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Do I Lie about The Condition Of Where I Stay to this girl / MEN!! Don't Let Society Lie To You!! This Kind Of Women DO NOT EXIST!! / I Lie? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by Yankiss(m): 5:16pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Chi59:Ensure you date only AA guy. Dating AS is pure disaster. But I won't encourage you to lie about your status. Don't disclose either unless it becomes necessary. If you marry an AA you won't give birth to a sickler only a carrier. You can use style to find out the genotype of your would be boy friend. 1 Like |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by ttmax09(m): 5:19pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
izzou:What is complicated there i know quite a few ladies who are SS and are happily married. Likewise Men also. 1 Like |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by ttmax09(m): 5:33pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
rex444:Geez at 27. I thought they say once they reach age 24 They ve crossed. Sorry for ur loss bro |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by divineappo(m): 5:35pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Chi59:it is well |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by Futureyahooboi(m): 5:47pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
"Apart from that fact, I'm beautiful, smart, funny, very lovely, outgoing (even as an ambivert). I poses a healthy level of empathy, self esteem and confidence. Physically I'm tall, slim, moderately endowed. I have been told that I look healthier than some "healthy" people. So I don't know, what am I lacking? " Maybe you lack common sense because every woman is beautiful, smart, funny, very lovely and outgoing but what value do you add to their life's .... 1 Like |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by Spidermon: 5:48pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
The fear of fucking her to death will keep hanging at the tethers of my mind anytime we wanna have sex. The fear of raising SS genotyped kids too. They just could be AS Love gatz add common sense join body as follow come |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by nams77: 5:51pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
annford:Probably didn't educate her well. There is no way u can have as children even if you had 50 of them. The worst would have been a carrier(AS). Chify59 It's quite heartbreaking. But put your trust in God and ask him to bring the right person your way. Like I explained up there. Try and get hook up to an AA person. Don't tell a lie please. It will come back to bite you. |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by nams77: 5:55pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Spidermon: If a man is AA and marries an SS, they can never have SS children, at worse, AS |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by tosyne2much(m): 5:57pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
OAUTemitayo:The feminist tendencies is one of those things that turn me off in women too. They end of as terrible wives and it's something a young man should worry about 2 Likes |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by CodeTemplar: 6:10pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Chi59:please Are you are christian? |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by Nobody: 6:13pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Futureyahooboi: I don't lack common sense. Swerve! |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by amike99: 6:16pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Hmmm sorry am also a SS 29yrs with 3yrs old son and in my final yr in skul, but I don't like pple calling me dat I met my girlfriend during my ND days after 3month of dating I told her I was SS, r parent decline, but love keep d relationship going, she got pregnant but she decided to keep it. Due to financial problem she left but her conscience make her come begging my advice for u are get a guy with conscience AA be faithful to him let him no ur genotype make sure he love u 1 Like |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by annford: 6:28pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
GadgetHunter: Lol man! easy, Sir. you just made me laugh so loud and hard. thanks man. 1 Like |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by Nobody: 6:31pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Chi59: He said the right thing, though in a very terrible and judgmental way. |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by annford: 6:33pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Chi59: Chi59, please do not get mad at me. I've checked my mail and could find any message(s) from you. I'm worried but calm. I wrote out my number for you yesterday. I do not know if you ever saw it. I really need to speak with you. |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by ogbevireo(m): 6:34pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Chi59: How are they good guys when they cannot stand the truth? |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by 2emgee(m): 6:35pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
donstan18: Too harsh, take it easy on her pls be a little bit sensitive to people's emotion. 2 Likes |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by Spidermon: 6:35pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
nams77: Yes. The guys in question could be AS |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
annford: I sent you a message at midnight. The mail address starts from "Ab****@gmail. com" |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by kenedy175(m): 6:41pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
annford: Like someone said, there's definitely someone for everyone. You shouldn't lie to any guy about your condition. You should always come out straight. Love will find you . Many people are looking at this from 1 perspective. "Marry an AA guy and you'll never bother about having kids with SS.." thats true. But do they know what a pregnant SS woman faces during delivery?? They are not even advised to give birth more than twice. The risk of crises is just too high. My dear friend, love will find you. Just pray and plan your life well 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by annford: 6:47pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Chi59: oh wow! my sincerest apology. I got the mail but never knew it came from you. I just replied it. I'm so sorry. |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Chi59: Don't give up on relationship but invest heavily in your virtuousness. It could cover up for the genetic disorder before some guy and eventually choose to bear with you in marriage. With him in the know, both of you will be able to plan with a competent doctor and hopefully avoid having children with such genotype. But don't reveal it until the relationship is "serious" so that he would have had enough time to see and experience your virtuousness firstly. I pray you get a miracle some day on your genotype. But remain happy always - staying happy is a choice. Make that your choice. 2 Likes |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by Vince77(m): 6:50pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Don't ever start friendships/relationships with a lie/hiding the truth. |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by pussyAvenger: 6:51pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Chi59:l notice that your type are usually highly academically sound . lz it a sort of conspiracy or what? 1 Like |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by kenedy175(m): 6:56pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Chi59: Like someone said, there's definitely someone for everyone. You shouldn't lie to any guy about your condition. You should always come out straight. Love will find you . Many people are looking at this from 1 perspective. "Marry an AA guy and you'll never bother about having kids with SS.." thats true. But do they know what a pregnant SS woman faces during delivery?? They are not even advised to give birth more than twice. The risk of crises is just too high. My dear friend, love will find you. Just pray and plan your life well 1 Like |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by sowilli: 7:19pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
Chi59:the truth can’t rob you of true love. The truth is preparing you for a better one. Nothing can stand against the truth. Truth is Truth. Whoever leaves you because you stand for the truth will not last if you lie to them either. I tell you from experience any decision and relationship based on lies CAN NEVER last. 1 Like |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
annford:real recognize real sir. No games !!! Goodluck, not Jonathan 1 Like |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by OAUTemitayo: 7:52pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
tosyne2much:I tell you. Imagine saying my family cannot visit and sleep at my place if we marry. It was a red flag.. And I really love her, but one need to use his sense 2 Likes |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by tosyne2much(m): 7:54pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
OAUTemitayo:That's a sign of a looming danger.. It doesn't make sense if you have a peaceful family and then a woman tears you apart.. You see how women turned Psquare against each other |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by annford: 8:14pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
[quote author=GadgetHunter post=76470991] real recognize real sir.
No games !!! Goodluck, not Jonathan [/quote Hmm this is deep. I appreciate strongly. 1 Like |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by rex444(m): 8:16pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
ttmax09:nah not really, at the twenties I think they have strong crisis which if they beat it, next is 40's 1 Like |
Re: Sickle Cell: Should I Lie To Him? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Mar 08, 2019 |
annford: It's OK. I sent you another mail. Same account. |
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