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phidipe:
You are so amazing you, God will continue to equip you with deep knowledge, you are good counselor and you are always on point. My Name is
Engr. Olaoluwa Adeniyi Alexander
Msc. Computer Engineering
Modakeke, Osun State

Nice meeting you Engr. I am also an Engineer, Civil Engineering precisely. With a M.Eng in it.

phidipe:
Alright, though presently she has not thought of that, or may be that is what she thinking about now, Anyhow she want it i m ready to dance to her tunes, sir how about the baby what can i do to initiate co-parenting please i still need help on that. if you don't mind if i can put a call across

You will be excessively charged, since I'm Roaming. Not withstanding I will be always here to kill boredom.
If you die today, life will still go on for the baby you are so bothered about.
Glad you are alive so give time some time.Go to their house with an elder from your Side, preferably your dad and mum as this is a serious issues . Apologize to her entire family on your knees for your Deceit and let your Elder do the remaining talking about the coparenting and how you would like to voluntarily contribute to the child upkeep. You did a big mistake by sending third parties to go help beg at the instance, when they found out it was a case of Deceit, they grew hatred for you.
Your wife will on her accord come back to you one day, but how soon is what we can say . Keep apologizing, sending gifts and be of good cheer.

phidipe:
Thank you very much you are God sent your advice restore my peace of mind God bless you in all endeavors
Happy Sunday

Same to you. Shits happens and we can't keep blaming ourselves.
If she ever brings a divorce paper, don't push it too far. Grant it to her.

Nemesis0147:
I was on the phone with one of my friends and we were discussing about this cashless Economy,,,and I complained to her that I have not seen cash for some days now..
She asked me to come to a supermarket close to her place and get some cash that she will help me talk to the owner because they are friends…I told her I can’t leave the house by that time because it was morning so she offered to help me,,,that i should transfer the money to her account and she will help me get it because the man stops giving out cash in the evening…I sent the money to her to help me withdraw it but i have not seen or heard from her for the past two days now,,she is not picking my calls or replying my messages …I don’t know why some Nigerians are so terrible.

A girl did me exactly that also.A friend of almost 4yrs, what exactly are they thinking. Mine was 20k, I don delete and move on.
Mine i never wanted, driving to a nearby state for a meeting , since I won't be staying for long .I asked her how accessible is cash in her area ,because it is s kind of Shanty and cash should easily be available there.
Sent the money the next day I went for pickup ,she switched off. Later I was Greatful to God for exposing the kind of person she is in time.

phidipe:
The marriage was consummated at Ikoyi registry Lagos, there is no need to seek for divorce? i just need to know because i can stay alone like this.

Leave that to her. Time might heal her she she might still want you, unless you want to take up another wife. Then you can go ahead for a final divorce. if not just do what I have advised at first.

The church uses the Canon Law, and let me tell you something interesting. The Church will dissolve your Union to your wife Based on Canon Law. Why because their was a Deceit before marriage.
So also will the Country marriage law do, you are even lucky she didn't file for damages ,since all act was on Deceit.She for empty your pocket.
Young man ,accept the very fact that your marriage is over and seek for redress in co parenting.
Take two or more parties to your Ex-wife inlaws and agree willingly to a amount you will ne contributing for the child upkeep.
Since the marriage is logically dissolved on Deceit , it is in the place of your wife to decide if she would love to continue in future.
Time heals all wound , give them time but contribute your quota. Don't send anyone to plead on your behalf anymore .

In all you do @Op pick the most reasonable advice.
Too many ITK singles On here, with so much imaginary advice..
They have never for once Been into marriage or have its feeling. They are The very first to shout " You will loss nothing, Walk away " as if naso their mama Walk away ...Egbami...
A man who was able to gather money ,buy properties ,marry you and even bore 2 kids ,isn't a kid .
He definitely must have worked his way through the ladder.
Speak to him at the right time on his plans and moves. We know how he is feeling , all and all he was doing was to boast the family income.

luminouz:
Stop talking please. Haven't you embarrassed yourself enough? Jeez!

I see you aren't married, so shut up...

lhordspy:
You can keep up with the super story to your people in the southEast there. But hear me and hear me loud; You will never, i repeat never rule this nation.

The hard reality is that in 2027, You Mr. Peter Obi will still contest against Tinubu once again. The entire North will still never vote for you, you will still not be able to win a single state there nor get 25%

The Southwest will still never vote for you except your brothers in Lagos, you will still fail in 5 out of the 6 states that make up the region because the people already know you are leading and championing your tribal people to takeover Southwest in disguise of running for political post.

You will still lose states like Kogi, Niger, Kwara in the northcentral.

Even if you decamp to PDP, your image is already battered over here in the North. We all see you as nothing more but a Religious divider, the man who hates muslims so much that he paid general overseers billions of dollars to preach hate against muslims on the altar. No heavyweight politician here in the North will be bold enough to campaign for you .

You are done for, Mr Obi. No pathway to victory for you now, next four years or next 3millions years. That name Gregory Obi will forever be a rejected name in Nigeria political space.

