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intruder15:
Remove the notion that she is married to you even though you have done trad. Most ladies don't see themselves married until they have done their white wedding.

There is really nothing to talk about as you didn't see anything incriminating from her. When your girl is chatting with a guy, ignore what the guy says to her and read only her responses. That should guide if you should be worried or not.

There is nothing you had stated earlier that warrants you to be scared or confront her. When you are done with your white wedding, you can then change it for her if such conversation exist afterwards.

Funny dude...You really underestimate traditional marriage, and mind you no lady ever thinks that way.
Right from introduction, the very moment her father ask her, do you know this young man and his intentions and she concur, a lady already knows she is married.
If a woman can still be doing hide and seek after introduction, it is advisable you walk away.

Just a matter of time, anytime you both are in disagreement just know their is always a joystick she call lean on. Of which disagreement is 90% certain in ever home.
You are a man , and I believe you know what is 70% likely to happen between you and most of your unmarried ex, when given the slightest opportunity. Same thing applies to your wife...Count your teeth with your tongue

KingKO22:
PDP taught APC how to rig and APC have master the rigging better than PDP ..


As for the LPDP they have been reduced to only IPOB party

Are they not the same individuals, with a change in party name ?

OsuIgboIpob:
SENSELESS cork and bull story


Someone needed to die to appease God and it had to be his SON, WHO ALSO HAPPENED TO BE GOD

Der God don turn Dracula and Ritualist

Was the killing of animals for burnt offering a cock and bull story also ?
I am really interested to know how this cock & bull stories made some of his apostles pass through hell in the last hour of existence.
In the court of law , an inconsistent testimony from a person can be seen as false. But a similar consistent story from 12 Apostles have some element of truth in them.
Why would a human hold on to a testimony, despite I will be thrown into a boiling oil, crucified on a transverse cross or dragged through the city until I am declared dead?
Sadly even Christains don't know the true dimension of Jesus, because he wasn't a careless talker . Human can't precisely tell if Jesus was God . But what human was certain to know then was the existence of a supernatural being among men whom they call Messiah.
There is more to what you see...

olabrinks:
nothing can justify cohabiting with a woman for 10 years. If she was so bad he would’ve left after 2 years. It doesn’t take 10 years for a man to realise he doesn’t want to commit to a woman. Truth is he will never ever marry that girl.. he has seen her finish even if he decides to take her back. He has pushed that girl to the limit and frustrated her life for the past 10 years, she has finally reacted by ransacking his home and now he wants to use that as a justification for his wickedness.

I won't justify or support the cohabitation. But mind you, what I can deduce was that ,it wasn't a 10 years cohabitation, but a 10 years relationship. The girl went to school under his support, that is should be 4yrs plus a one year service. The 5th year a child came into the picture, most likely when they both got to understand the can't tolerate each other . Having a child with a manipulating baby mama will amount to a permanent tie with her,if you aren't a firm decision making man. You can still hear him speaking of taking her back if her attitude changes...

olabrinks:
You don’t have any level. Serial baby daddy crying online because his girlfriend took his property. You are not a man, you don’t deserve any respect at all we look down on people like you. You do not hold any position in society, just creating broken homes and moving around like a child. This your new dumbo girlfriend, she will probably be the one to kill you sef. Nonsense.

Low pressure madam. Marriage issue dem no the do I too know, it's like stray bullets...
With what this young man have described despite he kept repeating he loves her and don't mind taking her back, I believe getting married to the lady would have been a total waste of time, because a divorce is certain to happen.
When two incompactable fellow get married, even if they have 50 kids, they will definitely go their separate ways on day.
Young man do what makes you happy and right in the eyes of God , definitely alot of folks won't understand. So I advice you forger about what man will say.

the petitions are like a Web APC, this is just one of them ..

BluntCrazeMan:
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The intense hatred these people have for PETER OBI is far far more greater than the slight Indignation we have for the APC and Tinubu..


The only thing these people have against Peter-Obi is intense hatred..
And nothing more.

Just hatred my friend, obi never for once stole their money , over taxed them or better still pulled bullion van to his apartment in the face or severe hunger

ShaqFu:
Why can't this igbo group expel or even banish Simon Ekpa and his family?

It is done in other tribe. If a member of a family becomes too troublesome or difficult to handle, he's first reported to his family that they should speak to him, if they fail, they and him are banish and nobody from their tribe should have any dealing and doings with them.

Legally you can't take someone in place of others, there is always a law that will favor this family members and they will be duly compensated.

Raskimonojendor:
Lamba.

Better than Googling and finding out that, Nigeria number one citizen was once into drugs... We really don't know what we are getting ourselves and international image into. Once Tinubu and his corrupt cohorts are done with Nigeria, we will have no international repute...Their will be a wide margin between ghana and Nigeria on the way we are been viewed by foreign counterparts. The stigma will be real and worse, and our kids will be born to face our shame.
Tinubu as old and shameless that he is, should have know better . Their are some youthful sins that will hunt alot of us in our old age, and the only solution is letting go off somethings.

sinero:
That's how u end up in church singing "carry me dey go my husband house". I got married at 24 and still happy with my wife after 16 years of union.

