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Engrmikky:
Am virtually almost in the same boat with the OAP. For mine, she’s even pregnant with twins as we speak. We already have 2kids and am virtually the person providing everything in the house down to pure water and bread.

When she was 2 weeks pregnant, I suggested medical D&C but she refused and started reporting me to everyone - My parents and her parents. This caused a big issue in the house that she packed her things and the kids to travel to where her mom is without my permission. Her mom was the person that paid for her transportation - Flight I suspect as she said she needed to be taken care of because it’s high risk pregnancy. I told her point blank that she and her mom will bear full responsibilities of her well being and the kids as they left the house without my approval. The kids are just at home with her while their mate are in school after I have paid about 500k for school fees.

Honestly, this has virtually torn my marriage and home as her mom is the main problem in this marriage. All our relocation plans virtually in ruins

What you have suggested is Sacrilegious a D & C , For your pregnant Wife? How does it even sound to your hearing talk more of even involving family . You have created a customized hate for you self, from your family her family and even your Wife, Because this Story will never die. Guess what ? Those unborn kids will get to hear about it . Really hurtful I must tell you.
While still unmarried years ago , I once met a lady who detested her father, why? She grew up to know exactly such story.She was telling me with tears in her eyes.
You are married and need not utter some words, that will be made public. I will advise you start making immediate amends, go get your people ASAP.
I am currently married with a 5yrs old child, currently having it in mind of making another baby at my own order. Your wife is just like ever other women, despite the temptation i never buggled for her tricks, because within that 5yrs I was running my MEng and i will definitely not be able to provide adequately.

Adjovi:
What the hell are you saying? Gaddafi didn't fix Libya? Who told you this nonsense? Libya had the best economy under Gaddafi go and read up the things libyans enjoyed under his reign. He was not a perfect leader but if we had someone do what he did for Libyans to Nigerians , Nigerians won't be complaining at all.

I doubt you read what I wrote or you intentionally skipped where I wrote after he fixed libya.. Have a nice time

cyprex:
Imagineb an African celebrating the death of Gadaffi and wishing that his "greatest enemy - Putin" dies like him

The level of ignorance amongst Africans is scary

If you know little about Libya go and read more about it, not all the composed facts Gaddafi regulated media gave to people like you ...
Even in the animal worlds the Likes of Gadaffi and any dictators will be tumbled. They claimed he have the good of Libyans at heart, What is stopping him from behaving like Nelson Mandela after fixing Libya.
A dictator always 30% good & 70 Evil behind close doors. It is a matter of time and ever dictator will be tumbled by their very own people, we all might blindly point accusing fingers to the US ,but their very own killed them. Former president of Chad wasn't speared either , with a cooked up story of Boko Haram killing him. Putins Very own people will kill him and most probably drag his corpse on the street of Moscow. This right here isn't an Assumption, it is a fact and very how it operates in the animal world.

Faber:
You are practicing stone age democracy, politics of rigging, thuggery and cheating. You don't know jack about true politics.

I don't argue with pigs like you

You been an imbeci1e, couldn't let you understand simple facts. A renowned bastard calling someone a pig.

Faber:
Tinubu called Wike a Chameleon right in his presence in PH...

Once Wike hands over, he is gone politically. His greatest political mistake/miscalculation was his contesting for Senate. He had a better chance to win the Senate than PDP presidential ticket, but greed and mkpurummiri no let him hear word.

Politics isn't played that way ....Wike gave APC the win they needed...Who believed APC will win RIVERS., just why Obi feel cheated. RIVERS is more Obident than Jos

pansophist:
Rubbish.

They should enter Russia to arrest him. Then I shall take them serious. Only weak countries can be punished by ICC, not powerful empires like Russia and China.

This is where their hypocrisy stinks. As we speak now, the territory the US occupies and stealing Syrian oil is larger than the territory Russia occupies in Ukraine. When will Biden go to ICC?

Rubbish like this is why the global South have lost faith in the evil anglo American empire. They stand behind fake morality, but if you scratch a bit, it's nothing more than an empire of lies.

Always Ensure you read a News Complete. Because China Accused US of that you took that as a fact. Forgetting the region is owned by Syrian Democratic Forces (SDF). And the SDF have a deal with a US Company
So how the Bleep is the territory own by US.
Sooner or later you will get to realize Putin is a weak leader and his fall isn't far fetched.
Don't Quote me ,because a man who goes around with Misinformation,definitely never have any truth.

