" 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by Nobody: 10:49am On Sep 13, 2018 |
FluidQueen: I was taught delicine starts at age 30. If I remember my embryology well, in a healthy woman, app. 40000 oocytes are present at purberty (age 9-13) and fewer than 500 ovulated. That is 1 every month. And that makes 12 a year. So 500/12 is 41yrs. At that age, most oocytes are atretic. Concerning marriage, having kids is a deal breaker in most if not all. And that is why I believe my range is perfect because anything beyond, and you're at risk of having kids with chromosomal abnormalities as you age. Anyways, it's your life sha. Whatever rocks your boat. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by msylva2147(m): 11:19am On Sep 13, 2018 |
Indigenous:I think you are the senseless one here to say that is only a senseless person that will marry a girl above 22 years. |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by lielbree: 12:03pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Xaos:You're not being realistic. I'll excuse u due to your tender age. Experience will teach you about life. 1 Like |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by lielbree: 12:05pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
MexicanWolf:Finacial independence Do u want kids?? |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by FluidQueen(f): 12:30pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Xaos:Check the statistics. 64% of children with down syndrome were from younger mothers. A study recently updated by Mayoclinic says Older women have lesser chances of birthing kids with chromosomal anomolities. decline starts mid 30s and it's based on personal physiology than numbers. There's no standard age. And your range Isn't perfect to everyone. Might be to peoole your aquainted but isn't to the next woman. Most women I know take their time. And I'm talking 35+ Mothers and are living their lives with beautiful kids. You can't shove your 'Perfect' age range standards down every woman's throat. 4 Likes |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by bukatyne(f): 12:37pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
zinnyzee: Why? |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by bukatyne(f): 12:38pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
lielbree: What is the definition of 'financially stable'? |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by poweredcom(m): 12:51pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
boborneyor: Iyawo sara for sure Men go de bang all around collect share Men no get wahala no matter dem age dem can still be productive if the late fatai rolling dollars fit born pikin at 70's so gals don't worry bout guys not getting married cos it's not easy to be a man No young man want his unborn child to suffer ok But ladies oooo una get injury time ooo |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by msylva2147(m): 1:11pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Amberon:You don't compare 1960, s to 2018's these are two different centuries, then when you get married all you need to do was just to put food on the table at most with clothing but nowadays we are not even talking about the children's school fees but the mothers are not also helping matters because they always like comparing themselves with neighbors, friends and anybody their eyes can see and expect the man to do all that including that of her family which I believe is the major factors affecting the youths from getting married. Men are seeing what their colleagues or friends are going through and are trying to take caution before you know they are already 40+. Lastly and I repeat unless our Nigerian ladies learn how to be contented with whatever they are having at their disposal and stop comparing themselves with other women Nigerian Men would continue to marry at old age. (You can imagine someone who has seen the woman he loves and she loved him in turn but the list for the traditional marriage is 1.5 million for someone who's yearly income is not even up to 500k, how do you expect such person to start thinking of getting married?) |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by msylva2147(m): 1:19pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
FluidQueen:You are one of the sensible persons I loved your analysis unlike people who just come here to give the range of getting married without pointing out the facts to support their reasons. 2 Likes |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by Funkybabee(f): 1:21pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
I think from 22 above is cool |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by soviete(m): 1:22pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
pocohantas:u think that age is small ?? |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by Amberon: 1:23pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
Pls never blame the excesses of someone on another. I understand that we're in a different century and the economy is quite hard on everyone but women are not the reason for the late marriage of men. Some men even delude themselves with the idea that they don't have a biological clock which is another lie. Every living thing has a biological clock. At certain ages men tend to develope erectile problems and prostate problems too. Also the quality of men's sperm decreases after age 40 but most men don't know this and there is increased risk of having an unhealthy baby. In Europe men marry very early and even marry their age mates all the time. Justin Beiber who is just 23 or 24 is already engaged. Many european footballers marry in their early or mid twenties too. I think finances has to do with it but I think the major reason Nigerian men don't marry early is simply because they don't want to. msylva2147: |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by pocohantas(f): 1:40pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
soviete: Yes it is. |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by bukatyne(f): 1:42pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
InvertedHammer: You don't live in the real world, do you? There is a difference between a woman should be ideally married by 30 and a woman not married by 30 should forget it. More people are having their first marriages later. |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by InvertedHammer: 1:45pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
bukatyne:/ There are always exceptions to the rule my dear. That doesn't negate the rule. Life is a journey...nothing is sacrosanct. / |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by bukatyne(f): 1:50pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
All these men mentioning 21 - 25yrs, I hope they are young too. I am an avid supporter of early marriage however, nothing irks me like an old man looking for a baby girl. |
Re: What Is The Ideal Age For A Girl/Lady To Get Married? by bukatyne(f): 1:55pm On Sep 13, 2018 |
InvertedHammer: The exceptions are fast becoming the rule. Since you know nothing is sacrocant, then putting an age range is myopic. (and I am speaking to myself too) I had a friend who was ready at 25, actually met earlier and processing marriage when her guy's family said he couldn't marry someone from her state. She married at 35 while pregnant. I would still advocate early marriage sha. |
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