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Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Daeylar(f): 11:01pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by King44(m): 11:01pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
if na me first and foremost na slaps and secondly no more schooling in the uk, I would make sure you are transferred to advance secondary school in naija straight up |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by arrestdarrester: 11:04pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
I don't believe she told her dad to do the dishes in the absence of her mum. She must have the backing of her mum. Anyway, the dad did the right thing. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by LilMissFavvy(f): 11:06pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
I am not aware of this new feminism which you are talking about. However, if this picture of new feminism which you talk about is true, my question to you is how come? What happened? What stirred it? What have the men done to ladies that has brought such a drastic change to feminism? The solutions lies with the men, something definitely went wrong, feminism cannot just change without a reason. If you have a dog, and treat it right, the dog loves and respects you, so how much more a woman? 1StopRudeness: 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Chidonc(m): 11:06pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Ultimatesammie:I cant be training you as a child and you ask me to do my dishes myself, not in this life or the one after it period, I love cooking and cleaning but it doesn't translate to my child making a fool of me. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Chidonc(m): 11:07pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
arrestdarrester:over right dey worry the man self. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by wirinet(m): 11:09pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Daeylar:If you know how much it costs to send a child to school in the UK, you will not be spewing such rubbish. Your father pays your school fees from nursery to university, he pays thousands of pounds for schools fees not to talk of accommodation and feeding fees, and ordinary his plate you cannot wash to show appreciation. No wonder they say no matter what you do for a woman, they can never appreciate it. She can now got and get a job at McDonalds, where she will wash plates at £5 per hour. The man better use the tens of thousands of pounds for better purpose. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Chidonc(m): 11:11pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
TSRC:anyone that thinks the man reaction is harsh has never trained another person to know what it feels like for someone you pay house rents, school fees, feeding, transportation, clothing etc to disrespect you I swear. 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Lleigh(f): 11:12pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Before people lynch me.... I hope the girl has not been through a lot at home? I know the father is paying the fees, I am asking I hope all the women of the household are not victims of abuse. It takes many forms and for the victims it is small things they can use for rebellion. Unfortunately her rebellion for whatever reason has backfired |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by AmazonTopaz(f): 11:12pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Nl boys and their own definition of feminism is like saying earth is jupiter. Their definition of the movement always go in the opposite direction.No need to take them serious. They are just scared of the word. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 11:15pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
xperiencelove: Daeylar that you quoted just wants to be a mordern westerner...as rightly said by iomoge2, the child is a bastard..... that’s how U identify the bastard in a house...once they Reach certain age, they start to have uncalled for behavioral patterns towards their supposed father. if they run DNA test permit me to fallaciously say I’m 200% sure the man won’t be the father... Daeylar thinks the man stopped paying school fees because of ordinary plate washing.... he stopped becos he has realized that shild is bastard....no child of mine will have the impulse to tell me to go and wash plate. therefor no African father will pay the school fees of another man’s child that was unknowing raised by him tru an adulterous mother... And to all the bastards out there, this is how u will know ur mother brought ur pregnancy from outside...once you unconsciously, for no reason start to feel the need to disrespect and dishonor your father but u will gladly go and wash Boxers and still gladly hold burglary of another man. Please nobody should mention me..I just used Valium 5.. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Inception(m): 11:21pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
1StopRudeness: God bless you for these words. The child is simply a bastard. And the mother's reaction simply affirms it. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 11:22pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
No matter how my money de pour like water I rather send my child to Zambia, to school than abroad. Spits this is why most Nigerian men will marry white women only to get what the want and abscond. White no get manners at all. Just friend Zoned her get your cut and shit to far away country and start up new life. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by seanjy4konji: 11:25pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
