Chi59:

Overwhelmed head?.
Your one minute of fame was epic!. Now allow me to Fvck off into obscurity.

Petyprincess:
Why date someone you can't marry in first place?

Ningen:
No, it doesn't end there. You keep trying again and again until you are crippled by the effects of kneeling down. Then you start prostrating.

Chi59:
Why people still take the risk of proposing publicly beats me. Do you even know if that person loves you well enough or is even psychologically ready to marry you at that point in time?
Any man that attempts this with me is asking for trouble. I don't like drama.

BurnStoner:

Shut up, na Una go Dey cry wolf when men no marry Una..women smh

Gideoniteprime4:

Good thing you realized that!

Chi59:

Another mad one. Seun and his mods have their work cut out for them.

BurnStoner:
I lie? No be Una Dey shout men are scum up & down after a break up ??

Chi59:

Why don't you shout your own, boy?

Chi59:
Why people still take the risk of proposing publicly beats me. Do you even know if that person loves you well enough or is even psychologically ready to marry you at that point in time?
Any man that attempts this with me is asking for trouble. I don't like drama.

leggybaba:


Any girl that tells you "thank you" after telling her i love you... Just know she doesn't love you..

Someone7:
For people who do public proposal just to go with the new trend that's the end.
For someone who's serious about marriage, talk about it with your woman why she rejected the proposal and if you can reconcile your differences.
I know a friend who's proposal was rejected because he was still staying his father's house. His father was highly placed and was very rich but the lady rejected because he wasn't ready to work hard and be responsible.
We his friends spoke with him and he changed. He got a job and moved to his own house. Even though much smaller, but it was his. He proposed again and she had a change of mind and now they're getting married soon

Ningen:
No, it doesn't end there. You keep trying again and again until you are crippled by the effects of kneeling down. Then you start prostrating.

jaksmillioniar:
Are you a fan of having your pictures uploaded on social medialike Facebook, Nairaland etc? Showing the world that you are about to get married? Posting here and there! You guys laughing, smiling and playing like you two are in Disneyland! An image of two people who are madly inlove?How do you deal with such an issue if you are the type who doesn't like spotlight but getting married to a person who is the opposite? It's a good thing to take pictures for the home albums, yes I would really love that, but having to show everyoneon the planet!!! people i don't even know exist!What is the essence of uploading the pictures online in the first place? I believe ladies are the instigators of these acts. Guys don't have time for such drama, well maybe a few guys. And the reasons are not too farfetche: To be the envy of everyone who views the pictures? To get likes and comments? To be the talk of the town? To read the AWWW!! and OHHHH!!!After that period of let's say 3 or 4 days of continuous bombardment of comments from people (even those you don't know), what next?I have come to realize that most of what we do when it's having to do with wedding preparation has alot to do about what people wouldsay or think rather than what you really want for your event. Some are even turning into a competition? with who exactly? probably someone you know who invited you to their own wedding? Or maybe you have a targeted person/audience who you want to show off to.Painting an expression that all is well is basically the reason for uploading pictures of you and your partner in happy and celebrating mood. The social media is just like a mirror. You willsee a fine reflection but you cannot see what is going on within it. The social media is now a tool to tell the world "my marriage is perfect", "I found my perfect partner" even when it is not the case.Social media lives among couples most times are the opposite of what is really going on in their home, in most case but not all.I rather we use the social media topropagate messages and news. I rather we use the social media to educate ourselves on the right and wrongs in the society. I ratherwe use the social media to fight corruption. I rather we use the social media to tell the world the truth about our country. I rather we use the social media to promote love and unity.I am not a fan of telling the world Iam getting married by uploading beautiful pictures on social media. I really don't see how it concerns you, who are reading this post. My families and friends are those who should even have info about the event.Don't get me wrong, but I am a fan of the social media, most especially Facebook. I can mention benefits I derive from Facebook:1. Meeting old and long forgotten friends again.2. Getting old school songs and videos from groups and meeting fans who are even crazier than me.3. Friend's birthday remembrance.In brief, posting of your pre-wedding photos online shouldnot be for strangers. What is theirbusiness about your marriage to start with? unless you are a celebrity, in which case you won't even be the one to post them online. But if you are not a celebrity, send them to friends and families who would make comments that would come with genuine affection and congratulations.

Chi59:

And where did your mind go? Wedding night?

Truthshurts:





Super story.....
I think have watched that season episodes before..
Person wey go marry u go marry u
Person wey no go marry u will not marry u bro

Tozic:


Hey,, can we be friends on this forum? Nothing like sending mail to one another or exchanging facebook username?
Just solely on intellectual discuss. You're extremely intelligent.

Chi59:

And that's why you're still stuck in the dark ages.

gwininfo:
just look around you and give the ring to the next beautiful girl,if she refuses It would look like u were playing a prank all along........wisdom would not kill me

Someone7:


Believe what you like and keep on watching your super story... "bro". Your business

Chi59:

Take a closer look, you'd see the second finger.
Thanks for asking.

oblaak:
I’m yet to understand why people propose. What’s so special about it?



You’re this ugly with tiny breasts and you have the effrontery to insult people on this forum?

Stacyomolola:

so why havent u checked it ... Oh email probs, its ok

Stephenmoka4:
It's up to both parties to either split or continue, before a marriage proposal I'm sure both of em have agreed to get married some day; I mean why throw some random act.

Ningen:
No, it doesn't end there. You keep trying again and again until you are crippled by the effects of kneeling down. Then you start prostrating.

ChilamNk:
If UBA ATM machine fails to dispense cash
Do you stick around waiting or move to another bank?

Easybela:
if it fails you move on,I don't know why a guy will propose publicly to someone he hasn't discussed marriage with before, each time you tell your girl"I love you",she replies with"thank you",then one day,you wake up and decides to disgrace your village people. Even she claims to love you,discuss marriage with her severally before coming out public
People date for different reasons,not just women alone,men inclusive,not everyone you are dating wants to marry you.

Chi59:
Why people still take the risk of proposing publicly beats me. Do you even know if that person loves you well enough or is even psychologically ready to marry you at that point in time?
Any man that attempts this with me is asking for trouble. I don't like drama.

Soknown:

You are right, It is an emotional blackmail. Making critical live decision while sky-diving with all the adrenaline blaring away. they expect someone to jump in on a moving bandwagon because someone is on his knee and in front of camera, Kudos to Ladies that have 'man' up and walked away. What happens to the ol' fashioned way of sitting down to discuss your future together. These days if it is not on camera, glam and gram, it is audio.