Martin0:


oh just like i do check too December Na holiday time for majority to travel na wait will you have any other time outside December to travel down to far west Africa (Nigeria) to visit a total stranger who you haven't met!?

Famousqueen:
She is making sense, a woman can endure with a struggling man for a year or two, that doesn't mean she is a gold digger, i use to think it is easy until i find myself in it, i started dating my bf when he had nothing, i gave him virtually all i had just to establish him by starting a business since there is no job, , and it been one story from another, it looks as if i am just pouring water in the sea, i had to give him an ultimatum to be a man or i walk out of the relationship, my business has gone down, because i have been using the money that i am suppose to invest in my business, to invest in his business, i have been hoping things will change, true be told, i am getting frustrated, so i am waiting till the time i gave him, to either button up, or i walk out, cause i know that i have tried

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
U never invite those wey dey naija finish na obodo oyibo based u Wan invite? Make mosquito finish her leg for that your area shebi

lefulefu:
why will a man jus sit on his butt and be looking up to a woman to lift him up.this will never be my portion..tufia.

Martin0:


na wa for you ooo so woman nor go fit help you abi

lefulefu:
thank god i get parents and brothers wey go dey dere for me wen d chips are down. Familia is bae. Any man wey jus siddon say na woman go lift am up b4 he go dey succesful is finished for life.

Martin0:


Oga nor be that one i ask you oo my question be say, so woman nor go fit help you abi?

answer the question wey i ask you!ok my speak English, can't a woman,nwanyi,female assist or help you? I hope say i don try to break am well for you Biko

za di ajuju nwokemu

gloria34:
yes i'm a single mother

lefulefu:
the only help wey d woman go fit help me na to pray for me for my future endeavor but if i need serious financial help my family dey dere.

Martin0:


Oga this question be no hard before oo, why you dey twist everything see if woman nor go fit help you tell us make we just know! prayer nor be help!

lefulefu:
of course woman go fit help me nau. Afterall my mom and my female relations na women dem be. But say i go dey meet girlfriend to give me money to set up sumpting my guy i cant do dat. Wen u don start to dey do such lady go start to dey look down on u just as dat one above wey dey yarn say im don giv her guy money to start business but she go soon dump d guy cos d guy dey mess up.

Martin0:


hahahahah chai Lefulefu, maybe the babe just dey joke to know weitin we go yan

lefulefu:
wich kain yeye joke? She mean everything she say jor. D man wey go dey collect money frm her to start business na mumu man. I remember one of my guy dat year wey come dey toast one babe wey dey do phonebooth service. Na durin d period if u wan make call outside u go meet all these ppl wey dey do pgonecall srrvice under mtn or glo umbrella. So dis my guy come dey friend one babe wey dey do phonecall service plus recharge card biz and d babe was preparin for jamb as well. Durin d time wen im dey date her na so d girl dey allow am do use d her phone and dey even dash am recharge card. Until wen dem both come get wahala breakup na so d girl reach my side give me one long papersheet wey she write wetin dis my guy dey owe. All d free calls and free recharge card wey d guy collect from her durin wen dem dey date na so d babe tabulate everything. D tin was running almost to 25k. Na so i jus tell d guy to jejeli pay d girl d money or else if d tin involve police na twice im go pay. Though im come dey argue say d money no reach dat amount he still had to pay everything. Dem no dey collect money anyhow like dat from woman. If u must collect at all make sure na woman wey dey matured in mind or at most the woman na ur close relation. No go dey collect money from girlfriend ooo.

lovelybugs:
If money is all you have to offer when looking for a wife, You'll end up with a gold digger who will suck you dry and move on to the next available option when the cash is gone.

Preshy561:
A man shouldn't think of marriage if he doesn't have atleast, 5m in his account.
Wedding expenses and luxury excluded.

Martin0:



OK sir noted

pansophist:
Women will always see men as provider and a means for resources, it's a natural law of attraction. Nothing wrong with that, but men should know when to draw the line between natural attraction and gold digging. And there lies the problem . Although, Nigerian women are a special breed of women, like no where else. I recently arrived from Ghana and about 80% of the street prostitutes are Nigerians. The love for money in Nigerian women is something I'll never get. Its pathetic

Preshy561:

I never said you should spend 5million on wedding, I said you should save up to 5million aside the money budgeted for wedding and luxury.
5million should be fixed in your account.

tosyne2much:
And how many people have up to N1m in this country let alone N5m?

Pikin still dey worry you sha

wetdick:


so i am asking you, how do you expect a man earning 100,000-150,000 monthly to save or budget 5 million for a wedding?


for your info, most wedding you see nowadays are sponsored by parents

tosyne2much:
Don't mind her jawe

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
So a pastor's wife called one of my friend planning to marry that he shouldn't bother marrying now as he is still struggling. That her respect and love for her hubby really dropped when he was struggling but skyrocketed when things became better.
In her own words, "No Money, No Good Wife". She may understand for some months o but she will get tired of your excuses when you cannot meet her needs.

For those guys having hope in a woman's pockets, Oyo. She can Support you for a while but you gotta step up.

So do you guys think that is true? No money no good wife?

Pardon any errors, my eyes dey maintenance

Preshy561:


I don't know for your side, but for my side, I mean, where I come from, 5million isn't a big deal to guys here.

austyn0:

Really?

Martin0:


oh just like i do check too December Na holiday time for majority to travel na wait will you have any other time outside December to travel down to far west Africa (Nigeria) to visit a total stranger who you haven't met!?

khiaa:


I said that I would like to visit Nigeria someday, I didn't say anything about visiting someone.

Martin0:





no no wasn't referring to that, it just like an illustration

pansophist:
Women will always see men as provider and a means for resources, it's a natural law of attraction. Nothing wrong with that, but men should know when to draw the line between natural attraction and gold digging. And there lies the problem . Although, Nigerian women are a special breed of women, like no where else. I recently arrived from Ghana and about 80% of the street prostitutes are Nigerians. The love for money in Nigerian women is something I'll never get. Its pathetic

Bidobado1:


No money, no good wife ANYWHERE!!

Ugosample:


not true

certain cultures do not glorify material things and accumulation of wealth and all that

Ugosample:


So you are in Ghana right now?

Are you a married man?

If you are not, why don't you check out hot gossip this night ?




Don't ask me what they do there, wfen you get there, you see what is there.

But I'll give you a tip tho
It's a "multinational" hangout"

I'll be flying in this June to stay for a month plus