The way Putin will be killed ,will be more dehumanizing than Gaddafi.

No one ever asked if his religion permits. Everyone becomes an adviser

He is always found saying NONSENSE.
Who deceived Kwankwso,Sowore and others.
Very NONSENSE

duro4chang:
No there was over voting in 6 polling units after the so called synchronized BVAS accreditation.

No, last Judgement was based on IREV which shows over voting sure to incomplete sync.PDP have access to BVAS after the judgement and the Lawyer said it during Obi Court appearance..

bhella10:
The dancing 🕺 senator will today return the stolen mandate in his possession. Adieu!

Lol, it wasn't stolen all thanks to BVAS. Adeleke Lead Lawyer is also Obi lead lawyer.
The Basis on which APC relied on, in the previous judgement was on an inconclusive IRAV upload, just why Over voting was seen.
Permission was given and the BVAS used was checked and the result tally without any over voting. Making it a finalized case, the same lawyer said it during his appearance I'm Supreme Court for H.E Peter Obi.

phidipe:
You are so amazing you, God will continue to equip you with deep knowledge, you are good counselor and you are always on point. My Name is
Engr. Olaoluwa Adeniyi Alexander
Msc. Computer Engineering
Modakeke, Osun State

Nice meeting you Engr. I am also an Engineer, Civil Engineering precisely. With a M.Eng in it.

phidipe:
Alright, though presently she has not thought of that, or may be that is what she thinking about now, Anyhow she want it i m ready to dance to her tunes, sir how about the baby what can i do to initiate co-parenting please i still need help on that. if you don't mind if i can put a call across

You will be excessively charged, since I'm Roaming. Not withstanding I will be always here to kill boredom.
If you die today, life will still go on for the baby you are so bothered about.
Glad you are alive so give time some time.Go to their house with an elder from your Side, preferably your dad and mum as this is a serious issues . Apologize to her entire family on your knees for your Deceit and let your Elder do the remaining talking about the coparenting and how you would like to voluntarily contribute to the child upkeep. You did a big mistake by sending third parties to go help beg at the instance, when they found out it was a case of Deceit, they grew hatred for you.
Your wife will on her accord come back to you one day, but how soon is what we can say . Keep apologizing, sending gifts and be of good cheer.

phidipe:
Thank you very much you are God sent your advice restore my peace of mind God bless you in all endeavors
Happy Sunday

Same to you. Shits happens and we can't keep blaming ourselves.
If she ever brings a divorce paper, don't push it too far. Grant it to her.

Nemesis0147:
I was on the phone with one of my friends and we were discussing about this cashless Economy,,,and I complained to her that I have not seen cash for some days now..
She asked me to come to a supermarket close to her place and get some cash that she will help me talk to the owner because they are friends…I told her I can’t leave the house by that time because it was morning so she offered to help me,,,that i should transfer the money to her account and she will help me get it because the man stops giving out cash in the evening…I sent the money to her to help me withdraw it but i have not seen or heard from her for the past two days now,,she is not picking my calls or replying my messages …I don’t know why some Nigerians are so terrible.

A girl did me exactly that also.A friend of almost 4yrs, what exactly are they thinking. Mine was 20k, I don delete and move on.
Mine i never wanted, driving to a nearby state for a meeting , since I won't be staying for long .I asked her how accessible is cash in her area ,because it is s kind of Shanty and cash should easily be available there.
Sent the money the next day I went for pickup ,she switched off. Later I was Greatful to God for exposing the kind of person she is in time.

phidipe:
The marriage was consummated at Ikoyi registry Lagos, there is no need to seek for divorce? i just need to know because i can stay alone like this.

Leave that to her. Time might heal her she she might still want you, unless you want to take up another wife. Then you can go ahead for a final divorce. if not just do what I have advised at first.

The church uses the Canon Law, and let me tell you something interesting. The Church will dissolve your Union to your wife Based on Canon Law. Why because their was a Deceit before marriage.
So also will the Country marriage law do, you are even lucky she didn't file for damages ,since all act was on Deceit.She for empty your pocket.
Young man ,accept the very fact that your marriage is over and seek for redress in co parenting.
Take two or more parties to your Ex-wife inlaws and agree willingly to a amount you will ne contributing for the child upkeep.
Since the marriage is logically dissolved on Deceit , it is in the place of your wife to decide if she would love to continue in future.
Time heals all wound , give them time but contribute your quota. Don't send anyone to plead on your behalf anymore .