Some ladies will just open their mouth and spill thrash and useless ideas.
They are the kind of ladies ,that are been used ,dumped or end up in unhappy marriages.
I often drive to some villages ,if I need to clear my head . just to relate with nature and it's peace, i discover how happy people in the village are despite little or what we in the city describe as nothing.
young couples with nothing according to us living the best of life.
Happiness and peace or mind in marriage is beyond money.
I served at 21 longtime ago and was already making alot of money .Married my wife few years after then .

tolue42:
In a nutshell, APC forced Obi back to PDP where he belongs.

So he doesn't have any capacity to challenge them from Labor party. Labor part votes wasted!

I love this drama..

On what Technical ground was Machina kicked to the side against Lawan?
Lmao.

JASONjnr:
They asked for it and now they can't withstand the heat...


Even though this is all a formality to act like they're afraid when in real sense, they've already pocketed the judicial system....


Tinubu has put everything in order to win by all means, but God will shame him and bring him down!!

Mindful of your conclusion. This election is totally different from anyother election, the introduction of BVAS and IREV makes the judiciary unable to perform magic like subsequent elections. We will be having more of such cases from states governors and the overturn of some elections to the rightful winner.
I will say any politician is really unlucky in contesting at a time like this, unless he truly wins the people mandate...
With time it will discouraged politicians from electoral fraud, because after all your sweat ,the court will return it to the original Winner.

Christistruth03:
There is a sickness in West Africa called the Sudden Death Syndrome

It has killed at least 2 English Premiership footballers from West Africa before live on the Football Pitch

That was what killed Okwaraji the former Super Eagles footballer

Really never heard of that, but the 3 examples you gave were adults and active sportsmen .I still think, if the family had Been in one accord ,such would have been averted.

Christistruth03:
There is a sickness in West Africa called the Sudden Death Syndrome

It has killed at least 2 English Premiership footballers from West Africa before live on the Football Pitch

That was what killed Okwaraji the former Super Eagles footballer

Really never heard of that, but the 3 examples you gave were adults and active sportsmen .

Their little distraction killed the son... Nobody to closely observe the little lad. He just don't fall and die, he must have been exhibiting symptoms.

Brendaniel:
Oga, if they don't vote him and he happens to be the best, then it is their loss, the man is not a poor man....

Some of El-rufai's children are so lousy and uncouth....

Bashir was just lucky by chance, his Elder bring who lost his life on Abuja highway was more respectful and thoughtful. His death made way for this unreasonable fellow.

orlahtohbadt:
Oh there is a business in a public space like Nairaland? You’re really pushing it the more. If there was a business to be minded, you won’t be in this forum in the first place and you won’t certainly reply the other person by quoting him or her. So 50+1 means we, when it has not even outrightly passed a stage. Come off it man, you are really not intellectual.

So said a man,who have no idea of who he is talking to...
You need learn how to convas in cyber space.

orlahtohbadt:
You not we, at least be intellectual enough to personalize it.

You Sounding intellectual should know 50+1 persons in a memorandum is referred to as We. next time be intellectual enough to minding your business .

aybabz101:
The fact is Nigeria is bleeped up and a lot need to be done to rectify the situation. Brain drain is not only synonymous to the health sector, in fact the technology and financial industries has also had their fair share of experts relocating abroad. I know of a guy whom a leading Nigerian Bank is still paying his salaries even though he has relocated….working for the bank as a consultant coz there are no experienced persons to take up his role.

This bill is bidirectional to me as I believe the it is very unfair to train in Nigeria with the same dilapidated infrastructures, subsidized tuition and accommodation, and japa straight outa the country. It’s just fair to at least to a corporate responsibility to the society that gave u the skill in the first place.

Contrarily, the system is bleeped up.., they reduced to employ the doctors coz I know most doctors work in private institutions and only few are employed with the government and some are even unemployed. The employed ones are overworked, and exposed to varying degree of hazards. In fact some have to procure basic amenities such as gloves by themselves.

Like I said earlier, Nigerian doctors needs to know that all sectors of the country is bleeped up. And from my own biased perspective, doctor and nurses are still a top predators among the Nigerian educated population.

When I was in school, I fought for a lot of scholarships, all to no avail. Same with my colleagues who studied other biomedical sciences. But as a medical student ur chances of gaining a scholarship is like 70%. A number of my medical colleagues were earning above 600k per year as a student. They were on Mtn, Glo, Agbami, seplat etc. scholarships. In school, they have their own hostels and a lot of other privileges attached to them. They go on house jobs and are paid and their nysc always come with special packages.

