MOnkeyBabe:
people assume it's because of scarcity of men to marry here but nahh. Even if the economy was not as good, there's a right way to get a man to spend. Not by feeling entitled. That's if you Really want him.

sexylassie2:


Go and marry a white lady, let's see if she will tolerate you not bringing nothing to the table.

Maduawuchukwu:


Ok. Wanted to know because of your surname "Ossai". It is personally among Anioma folks.

sexylassie2:


So why are men feeling entitled to sex?

Liliantalks:
I can never understand the ideology of you doing nothing financially for me and you are trying to checkmate me, want to see who I am talking to and getting jealous all the time.

Am I supposed to stop talking to other guys, because I am dating a guy like you who can’t even take care of the basic needs of a woman, her hair and toiletries? Of course I am doing it myself, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with my man doing it for me. If you are broke and do nothing for your babe give her some space.

She knows you don’t have and trying to cope with you but don’t choke her up, especially now when you have nothing to offer.

Ps: if you are stingy as a man, you are not a man, you have no value. I didn’t say broke I said stingy. If you can’t do in little you won’t in much.

Liliantalks:
yes a woman Pusey is her value , I ain’t gonna cm here denying it ,, as a man can u marry a woman without sex?? I can get a didilo to pleasure myself till enternity, can you do soapy forever?

MOnkeyBabe:

Thanks for staying calm, hun.
SimPle. We Should AVoid that GRoup.
I went out of my way to prove it wasn't about the money. If he is a good or reasonable person(who we should strive to be with as our Significant other), he would reciprocate and not bother you for sex.

I'm not against Sex for money if one really has to do that to suRVive. If that was the case, I would promote this thread and it would make more sense.
I am talking or speaking exclusively for those who want to settle.
Let's not mix things up

MOnkeyBabe:
let's settle this. Both of you are correct. It's just the way Lilian worded the thread that would make guys interprete it the wrong way.

Liliantalks:
sorry to disappoint you but it’s a trade by barter , u take care of me and I take care of you . But in different ways

sexylassie2:


I think you don't understand what I meant.

Some Nigerian men do not provide nor give anything in a relationship but they act entitled to sex like it is their right.

tunjilana:
There are two ways to live with men

1. Is to be in a relationship and be committed and work to be one
2. The other is to be available for all men and increase your finances from what you get from all of them

What you are trying to do is deceiving a man that you are doing 1. With him while doing 2. As well. That is the issue here. If u want to be available for all men, let it be known so no man takes you serious and sees u as pay-and-go, hopefully you will enjoy living that way but as long as you are deceiving somebody that you are in a relationship with him, he has every right to seek loyalty from you.Though I blame the guy, these days men dont do all that silly checking, once she shows you those behavior, simply stop taking her serious and convert her to your play mate while you seek a reasonable woman....

Zoie:

Abeg go and sit down. That line is stale
Op, watch the rats come out to bite
Broke - assed MFs crawling out of their holes, baring their teeth at you for daring to poke them in the tail.
Let the drama begin

Zoie:

Abeg go and sit down. That line is stale
Op, watch the rats come out to bite
Broke - assed MFs crawling out of their holes, baring their teeth at you for daring to poke them in the tail.
Let the drama begin

Tozic:

HEY SLUT,
QUOTE ME WITH YOUR REAL ACCOUNT.

Graphene:

Where did this 10mb data subscriber fall from

Juell:
One thing I don't get is, ok you give a man sex..... But is it only the man who enjoys the sex? Even during sex it's the man that works more to please the woman enough for her to get the promise land, some or many don't even really participate in the activity and will just be there like log of wood.

RamessesIV:
Thank you,Nigerian's case is different,in other countries women are looking for men that will give them full devotion and love but here is always money,am not saying money is bad as a lady financial security from a man is a good thing but entitlement over here is too much,imagine one saying her vagina is her value lol sex that is very cheap

sexylassie2:


So why are men feeling entitled to sex?

Zoie:

From the same place, your freebasics ass crawled put of.

Swtbabyvee:
all these broke broke talk , so I should be broke and my boyfriend should be broke , both of us should be broke?? Na craze Dey worry Una

Genset:



God bless you dear. They all know the truth . I will say it to the high heavens 'I AM ENTITLED TO MY MAN'S MONEY'. If u re not OK with it go and die

Liliantalks:
yes a woman Pusey is her value , I ain’t gonna cm here denying it ,, as a man can u marry a woman without sex?? I can get a didilo to pleasure myself till enternity, can you do soapy forever?

Tozic:


I am sorry sexylassie baby, pls forgive me.