In all you do @Op pick the most reasonable advice.
Too many ITK singles On here, with so much imaginary advice..
They have never for once Been into marriage or have its feeling. They are The very first to shout " You will loss nothing, Walk away " as if naso their mama Walk away ...Egbami...
A man who was able to gather money ,buy properties ,marry you and even bore 2 kids ,isn't a kid .
He definitely must have worked his way through the ladder.
Speak to him at the right time on his plans and moves. We know how he is feeling , all and all he was doing was to boast the family income.

luminouz:
Stop talking please. Haven't you embarrassed yourself enough? Jeez!

I see you aren't married, so shut up...

lhordspy:
You can keep up with the super story to your people in the southEast there. But hear me and hear me loud; You will never, i repeat never rule this nation.

The hard reality is that in 2027, You Mr. Peter Obi will still contest against Tinubu once again. The entire North will still never vote for you, you will still not be able to win a single state there nor get 25%

The Southwest will still never vote for you except your brothers in Lagos, you will still fail in 5 out of the 6 states that make up the region because the people already know you are leading and championing your tribal people to takeover Southwest in disguise of running for political post.

You will still lose states like Kogi, Niger, Kwara in the northcentral.

Even if you decamp to PDP, your image is already battered over here in the North. We all see you as nothing more but a Religious divider, the man who hates muslims so much that he paid general overseers billions of dollars to preach hate against muslims on the altar. No heavyweight politician here in the North will be bold enough to campaign for you .

You are done for, Mr Obi. No pathway to victory for you now, next four years or next 3millions years. That name Gregory Obi will forever be a rejected name in Nigeria political space.

Shut up you fool! If been foolish was a person it will be you .
Who played the politics of Religion more than the North ? Peter definitely don't need the North to make him a president and that is a fact . Northcentral alone is okay for that .
To crown your stupid reasoning, you went as far as saying he paid Overseas and pastors. So dumb of a fellow.
I put it to you , if any section of the North ever gets developed as Anambra state , then you are free to quote me, Bunch of fool.
All the leaders from North have always cheated and use religion to fool awhole lot of people. dumb ass

Heathrow44:
Oga rush and go and return that useless fridge u bought, d idiot seller is trying to make sure it stays in ur hands ✋ so that he will say u spoilt it, infact immediately u plugged it and it didn't work, u should av returned it, all dat 1mm wiring is nonsense, return and collect back ur money and go to a quality and renowned store and buy ur goods, stop buying from all those small small stores

Calm down .. it is working now

rollywise:
Kill her because you married her na. You think she's same person after childbirth. One of the major importance of masturbation is, it comes as a substitute where couples are afar or one indisposed at the moment. Need I remind you there's no excuse for cheating. You want to talk about abstinence? It's difficult to start practicing that in marriage especially when you keep seeing your partner of the opposite sex both when clothed and nude. Sha wait till you get there. Pray your wife is still the same after child birth

forget about So many on here... Alot to talk about, but they won't understand. They think it's Soap opera , the North multiple marriage favors the man. Just why the men are bent on implementing it .One was talking about Redpill, in Marriage? Lmao ,it is obvious he thinks it same with dating of multiple girls. He obviously don't know what it means, the word PEACE is taken from your home.
I was telling someone on here a good percentage of men cheat, she was bent hell telling me her man wasn't and will never. I simply laughed my ass off... It is a matter of time dude, you will soon get tired of jerking off and will be needing a young damsel. Unconsciously you begin to find your self discreetly cheating, it is what it is.
I read alot of Folks from the first Page saying shit like 'I can bet you never married her as a Virgin '
Alot of people are so naive and still hold the virgin myth to high heavens...The misconception amuse me and make me see them as a Clown.

josie96:
Have you heard of Female Genital Mutilation (FGM)?

Your wife might be a victim of FGM. You should ask her, and if she is not sure, she should ask her mother.

Sleeping outside will not solve your problem in any way. Instead, it exposes you to all kinds of infection and diseases and probably death.

FGM ceased to exist for some time now,I doubt she experience that. It is actually nothing new, there are ladies like, they see sex as a task and can't wait to be done...Nothing spiritual or Health wise,