agbonkamen:
I want him endowed down there

Yide10:
Physical quality? As for me, that is the last tin to even consider.

I just want a man who is not opinionated, who is not selfish, who understand that marriage is about companionship, partnership, friendship and teamwork. A man who will not see me as "Slave" but a best friend, he sud be industrious as well and will be happy to see his wife progressing.

I bet, that kinda man is scarce in this society.

Physical attraction counts but he mustn't be the most handsome man in the world.

Evalove77:
then, take hold of me sharply sharply

Evalove77:
then, take hold of me sharply sharply

UyaiIncomparabl:
Why should I focus my search on physical attributes which of course are transient and just by walking down the road, I get to see another better definition of what I think is perfect. Just don't be ugly, and be tall. Dark skin preferably.

Lasting attributes will attract and keep me. Thus;
1. Extremely caring. I love a man who adores me.
2. Should be confident. Not opinionated. I'm opinionated and can't bear to have a house of arguments and fights.
3. Should be a listener (An attentive one).
4. Domesticated. Don't just sit there and be forming macho around the house.
5. Hard working, have a great sense of purpose, not docile, understands sarcasm, be willing to accept constructive criticisms, and corrections. Should be willing to sacrifice for oneself and another. Be supportive. I love team work.
6. I detest forgetful men. Should be Honest, truthful and upright in all his deeds even if it means hurting me with the truth. I detest cheats. Loyalty is key.
7. Should be a leader and not bossy. They're two different things.
8. Must be Eloquent (no bleeped up accents), and highly intelligent than me. Being street smart is a PLUS.
9. Shouldn't be religious. Just be upright.
10. Have a life.
11. Don't be CHOLERIC please, I hate them.
12. Be mysterious, like me.
13. I don't want a traditional man.
14. Be financially stable, not wealthy.
15. Tolerant. Tolerant. Tolerant. Be calm and collected, I'm very stubborn.
16. Neatness is key. I'm a neat freak and can't bear to have you ruin my sanity.
17. Should be good in bed.

I can go on and on, but these are fair and not demanding, and in return, I'll give you the world.

funmisticqueen:
1. Must be mature, maybe a little older.
2. Must be masculine, visionary and assertive.
3. Must be wealthy and abroad based.
4. Must know how to treat a woman.
5. Must have strong family values
6. Must be a critical thinker and not religious.

FortuneDeGreat:
Please can you retweet I mean throw more light on #4, seems you're totally on the opposite side of what average Nigerian lady craves for. :-

MissRaine69:

Anyone who professes to be “God fearing” is the exact opposite from experience.
A person will have a good heart, be kind and respectful without necessarily being “ God fearing”. I am not ultra religious nor am I a fanatic I have my faith yes, so it would make sense to be affiliated with someone who does not believe in everything without questions or challenging that belief .They need to be be open minded. About life, most “God fearing” people are not. Slight generalisation perhaps but you get my point yes?

MissRaine69:
Physical qualities? That does nothing for me
Nothing is more off putting than a ripped man who is dumb asf! This is what works for me!
1.The ability to have an intelligent conversation
2.Reads books and newspapers ( electronic is fine but NL is not part of that list)
3.Open minded regarding cultures, food and other societies that exist
4.Not God fearing -
5.Confident and understands sarcasm
6.Ambitious with purpose
7.supportive without feeling threatened
8.Assertive without being chauvinistic sometimes I do need to be told no as I do function a little differently
Above all high drive and be good in the sack

MissRaine69:
Physical qualities? That does nothing for me
Nothing is more off putting than a ripped man who is dumb asf! This is what works for me!
1.The ability to have an intelligent conversation
2.Reads books and newspapers ( electronic is fine but NL is not part of that list)
3.Open minded regarding cultures, food and other societies that exist
4.Not God fearing -
5.Confident and understands sarcasm
6.Ambitious with purpose
7.supportive without feeling threatened
8.Assertive without being chauvinistic sometimes I do need to be told no as I do function a little differently
Above all high drive and be good in the sack

funmisticqueen:
1. Must be mature, maybe a little older.
2. Must be masculine, visionary and assertive.
3. Must be wealthy and abroad based.
4. Must know how to treat a woman.
5. Must have strong family values
6. Must be a critical thinker and not religious.

onuku:


What do you mean by "Above all high drive and be good in the sack"

Satan66:

For the first time in my life.
Am impressed by a Nigerian woman!

raymi:
Not God fearing, not religious etc. Really? Without the fear of God, how are humans supposed to be in check spiritually and morally? It's akin to saying no fear of the law/government in the physical sense. Ladies, be careful what you wish for....The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom

MissRaine69:

Thank you

MissRaine69:

High sex drive and be able to match that.

