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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:08pm On May 03, 2020 |
Well just handle it maturely perhaps you should relocated when the baby comes,and claim you are in South Africa or better still go there |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:10pm On May 03, 2020 |
Eulalia: In no way referring to your generation. That statement there refers to everyone of us including myself, and we knowing that ,will make us take it easy on those positive. Marriage rite isn't his problem from the look of things , his main concern is ,how will his family welcome his idea to a positive woman. 7 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Catchfirez: 5:18pm On May 04, 2020 |
Op, follow your heart and do what is right. There are wonderful advice here. It's upto you to decide. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Crazeman03: 6:49pm On May 05, 2020 |
Thanks to everyone who contributed positively, will follow your advices. We went to see a doctor for consultation in General Hospital, I was told thesame things no one's needs to know and she can breastfeed also. And it's Good since she open up to me. He Even went ahead telling some stories about some Gene who can't contract the virus and also most ladies don't tell there partner even when the married ones because they believe there viral load is low and can't pass on the virus. If your viral load is very low and undetectable, there is zero chances of passing the virus. . If undetected=untrasmittable. 12 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by chlowi(f): 7:35pm On May 05, 2020 |
all i can say is she is blessed to have you. some women are so lucky 6 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Catchfirez: 1:21am On May 06, 2020 |
Crazeman03: Hmmm |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Adesamogun(m): 4:33am On May 06, 2020 |
Advisers. Our People will say. Person wey never die no know wetin go kill am. Oga let me just say this there are 2 sides of a coin. Every Lady has a problem she carrying about. Some Nagging, some family issues and problem. Everybody has their own wahala. Na part of your own be this. Don't tell anyone except you so so so trust their judgement. About breastfeeding. Na that one small pass. At least she is likely not to cheat. Keep yourself safe too by ensuring she takes her medications since you no use protecations. Seek further counselling from Sensible/correct Elders |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Catchfirez: 6:38pm On May 06, 2020 |
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Catchfirez: 4:33pm On May 11, 2020 |
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 4:41pm On May 11, 2020 |
Then the heading of your post should have been - both me and my girlfriend are HIV positive and she is pregnant. However I suspect you are a liar from the pit of hell and this whole story is a figment of your depraved imagination. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Crazeman03: 8:01pm On May 11, 2020 |
Koboko444: Wow if you believe this is fake. Then you go problem bro. I'm not the reason for your problem and fraustration.you really need help sorry. Only came here for advice. Anyway thanks. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 8:44am On May 12, 2020 |
gaby: Something must kill a man. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 9:25am On May 12, 2020 |
I like your courage OP, it takes courage to truly love... I urge you to put everything in prayers and see what God has to say... |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by lukui: 9:52am On May 12, 2020 |
You are putting all your eggs in one basket, its very risky and dangerous. I just pray God be with you and reward you for your sincerity. I disagree with those saying you shouldn't tell your family. It's for security purpose. God forbid bad thing if anything happens, its your family members you will lean on for support. Good or bad you have to tell someone. And the funniest thing about family is that your "little secret" is already known to some of them. This issue is like a "cow leg", if you eat it, people will say you ate bone, if you throw it away they will say you threw meat away. CONSULT ELDERLY PEOPLE(WITH SENSE) FOR ADVICE!!! 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Truflame: 11:43am On May 12, 2020 |
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by gokeday(m): 11:45am On May 12, 2020 |
you will get sense very soon |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by donMIG(m): 11:46am On May 12, 2020 |
Me all I heard was unprotected sex wit hiv+ person I start to tink na sex only dei for d relationship oo But h get mind sha God be wit u all |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Ewedegubbler: 11:49am On May 12, 2020 |
I have had one in my life since 2011. When I found out she was already pregnant. We are still 2geda after 9 years. I never got it likewise our child. It can be hectic psychologically buy made peace with the situation and I am good for it 11 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Blisplendor12(f): 11:50am On May 12, 2020 |
What do you need advice for? You've done what is in your mind or you just want us to know that your spouse is HIV+ , next news please |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by mirob(f): 11:51am On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03: Don’t tell anybody, if truly you love her and want to be with her, let it be your secret. In terms of breast feeding; she can breast feed the first 6 months but it has to be exclusively then she stop entirely, ask your doctor. You are so brave, please don’t ever leave her for this except cos of other thing. Wish you the best. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by supereagle(m): 11:51am On May 12, 2020 |
KINGreignn:Wise counsel. 4&5 wonderful questions. |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nembeboi: 11:51am On May 12, 2020 |
Wow.....u re obviously a very enlightened guy with a good heart. Keep it up. U actually dont need to tell anyone in ur family why she isn't breastfeeding. U can just say its ur decision because u dont want her breasts to fall. Its ur decision so dont let anyone including ur mum to determine wot happens in ur home. I got married to my wife and we re both AS but we didn't tell anyone. Its a risk for both of us and luckily both kids are free from SS. So keep ur reasons to urself. 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Awesomefred32(m): 11:51am On May 12, 2020 |
Seriously this matter tire wrapper ooooo....
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by apexc4787: 11:52am On May 12, 2020 |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Paker02: 11:53am On May 12, 2020 |
She can actually breastfeed without infecting the child. Talk to your doctor, you will be guilded aright. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Nobody: 11:53am On May 12, 2020 |
Tell no one. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by ChiefAfonja: 11:53am On May 12, 2020 |
Ok |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Lovelyn451(f): 11:53am On May 12, 2020 |
Don tell anybody |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by X0012(m): 11:53am On May 12, 2020 |
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Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by Staphylococcus: 11:54am On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03: Its your life Bro! Do what makes you happy irrespective of what ANYBODY thinks The fact that you happy with her, do what needs to be done and follow doctors recommendation. You not mandated to give audience to all. Anybody who is not okay with it can jump off a bridge. People have HIV- wives who ended up killing them and many of same marriages have crashed Your happiness is key 1 Like |
Re: I'm Dating HIV Positive Lady & She Is Pregnant. Advice Needed by robosky02(m): 11:54am On May 12, 2020 |
Crazeman03: Nothing to worry Even people without it don't breastfeed due to Brest that don't give out milk |
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