ufotty2001:


thanks i really appreciate your advice

luminouz:

Don't be like that babe....
There is the future,you know....
With your support, things will get better eh?

luminouz:

Don't be like that babe....
There is the future,you know....
With your support, things will get better eh?

Jordan777:


That's why I asked where those sort of girls stay because they hardly come by

Jordan777:


Well they say love is blind, many cases has thus proven that to be true. So I'd say in your case maybe you never really loved, cause if you did, you would damn the consequences and would have accepted the suitor or they are not as rich as you would have wanted. I'm sure there is a man somewhere that will pop the question right now and you wouldn't even think for a sec before screaming "YES!!! "

solmusdesigns:



1000 naira per day isnt enough for rent, trasport feeding and clothing... with 30k a month sef you should only have sex with a prostituite or Masturbate with a condom if you are sensible ..

Because should your sperm by any chance fertilize an egg, then your life would become irredemably doomed


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Sammy07:
Lol
My parent combined salary no reach 20k
And we're living happily.
I'm in the University and my older ones will be through with their education soon

rtdCivilservant:

That is why I said I always wonder the magic he uses in sustaining his home cos the why does not work.

Isoduwa:



How can he trust you when you dont have assurance

ejitest1:
Well, for me I don't think it's even sensible for a guy to think about marriage in that state

rtdCivilservant:
I know of a guy that is earning 30k as salary, he is married with a daughter now but seriously I always wonder how on earth he is coping.

valentinenw:
The ladies that will marry a guy earning 30k are not on nairaland. My friend once employed a guy part time(14days a month, 6hrs a day) and she was paying 15k. When she learnt he was married with 2 kids and didn't have any other job, she had to increase it to 20k and later to 24k. As he started earning 24k, see as the guy begin shine, adding weight, changing clothes etc. We later asked him how he was doing the magic, o boy, see economics masters. Too bad he had to be sacked when business couldn't stand against the harsh economy. Surprisingly, he had saved enough in his local meeting to collect a loan and buy an okada.
I throway salute

NoHoper:
I earn 250K and I hardly manage to save 50K at the end of the month. I'm "compelled" to pay a number of people salaries because they have similar genetic materials as me

A girl is better off marrying dude that earns 30K over me.

Ugosample:



you must be meeting the wrong men


You see that is the problem of this generation

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. Luminouz, don't be like that either.

The future is very uncertain. I'd rather advise a man on a 30K income to improve his skills, thereby, making him more desirable to getting better income. I don't earn 30K, therefore I can't marry a man who earns 30K. Make everyone find him level.

You wey dey talk, you and I know say na big man you be. So, why advise me to settle for less?

dadebayo1:


Nothing is impossible... With planning and a positive attitude to set goals you can achieve anything ... Its all about determination and having a partner ready to key into your goals... Trust me it is quite easy with a partner that understands and ready to support her husband all through

stinflame:


Oga you didn't mention tips, which at times is twice Ur salary. A friend works in a hotel with a house and a car

PETUK:


The question was salary not tips.

Harbeeorlar:
I wish i am in such position, i would have helped. Also am not in the education sector so i dont know how they do their thing.
Meanwhile we are both Yoruba.

TOPCRUISE:

So If you did not marry, God will not bless you with 50k job

Posimii:
Well,I don't know if we actually want to be real here or just act fake as we normally do on social media, because for me I earn 30k for now,yet I know the little I have been able to put together with it. And yes I have some colleagues where I work that are even married with same amount. So it's not really abt the money,it's much about the earner. ʍօst քɛօքʟɛ , in this category just get themselves involve in something to keep themselves busy and hope for better offer. And yes,if one is a serious type one wouldn't feel he has arrived with such salary rather you try save little you can and try involve օtɦɛʀ things that may also bring in small small money alongside till God finally hear your call.

faithsystem:
marrying a man of that class is not a problem because, it's biblical for woman to be a support to the husband, so i'll be supportive to him. but there are some questions that would need to be answered by the man, 1. is the man ready for marriage, 2. iis he extravagant, 3, does he have a drinking,, smoking, womanizing, too fassionate and more habits that would likely drain the small income, 4. does he have more financial responsibility to either family or friends, 5. does he have intention of expanding his income? if answer to this questions are positive then, YES i can marry such fellow.

Ugosample:



you must be meeting the wrong men


You see that is the problem of this generation

AntiBrutus:


Lots of them are like that. The dating dynamics in Nigeria is fcked up- from both sides though. Everyday they are on NL calling Nigerian girls names, but when they want who to marry them with 30k...

They will start emotional blackmail and typing like those GNLD motivational speakers.

Manipulative creatures.

stinflame:


Thanks for accepting you get tips,roughly a month you hitting 70k or more.

PETUK:


100k, but you won't feel it because it does not come in bulk.

stinflame:


Oga you are a big man...Thats what makes hotel workers survive not the mirage allowances,even at times some tips are in dollars.
But we talking of a case where home and aboard is 30k.