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Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Nobody: 1:09pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
most nar are on NL. because they got lot of likes on a comment or a post they believe they are speaking the gospel truth. Any opposition comment is like a personal attack on their self worth. Some NL mod are in the same category. 19 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Preshy561(f): 1:10pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
ubunja:Who was That? |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by ubunja(m): 1:10pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Preshy561:imagine saying those words as I show you my Dick. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by olamiday12(m): 1:11pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Nice write up... |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by ubunja(m): 1:11pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Preshy561:your Ex 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by victorian(f): 1:11pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
funmisticqueen: My dear , there are no coded one . if you are good in reading eyes expression, body language and expressing himself to you, one on one . He won't be able to code it . Such narcissistic guys don't code , they show themselves, and they are like love me or hate me , I don't care. Anyways have never met the coded ones . But seriously, its no use dating them , immediately u notice , just cut off ! My Sister , home is cool. Enjoying everybit of it . I hope you are not working today o? Don't tell me, the patients there cant take a chill pill and allow u guys rest for one day! 4 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Preshy561(f): 1:12pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
ubunja:I never expected any intelligent or reasonable answer. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by ubunja(m): 1:12pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
thebosstrevor:You are dangerously close to a ban... Lool 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by LordKO(m): 1:12pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Your submission is almost perfectly in order. However, you lump narcissistic, egoistic, conceited and egotistic traits together. There are thin lines/differences among them. One thing possessors of the traits have in common is penchant for subjugation (they're of the manipulative ethical leaning). They personify subjugation. Someone of the manipulative ethical leaning can possess either a calm or boisterous personality - the calm ones are more dangerous. For example: - Contrary to this erroneous assertion about narcissists "They take and take until the giver is half of themselves." Everything is transaction-business-like to narcissists and they don't pretend about it - they're not alstruistic givers and faithful lovers, but they expect altruism and faithfulness. Selfishness and sanctimony - to them they're good moral personification, instead of personification of hypocrisy they're - are their major hallmark. Only egotists "take and take until the giver is half of themselves.". . . finished. Self-centeredness and contentiousness are their major hallmark. In this same setting, egoists are the Greek gift givers, they give in the guise of kindness but with an intention to perpetually possess/own the beneficiary, unlike narcissists that don't pretend about their intention of giving, they do pretend about their own intention - sycophancy is their major hallmark. And conceited people, unlike narcissists that believe they are good moral personification, are after domineering/owning others intellectually - to a conceited person, s/he has monopoly of knowledge. A developed/extreme egoist is an automatic psychopath. While a developed/extreme egotist is an automatic sociopath. Altruistic and conscientious people are gold - people of the diplomatic ethical leaning. But for one thing, I'd point to you two popular Nairalanders on the romance and family sections that are narcissists. 41 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by victorian(f): 1:13pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
ubunja: If a woman has such character , I can't be close to her or even say hi sef. Na to waka pass , and bone . No time ! Thank God I don't fancy women sexually .. Not my thing . 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Nobody: 1:14pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:They are the worse kind of men. Honey they will drain you of the love and leave you empty and bitter about men. Don't stay please leave quickly. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by ubunja(m): 1:15pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Preshy561:the Universe gives you what you deserve. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by ubunja(m): 1:16pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Amakavula:which begs the question: WHY DO YOU GIRLS OVERDOSE THEM WITH PUSSY?? 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Nobody: 1:16pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
ubunja:Lol |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Preshy561(f): 1:17pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
ubunja:The way it gave you unreasonable brain? Sorry eeh, you will be better In your next world. Take care. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Nobody: 1:17pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:please don't stay. They wouldn't respect you. They are manipulative abusers and will drain you of love. Don't date them biko |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by ubunja(m): 1:17pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
victorian:I can teach you |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by victorian(f): 1:20pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
ubunja: Don't corrupt my soul, mind and body . please! I will pass on that! I'm completely happy and at peace wit my sexual preference . |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by ubunja(m): 1:23pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
victorian:We will pray before we start. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Preshy561(f): 1:28pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
ubunja:Women in your lineage or your life? No wonder both the men and women in your country behave like animals since no brain is found in you guys. Take care. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Nobody: 1:29pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
ubunja:You are right, but not all women. You have to understand Women crave excitements and they are exciting. They , the nassacists have the dark triads of dark characteristics ( selfishness, sociapathy and psychopathy ) which are fascinating to young women, and even older ones. It's like fire, to a young child it's warm, and bright until they get burnt, trying to control it. Only older and pre educated child understand it's still useful. Same with women, some women learn to stay clear of them. Because they understand better , that nassacists take advantage of one important important quality of a woman her "nuturing" . A woman like to nuture , care and fix broken things, and a nassacist is one broken bad boy, a young woman tried in vain to fix or change through her nuturing ( loving, sex and money ) Older women learn this through experience but the young ones are still enthralled. 6 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by victorian(f): 1:33pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by ubunja(m): 1:39pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Amakavula:so in other words what Funmisticqueen has done is given men a blueprint, a roadmap or a manual to getting laid?? She might as well retitle the thread: HELLO MEN, THIS IS HOW TO GET SEX 5 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by ubunja(m): 1:41pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Preshy561:which country has Boko Haram and Yahoo Boys again? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by ubunja(m): 1:43pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
victorian:I promise you'll be shouting that name a lot. |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Rubbiish(m): 1:57pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Anybody can be narcissist Why making it seem only men are narcissist? 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by johnkey: 2:00pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
I'm a proud calm narcissist and truthfully I always get the pussy before walking away. The good looks and sweet mouth helps even without spending much. I don't keep female friends, no girl in this world can point to me and say he's my friend, baby it's either we're dating, facking, or we not talking Can't help it Was created that way. 16 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Rubbiish(m): 2:00pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Preshy561:& u who posted this behave like what? Get sense abeg 8 Likes |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Nobody: 2:01pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
LordKO:you did not explain the difference between narcissistic, and egoistical people. A narc will only give when there is something in it for him/ her e.g validation. It is not really giving 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Stay Or Leave?- Recognising Red Flags In Relationships by Nobody: 2:07pm On Feb 16, 2019 |
Amakavula:I presented narcissism as what it is, a personality disorder. all narcissists are not sociopaths and psychopaths while all sociopaths and psychopaths have narcissistic traits. Sociopaths and psychopaths have one major characteristic which make them different from a narcissist. This would be discussed later 1 Like 1 Share |
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