In truth, a lot of Nigerians who graduated from other courses with good grades are still wallowing in unemployment….even ppl with first class are managing less than 100k jobs. That is the reality of Nigeria and that is why the whole system is bleeped up. And to me, the doctors are still a privileged few no matter how we construct the story.

I want Nigerians to know that Nigeria is not US and not UK. In fact those countries are in the zenith of global economies. Nigeria is in Africa and is one of the poorest countries in the world though with limitless potentials but cursed with unproductive and unpatriotic leaders.

I’m not in support of the bill but Nigerian doctors should be a little more appreciative coz they are far better than many

We are in Support of the Bill. Professionals in Nigeria are trained with less than $1000 for the entire program, where in the world is that done, 5yrs isn't a much of a time.

accordadoga29:
The way baba go crush Datti go be like when caterpillar crush bicycle.

Both of them have nothing meaniful to debate, they aren't lawyers.

ahiboilandgas:
used the money to build a solar farm ! Or 2 mega watt station.

We all Know solar power isn't reliable and more expensive than Hydro. Not an investment to pursue for a long term.

Deefirm:
If you are man enough come to Nigeria to spew thrash Nigga, only lazy men speak from exile.

6 months from now the Idiot will come home, his tribal man will grant him leniency... Always setting up the masses against themselves

Zico5:
Peter Obi is just a desperate man looking for power at all means and if such a person is taught a lesson is not too much. All what he is doing is treason and he is trying to pollute the political atmosphere of the country. You are already in the court and as such decorum should be maintained. But if u think u can hijack the government through thuggery then the aftermath will not be ok for u. I thought Obidients movement is all about the masses not knowing it's all about tribal sentiment.

Shut up if you don't know about politics...The dice is still rolling and you will be caught in your own web sooner than later...Which political party in Nigeria isn't a Tribal sentiment ? when Atiku stood telling the North to vote for him , because he is their own ,what does that amount to. When Buhari was under CPC didn't he get his votes from the North?
You allowing a power hungry and senseless fool like Reno think for you is amazing ...Left to Reno it is a Win-Win for him, because a yoruba man is on the throne and very soon he will frantanize and be granted a free pass into 9ja.
But I wonder exactly what you are gaining from discrediting the most neutral and non tribalistic candidate.

I have no doubt on his capacity, The Catholic Church have been a through training ground for its priest . Next to it is the Military, which was formed from the church .

Once you see a Manipulator, best you run 4x40. She is one and won't change ,but only improve in her skills of manipulations.
Unlike men who physically abuse their spouse, women do Manipulate

DaTruths:
Since 1940s, I never see country wey invade a sovereign country to annex it's Territory..
Na due to this Russia bullying tendencies make all these miniaturized countries dey join NATO.
And Russia has proven them right by invading Ukraine to annex her Territory.

And one thing is certain, on no account would NATO attack Russia first.
So those countries are joining to protect themselves.
But the Truth is that, USA won't take this thing they are doing to Russia.
Taking that Cuban missile crises into account.
USA are hypocrites anyways.

Humans are all hypocrites, but their is a level to that . if a scale for measuring hypocrisy exist, US might be at the bottom.
United State have Evolve and are still evolving in democracy and international relationships.
The Russia and Ukraine just happen to be a media discussion because the United States and its allies gave learnt to control themselves and obey lay down rules.

lhordspy:
Lol. NATO countries are bunch of spineless jokers. Believe the articles 4 and 5 at your own peril.

When rocket strayed into Poland few months ago. And rumours started going round it was Russia's missile. They all cowered like little fear babies.

They were making excuses here and there. None of them could even summon the courage to even talk about war with Russia. They were all looking for something else to blame for the attack until it was discovered the missile strayed from Ukrainian launcher.

What a relieve it was for them back then. Bunch of scared little noisemakers.

You need to educate your self on the Strength of NATO. We aren't talking about some bunch of China or Japan technology here.

Winning123:
NATO spinless! Which schol did you attend? I am very sure you are amongst the Obedient movement who wants to overturn the 2023 Presidential election in which their candidate came third.

You sounded intelligent from the start, but You started sounding like a fool on bringing in Obident into the equation.
Let the court do their Job.

Greencyborg:
I actually don't believe the news, they might be framed.
Robbing with one pistol

Libya Police are most corrupt, first in line before Nigeria police.

It is the turn of Okun..nothing less nothing more

Olamidegal:
my husband does not want my family to interfere in our marriage at all, he does not like any member of my family because when I was pregnant, there was a time we had issue and my mother called him to take things easy with me and all he got really angry and was rude to my mom he said my mom was supposed to instruct me to come beg him not preach to him to thread softly because whenever we have little issue he takes it to his family and his sister and dad are there the next day compelling me to kneel and Beg him. He told me that day that my family does not matter in the marriage that its only his family that matters cause they are husbands family. I try not to involve my family in any issue after that cos i really hate the way he spoke to my mom

You are in on a Long Ride. All I have to say is Sorry, you saw the signs .