Shut up you fool! If been foolish was a person it will be you .
Who played the politics of Religion more than the North ? Peter definitely don't need the North to make him a president and that is a fact . Northcentral alone is okay for that .
To crown your stupid reasoning, you went as far as saying he paid Overseas and pastors. So dumb of a fellow.
I put it to you , if any section of the North ever gets developed as Anambra state , then you are free to quote me, Bunch of fool.
All the leaders from North have always cheated and use religion to fool awhole lot of people. dumb ass

Heathrow44:
Oga rush and go and return that useless fridge u bought, d idiot seller is trying to make sure it stays in ur hands ✋ so that he will say u spoilt it, infact immediately u plugged it and it didn't work, u should av returned it, all dat 1mm wiring is nonsense, return and collect back ur money and go to a quality and renowned store and buy ur goods, stop buying from all those small small stores

Calm down .. it is working now

rollywise:
Kill her because you married her na. You think she's same person after childbirth. One of the major importance of masturbation is, it comes as a substitute where couples are afar or one indisposed at the moment. Need I remind you there's no excuse for cheating. You want to talk about abstinence? It's difficult to start practicing that in marriage especially when you keep seeing your partner of the opposite sex both when clothed and nude. Sha wait till you get there. Pray your wife is still the same after child birth

forget about So many on here... Alot to talk about, but they won't understand. They think it's Soap opera , the North multiple marriage favors the man. Just why the men are bent on implementing it .One was talking about Redpill, in Marriage? Lmao ,it is obvious he thinks it same with dating of multiple girls. He obviously don't know what it means, the word PEACE is taken from your home.
I was telling someone on here a good percentage of men cheat, she was bent hell telling me her man wasn't and will never. I simply laughed my ass off... It is a matter of time dude, you will soon get tired of jerking off and will be needing a young damsel. Unconsciously you begin to find your self discreetly cheating, it is what it is.
I read alot of Folks from the first Page saying shit like 'I can bet you never married her as a Virgin '
Alot of people are so naive and still hold the virgin myth to high heavens...The misconception amuse me and make me see them as a Clown.

josie96:
Have you heard of Female Genital Mutilation (FGM)?

Your wife might be a victim of FGM. You should ask her, and if she is not sure, she should ask her mother.

Sleeping outside will not solve your problem in any way. Instead, it exposes you to all kinds of infection and diseases and probably death.

FGM ceased to exist for some time now,I doubt she experience that. It is actually nothing new, there are ladies like, they see sex as a task and can't wait to be done...Nothing spiritual or Health wise,

adioolayi:
We can't allow emotions and sentiments becloud our sense of reasoning..


How will a political party made a request to witness a configuration of a machine that will be used for an election they will participate in

The court has granted them access to inspect the BVAS, download whatever and move on..

Why will they request to witness configuration of BVAS

I think it's a security risk...I stand with INEC on this.

You won't stand with them, if you truly followed Osun tribunal Election....
Apc had a win from tribunal why? Because the inconpleted uploaded result to the IREV shows over voting... PDP asked for permission to inspect the original BVAS used . When the permission was given, it was discovered there was no over voting.Now this same BVAS is to be reconfigured, thereby uploading all results to IREV . This will automatically rely all judgment on the IREV from henceforth. How are thr political parties who hire SANs worth million of Naira sure ,the total result will be uploaded ?
And that is why Adeleke is super convenient the Supreme Court will rule in his favor.
Democracy shouldn't have a limit, provided it is free and fair within the law...Apc is just like another political party and they don't own or pay inec staffs,we Nigerians do. Just like what Obi said " The process needs to be excellent before you can bear His Excellency.

Saintmary:
Mr man, we are not on the same wavelength, face your level, I face mine.

Definitely we can never be.

Kobojunkie:
Interesting! So it is better to cheat on women, instead of divorcing them and maybe keeping any modicum of dignity you may have left of you at that?

Guess you missed the word 'Packing '

Life is too short for Unnecessary Drama...
Always get your choice from the market, before going home. No let traders influence your choice, some men specifically love and married their wife because of the way she ride them so well...We all were in your shoes and we choosed wisely in that area and discarded the rest...
Just why you hear gossipers say 'this guy a dey follow fine girls too when him single , him wife no even too fine self '
Deep down in you,you know why .lol

Saintmary:
These men actually think they are special.


If you prefer your house help, no one is stopping you naw, only a jobless woman will be afraid of leaving a bad marriage.


Once you commit adultery, the marriage is already contaminated and should be dissolved.

We have heard this lines ,over and over again. But when the man takes the step and send them packing, they end up reading the book of lamentation with lesson well learnt. Nothing dey street.

Is he really an academic Dr?First fraud.

SUNNINO:
If na Aboki they will not be effective to do their job, Abba Kyari Hoshpopi accomplice in crime is wanted in America, why don't they extradite him since, double standard Nigeria.

Even if you aren't a Lawyer, try and read their books and what the law says.

IamANigerianMan:
I have never seen a useless generation like this generation , aside from TOTO this generation has nothing to offer, this generation allow old men like Tinubu, Judge Akume, Wike, Silva, Oshomele to rig election and nothing happened, the next TOPIC is SEX, Satisfy your man , Nonsense useless worthless generation.

Shut up ,this generation is even purpose driven . They haven't been any generation that likes TOTO more than the generation of the people you mentioned...
If the men then would have resisted those people and elected better people, we wouldn't have been dealing with their mess.