i have to say you should be thankful he is complaining now ,  some will only use use to get to Canada and then start complaining ,  it shows he also doesnt want to loose you ,  there are ways to go about it ,  you probably need to identify what he wants and what he doesnt ,  you just need to make him understand and believe me I lost 45kg in 2 months myself so you can still make that change happen. If you bail on him now ,  I doubt you can find someone so sincere and blunt.

michelin89:

You dey make mouth but I know your type.

You like big bosoms and big arse. And you go for fat women because they tend to have these features. But I can bet my skinny self that if you meet a ghetto booty tomorrow with the same attributes, but with a flay tummy, slim waste, toned arms and legs, you'll drop your fatty like it's hot.

You are settling for less because even your type of women are uncommon. And yes, if I want I can be a ghetto booty, but I don't want losers like you on my back. I like my slender figure and I get the attention I want, whenever I want it.

what.lyf:

broda na true she talk o!! many many manyyyyyyyyy guys are into slim sisi, yours being an orobo is very kind of unusual, ok, i understand say u no get lyrics 4 mouth to toast sweet sisi, so you settle for the less stressful but easy to get ones, God help u!40s? dat one be say na she better go get belle born pikin otherwise enough said

brutal:

U don't know poo!i know dey like show myself!i'm a humble guy but i'll put somethin known 2 u. . .
Believe it or not,all shapes and sizes want me,chase me,but i'm naturally attracted to p.h.a.t women.
i live in germany. .almost everyone knows me in frankfurt am main. .i still maintain my stand,u r not nothin compares 2 d girls have been with. .
@what lyf--we nor b match. .i don't have 2 open my mouth. .women are all over me.

Nayah:

honerico I'm fine my friend what about you bro??
Well WHAT IFT read again I said I'm not pushing her to wait until 40's, but yes I assume the fact 27, 28 or 30 is young. Our mothers sometimes have kids until 38 or 40 years as well, even though this is sometimes their last.

Nayah:

honerico I'm fine my friend what about you bro??
Well WHAT IFT read again I said I'm not pushing her to wait until 40's, but yes I assume the fact 27, 28 or 30 is young. Our mothers sometimes have kids until 38 or 40 years as well, even though this is sometimes their last.

michelin89:

Ahahahahahha see this mugu. Whom do you think these PHAT women are? Don't you know that PHAT is not the same as FAT?

Please go siddon jor. You nor get case.

michelin89:

Ahahahahahha see this mugu. Whom do you think these PHAT women are? Don't you know that [b]PHAT is not the same as FAT?[/b]Please go siddon jor. You nor get case.

brutal:

U don't know poo!i know dey like show myself!i'm a humble guy but i'll put somethin known 2 u. . .
Believe it or not,all shapes and sizes want me,chase me,but i'm naturally attracted to p.h.a.t women.
i live in germany. .almost everyone knows me in frankfurt am main. .i still maintain my stand,u r not nothin compares 2 d girls have been with. .
@what lyf--we nor b match. .i don't have 2 open my mouth. .women are all over me.

brutal:

Mugu x 2!p.h.a. t means pretty hot and thick. .thick also symbolizes fat,chubby or whatever in my book. .hahahaha!

michelin89:

And I thought I was talking to a human being. No wonder all those fatties dey die for you. You can't even distinguish thick from phat from chubby from fat. You always go for the big mamas and of course they fall for you.  

Everyone knows they are not the same thing.

brutal:

hahaha!talkin 2 u  could go on for decades. .i got 2 take care of business!i'll be back.
in conclusion,u can never ever bruise my ego. .i go for chubby sexy mamas and they rock my world.
And believe me,u r sexually unattractive. .  .time will tell. .

@what lyf--i'll teach u lyrics. . .trust me.

dayokanu:

Postpone the wedding till he is comfortable with your looks

wavemasta:

I have read through this whole thread with interest. And I have come across some very hasty generalizations such as

Naija men do not like orobo women

Everyone wants a slim woman

Id beg to defer. I want to categorically state that no one has a right to speak for all naija men as regards this issue of liking fat women or not.
Me, I love, love, and adore orobos and big beautiful women.  I have never dated a lepa chick. It happened once and immediately I entered the  relationship I knew it was a mistake.
All these people saying they dont like big women would bleep them when their friends werent looking. Some people just go after what is "socially" acceptable.
One mans meat is another mans poison.

@OP: If this dude cannot accept you for who you are, then he should go. You need to work on your self esteem also. I know loads of orobo friends of mine (Females) who are hot, and
who get people chasing them all around. You do not need to come from a place of desperation. If he cant accept you, let him go.

Now, the fact that I love my orobos doesnt mean one should be ignorant of health issues. If you want to shed a bit of weight, fine. But do it for you. Let it come from you. Not for some person
who might probably just be using you to get to canada. This guy puts you down in front of his friends, jeez!
I never nag about weight, as long as you're healthy, can move, and are presentable, like wunmi obe, or monique. If it goes above that, I know how to romance you and pet you till you see reason with me.
And even if you lose weight, you wont become a stick. (else I go divorce u sharp sharp  )

Free this guy abeg. He doesnt send you. Lots of guys out there love big women. I was talking to an old school mate of mine (a guy) who told me the same thing.  Wait and be patient. Dont go into a hell of
a marriage.

*whew, * long post, but I had to just speak my mind.
Me, I am marrying an orobo, and screw society, friends, and anyone who has issues with her looks, shey no be me go marry am? And whats that nonsense about "looking older than he is?" When the man
gets beer belly and is not attractive, and the women begins to claim "headache", the man will begin to remember he is the head of the house,

Abeg honey, free this guy, and wait for your real husband!!

doyin111:

lets see your picture and know if your fiance is really exaggerating or he is just concerned about you, nairalanders i think this idea is the best so we can give our candid opinions instead of us saying talking without details.so poster lets see a picture of you.