Cheating is in your blood but was waiting for the right condition to manifest, you only manifested what was lying idle for one year and four months. Go and deal with it because if the girl accepts you back , you will still cheat on her again. And with time you will be Comfortable with it

uboma:


Hi.
Been a while.

Oyea bro. how have you been?

Bola146:


See another mumu

Hahahahaaaaaah,chai e pain am wella!sister go blacksmith go buy iron pant!.

Shugargal:
Oyea bro. how have you been?

I have been the way you left me. You didn't get in touch...

I hope she never acceptsor forgives someone like you, she doesn't deserve you, I wonder why men like you are so heartless and wicked , cheat and fornicator

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

@Enshi
hope she never acceptsor forgives someone like you, she doesn't deserve you, I wonder why men like you are so heartless and wicked , cheat and fornicator

Bola146:

No time to waste time, a cheat will always be a cheat

Girls like you are the best but................ Sha your life

enshi:


I just realized this though

Runway from alcohol.

uboma:



Shugargal is right about most ladies being bisexual. A few are open about their preferences while the rest do pretend.

Guess what bro, have gotten like more than 20 dm in this topic, what do they really want? yeah I know this is a faceless forum, to be honest with you, have gotten some new girlfriend from here, some of them are even married women, promising heaven on earth, but their husbands be there hating someone who doesn't give a flying Bleep about you.

Local Man can't say nothing, go say your prayers

Shugargal:
Most women are bisexual in nature, just forget the pretence. if the lady is beautiful, just forget it. I Don wine am finish.it will pain the guy because he will be expecting me to be mad but I will disappoint him by changing the topic. I can't kill myself.. lol.

If this will make you happy, go ahead n fvck her anytime you like but just don't take another bro's d!ck.

Michelle55:
If na me be the girl.. Otapiapia majestically loading.. No time to check time

Otapipia really? Lol, meaning u have no moral justification to judge him u are even worse than the damn brostitute....

Shugargal:
Guess what bro, have gotten like more than 20 dm in this topic, what do they really want? yeah I know this is a faceless forum, to be honest with you, have gotten some new girlfriend from here, some of them are even married women, promising heaven on earth, but their husbands be there hating someone who doesn't give a flying Bleep about you.

wow. But lemme ask(no offense meant in any way), are u bisexual

uboma:


I have been the way you left me. You didn't get in touch...

Am sorry I couldn't respond back the other time, I was just avoiding something. you know naw. smiles.

uboma:



Shugargal is right about most ladies being bisexual. A few are open about their preferences while the rest do pretend.

mostly, its not their wish to pretend. Its cos of our society

You'll need to take a step back and evaluate yourself.
Don't be quick to throw apologies or tell her of the devil's influence or how much you love her.


Ask yourself important questions:

What part of you justified that action before you carried it out?
Its being in the relationship that important to you, a part of you think it isn't and that needs to be sorted out

What is it you want out of your relationship with her?
Why is better to be with her than not being with her in your estimation?

Without good answers to these questions, then whatever action you take would be to save face and not to confront the situation squarely.

Why didn't you ask the question "What Do I Do" when you started feeling that morning palava?
I don't really know what you can do now.

enshi:
Pls guys help me with the right words actions and steps to go about this..

Yes I was caught in the act.
She had traveled to her village to see her parents and she was to come back 2nd January. She left 24th ..

I was on this antibiotics since two weeks now and it really made me experience extra morning sicknesses (guys will understand) so we kept communication every now and then while she was away.

Today I met a lady in the morning while I went to buy my dog feed.. So I invited her to the house she came and we had little alcohol and one thing led to another we were on the bed pants down.. To my greatest surprise my window were flipped open all of a sudden low and behold it was my gf peeping through.. Omg

She had tried to come through the front door but it was locked . she probably had knocked but I didn't hear due to the generator that was on..
She called me my love and asked for how long I have been doing this then she left.. I was agog likewise the naked lady on my bed...

The lady left just immediately... I have not called my gf up till now.. I am confused don't know what to say or do.. Pls guys.. I love her and I have never cheated on her in a year and four months now.

What do I do

Tell her it wasn't you and stick to the story.

Eyah, sorry bro. I can imagine what you are going through. See eeh, in this kind of situation all you have to do is to...... I don't even know what to say again. Any cheater(s) in the house? Please help.

First of all, just tell your self is not the end of the world, person no die. Just tell her you understand whatever decision she has to make and that you have no excuse for doing what you did. Start cursing your self, tell her that you are the most untrusted boyfriend even in the history of universe.

Then whatever her response is will determine whether you'll promise her that you won't do it again or not. And you have to mean it this time around. Dont make me waste my precious advise. OK bye

STANNYGIRL:
wow. But lemme ask(no offense meant in any way), are u bisexual

One funny thing is that some of you think that we hate guys because we're lesbians, definitely not, we're not just connected sexually that's it, I am a lesbian and not a bisexual. though have tried in many ways having a guy but it's not working. I can't kill myself. after all na God create me, I didn't appear into the world just like that.

STANNYGIRL:
mostly, its not their wish to pretend. Its cos of our society

Yea our society frowns so much about it.most especially nairalanders faceless haters, they can tell you what will kill your soul nownow but not for me oo because have been balling teytey. let God judge me.

Shugargal:
One funny thing is that some of you think that we hate guys because we're lesbians, definitely not, we're not just connected sexually that's it, I am a lesbian and not a bisexual. though have tried in many ways having a guy but it's not working. I can't kill myself. after all na God create me, I didn't appear into the world just like that.

Gosh, I like it wen someone embraces their sexuality. And I am not part of people who thinks lesbians hate guys or whatnot. Don't even know how I can get ur number cos I would like to ,I don't even know jare

[color=#000099][/color] Shit happens talk things out with her, hopefully she may forgive you

Shugargal:
Yea our society frowns so much about it.most especially nairalanders faceless haters, they can tell you what will kill your soul nownow but not for me oo because have been balling teytey. let God judge me.

Yeah. Our society and our people. Like I tell my friends,people like judging others cos they feel dey are sinning and they themselves are d real sinners

Eeyah

Shugargal:
Bro leave some people to continue in hate. as if na them create me. my family loves me like that. love you!

Yes. Sound mature reasoning. No need for hate.

Lesbo on the loose

Shugargal:
Hahahaha... na una way be that. if I be your gal friend, the thing no-go ever pain, it won't affect me lielie. but I will make sure I Bleep that same gal that's if she's beautiful oo. hahahaha. but hope you used CD sha? if not go for test now because ayam not understanding this kinda rush rush sex.

Twoclans:


Wait ohhhh is she not the same girl you opened a thread in October telling Nairalanders that she cheated on you .If she is tell her you decided to pay her back .Life continues for both of you .

Actually I have been using that line since this eve. Its not helping matters... We have reached a dead end this eve.. Will continue tomorrow

Don't worry yourself; it's a very simple matter. You know what?
Send your gf's (real babe's) number to me so that I can beg her on your behalf.

Also, send the new 3-hours-to-bed babe's number to me because I need to counsel her and talk some sense into her head.

enshi:


Thank you ... I deserve even worse than that..
Pls how do you think I can fix this

chubbyswit:

Hey, remove that pornographic image on your profile picture, it's not cool at all

Hey, not everyone is a holy of holies like you .If you go to my profile picture again I will shoot you

U deserve heavy beaten and might flog

xendra:
God forbid! I reject men like you in my prayers everyday.

In ur prayers or your actions?