I Love This

Auladimeji2:
Wetin you go bring come marriage

Satan66:

When will you stop being a gold digger
Are your parents wealthy, Just wait till when you're 50 then even an okoda man will fit you

Evalove77:
a capital Gold Digger

tosyne2much:
Funmi, I dey here nah

UyaiIncomparabl:

14. Be financially stable, not wealthy.

I can go on and on, but these are fair and not demanding, and in return, I'll give you the world.

Yide10:
Physical quality? As for me, that is the last tin to even consider.

I just want a man who is not opinionated, who is not selfish, who understand that marriage is about companionship, partnership, friendship and teamwork. A man who will not see me as "Slave" but a best friend, he sud be industrious as well and will be happy to see his wife progressing.

I bet, that kinda man is scarce in this society.

Physical attraction counts but he mustn't be the most handsome man in the world.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Why should I focus my search on physical attributes which of course are transient and just by walking down the road, I get to see another better definition of what I think is perfect. Just don't be ugly, and be tall. Dark skin preferably.

Lasting attributes will attract and keep me. Thus;
1. Extremely caring. I love a man who adores me.
2. Should be confident. Not opinionated. I'm opinionated and can't bear to have a house of arguments and fights.
3. Should be a listener (An attentive one).
4. Domesticated. Don't just sit there and be forming macho around the house.
5. Hard working, have a great sense of purpose, not docile, understands sarcasm, be willing to accept constructive criticisms, and corrections. Should be willing to sacrifice for oneself and another. Be supportive. I love team work.
6. I detest forgetful men. Should be Honest, truthful and upright in all his deeds even if it means hurting me with the truth. I detest cheats. Loyalty is key.
7. Should be a leader and not bossy. They're two different things.
8. Must be Eloquent (no bleeped up accents), and highly intelligent than me. Being street smart is a PLUS.
9. Shouldn't be religious. Just be upright.
10. Have a life.
11. Don't be CHOLERIC please, I hate them.
12. Be mysterious, like me.
13. I don't want a traditional man.
14. Be financially stable, not wealthy.
15. Tolerant. Tolerant. Tolerant. Be calm and collected, I'm very stubborn.
16. Neatness is key. I'm a neat freak and can't bear to have you ruin my sanity.
17. Should be good in bed.

I can go on and on, but these are fair and not demanding, and in return, I'll give you the world.

NNAMDIII:
you ain't serious

UyaiIncomparabl:


LOL. And why will you say that?

GiantParrot:


This piqued my curiosity. On number 14, do you mean financially stable but not necessarily wealthy? Or you actually mean "not wealthy" as you wrote it. If it is the latter, may I ask what you have against wealthy men?

What exactly do you mean by "I'll give you the world"?

NNAMDIII:
because of all the qualities you mentioned, men like that are rare or should i say they don't exist

UyaiIncomparabl:


LOL. You obviously haven't met people then. Okay. What I actually want in totality is a 'good man' who'll adore me.

kalu61:

there are things you will not understand as about men unless you are one.

Don't place high standard for your type of man. Just wish abi pray for your man. When you fall in love to examine all these qualities. Love go don blind everything. No bi love again

tosyne2much:
Don't mind all these high demanding ladies you see on Nairaland, most of them will end up settling for less.

It will be very hard to find a man that will stick to her because there will always be conflicts. The reason is because she's opinionated and a perfectionist. One of those red flag traits of a woman. Kindly go through her comment again and see all the qualities she wants in a single man

Honestly it's not easy dating a perfectionist and an opinionated woman because you will have to tolerate a lot of bullshit and they can notorious.. I know what I'm saying

UyaiIncomparabl:


LOL. I meant the former. He should be financially stable, but not necessarily wealthy.

I have nothing against wealthy men. If he's wealthy, fine.

Lastly, what I meant by 'I'll give you the world' is (I'll go forth to the moon and back for him), giving him all of me.

NNAMDIII:
what of a dude that's 5 feet 6 inches tall?