i see some ladies comment and all i can say iss? ORI YIN TI DARU... LO SO FUN BABAEEE TO BO SI KITCHEN KO MA FO ABO. EYIN OMO ALE OSHI YI 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Inception(m): 11:25pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
donziggyman: To avoid this kind of stupid nonsense! |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Chaleeee: 11:26pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: Ogbeni, this is your father that is shelling out thousands of British Pounds oo. Even the food is from his money. The sense of entitlement in this generation is high. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 11:32pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
Inception:Mehn thanks I forgot to complete it. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 11:35pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: It just the sudden hunger for power from the female folk and the huge desire to stupidly have the tables turned....forgetting men and women will never be the same even if u are somehow the bread winner of the relationship. while I slightly agree they the female have been largely marginalized when time began based on their nature ie child bearing, menstration etc..placing them at the bottom of the food chain... technology has however changed all that. women no longer have to stay home for their monthly flow, there are contraceptives that can make u decide u don’t want kids but face career for some time and be the best version of urself but still, ur kind needs to accept that men and women can never be the same...that’s what mordern feminism won’t accept...asides biological differences which can never change, there are cultural barriers which are sometimes strong as biological facts, male preferences, social engineered construct which are not really hard rules but over time has become a norm.... But here we are, men are still to blame, the father must have done something wrong to make his daughter order him to go wash his plate right |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 11:42pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
AmazonTopaz: I like the way you reason honestly... 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by LilMissFavvy(f): 11:46pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
You don't understand feminism, I feel like ignoring your msg. Feminism is about giving men and women equal rights/opportunities. Or are you against women/men having equal opportunities? If so, what are your reasons? What do you mean by ''men and woman can never be the same''? 1StopRudeness: 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Cyberleets: 11:47pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
iomoge2: I wish we have ur type in abundant in nigeria...I for marry one! But what we have now ehn, it's scary Your husband is a lucky man |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by comodo: 11:56pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
EmagNig:How pikin go open mouth, get liver tell him papa wey come visit am make him wash him plates. Abomination!!! Mama dey support am. Conclusion, d mama is d poison. She has been doing same all d while & d children copied. End of story. 2 Likes |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by iPopAlomo(m): 11:56pm On Jun 16, 2019 |
ibkayee: Yes... Would you tell your dad that pays your fees, that came visiting to do his dishes after him. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by dingbang(m): 12:03am On Jun 17, 2019 |
ibkayee:just look at question ..maybe it's when your son calls you a beech you will know whether it is really deep to remove him from his school.. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 12:04am On Jun 17, 2019 |
jeytee: If you think calling people names on the internet hurts, you have a lot of maturing to do. |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 12:05am On Jun 17, 2019 |
The father's decision is on point. Let her and her mother go and look for another mugun |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by dingbang(m): 12:06am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Daeylar:do you even have a father? |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 12:10am On Jun 17, 2019 |
Inception: I did and I stand by it. This mentality that parents are gods that their kids can't make direct requests of or correct is part of the things ruining our country. Nobody is above washing dishes. Like what's there in washing dishes sef? You guys are not even talking about the manner she asked which was not specified. It's just asking a parent to wash their dish that's rude. I'm not so emotionally fragile as to have my ego be hurt by being asked to wash dishes by my kid. If my kid says "dad, I'm in a hurry to get somewhere. Could you please do this thing because I can't do it right now", then I'd do it if I'm disposed to. If I'm not, I'll explain right back and we figure out a way to resolve it. The same ego and anger many people's parents used to raise them is what they're using to raise their own kids. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by paraltero: 12:11am On Jun 17, 2019 |
kunkelhanspeter: And I ask, what is wrong with it? What is there in washing plate that the man is too big to do? Plates that he'd still wash if he was living alone. But "oh, I have a daughter. I'm suddenly too big to do dishes" |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by Yankee101: 12:11am On Jun 17, 2019 |
SageMK: I can't keep using my money to train you to disrespect me 1 Like |
Re: Man Stops Paying Daughter's School Fee After She Told Him To Wash Plates by politicalpastor: 12:13am On Jun 17, 2019 |
SageMK:. That was the height of disrespect. Let her pay her own fee by herself. Stupid daughter. |
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