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Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by jimyjames(m): 1:37am On May 14, 2020
khia:


Well, if you read any of my topics you would have known.

Well I just went through some of your topics but came out with no clue , of that particular Nigerian guy you dated , was it a cyber relationship?
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Nobody: 1:49am On May 14, 2020
Martinez39s:
I wasn't banned. Man can't be active all the time.
Sorry not you... I am talking about myself..
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by emmaodet: 1:59am On May 14, 2020
Martinez39s:
Sexylassié2 always try to act smart with by confidently pressing unsound charges and assumptions on how you are broke. Just ignore her. Sometimes, her assumptions are just baits to make you reveal more about yourself. When I only told her my mum recently built a house she then rented out, Sexylassié2 spontaneously assumed the following:
1) my mum took many years to save the money. This is false. grin
2) my mum managed to build a bungalow. This is false. grin
3) I live in a crowded street. This is false. grin

There is nothing you can do to convince someone who is bent on thinking you are broke, especially when that thought is their wet dream.

Then i will assume such a woman is not a good woman for marriage because she has character problem. Ever wonder why some men do kill their wives? Because of ladies with such menalities.
Also, i see her as a very very big cheat. Someone who will be fornicating and you get to know with evidences yet she will stand on her 2 feet that it is a lie because i showed her evidences about me yet she believe am not working but jobless and no matter what i show, to her am still jobless.
Such a trait is a big red flag for men, a very very very big cheat.
My mum usually categorise such people as - Eniti won do, toni rara shuku agbado leri. That is someone they are fvcking and you are seeing them live and direct yet she is still denying that it is a lie, what you are seeing is the corn cob instead of a dick.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by efosky1246(m): 7:20am On May 14, 2020
Arthur2021:
I don't think you get the message.
The issue here is not hypergamy(most men have no issue spending at all).
The issue on ground is the broke shaming and yet this dolts can't take it.
Most of us dragged on this thread (caps,Emma and I) earn very well,I don't think any of us will have an issue with giving wisely to a lady having no money.

I met my lady when she had no money(dependent on parents ). Infact I will advice my daughter to date rich men.

The problem is why do these same dolts cry foul when we men hold ladies to high sexual standards? When we say we desire virgins or young feminine women they call us names,misogynists, paedophiles...you need to see how the thread of ubunja on why you should marry a lady from 19-25 struck nerves on this forum.
We have accepted the hypergamous nature of women,why can't they accept our own nature?

The loqacious animals dande and sexylassie2 have called out and harassed redpillers for stating their spec (what they perceive as slut shaming) yet they broke sham men they know zilch about.

If you want to state your opinions and spec as a lady dont frown when men state theirs

I think the OP wrote with a hypergamous viewpoint.

but if you're coming to it from this angle, I totally am with you on that.

most of these women fail to understand that to get married to a well to do man who is a provider, and not just date short-term. your chances are quite low if your intrinsic values as a woman is in the gutters.

No right thinking man with resources will want to be a retirement plan for what your red-pill brothers would refer to as a post-wall thot. grin
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 7:26am On May 14, 2020
jimyjames:


Well I just went through some of your topics but came out with no clue , of that particular Nigerian guy you dated , was it a cyber relationship?
No sweetie he was physically in my life.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Arthur2021: 7:53am On May 14, 2020
efosky1246:


I think the OP wrote with a hypergamous viewpoint.

but if you're coming to it from this angle, I totally am with you on that.

most of these women fail to understand that to get married to a well to do man who is a provider, and not just date short-term. your chances are quite low if your intrinsic values as a woman is in the gutters.

No right thinking man with resources will want to be a retirement plan for what your red-pill brothers would refer to as a post-wall thot. grin
the op had no issue with hypergamy but the shaming.
She said they has no right to call them useless,because she notices the trend of insulting men with that online.

The thing is a lot of motivational speakers mess up their heads into believing they should set standards without improving themselves so that they can attend their standard. Every girl screams rich man and yet they don't know what rich men want so they keep meeting the same circle of broke asses.
Its not just saying it but improving yourself to warrant it. Or they think the guys don't have standard?
You can meet him in your 30s with sagged breasts,baby whale body and average look? How many of them gym out to have flat tummy or do do something about their stretch marks? lol!
The mantra "Be yourself,set your standards and a real man will love you the way you are" peddled by motivational speakers is what destroys ladies. One of them opened a thread about a high value woman being a woman with confidence and no nonsense type of woman- I slapped my thighs laughing as I saw it.

They don't know what a high value woman looks like to a man. They take advice from their fellow women and manginas who don't know how men think.

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Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by jimyjames(m): 8:04am On May 14, 2020
khia:

No sweetie he was physically in my life.


Hope he was a real Nigerian born and raised here before he moved there ?
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 8:48am On May 14, 2020
jimyjames:



Hope he was a real Nigerian born and raised here before he moved there ?
Well he was raised here but unfortunately he stayed true to his Nigerian upbringing.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Eyeness: 10:10am On May 14, 2020
xendra:
Do not argue with everyone, you should know that not every woman has standardscheesy some even do 3.somes to please the assholes they call mangrin some now mask it by claiming they wanted it too.....but we all know deep down if the man wasn't up for it they wouldn't.
yes. Thanks

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Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by jimyjames(m): 11:21am On May 14, 2020
khia:
Well he was raised here but unfortunately he stayed true to his Nigerian upbringing.

He is fortunate to be raised a true Nigerian in a foreign country don't call it unfortunate. his parents must have done a good job its difficult to raise children in a cultural way in a foreign land
He might not be a typical Nigerian but its good he was raised that way hope he can speak his native language?
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Nobody: 11:47am On May 14, 2020
jimyjames:

The bitter truth is a lady that can be bought with money is not different from the pets we keep at home

Then make love to your pets.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by jimyjames(m): 12:16pm On May 14, 2020
chiddyok:

Then make love to your pets.

Why should I?
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Nobody: 12:24pm On May 14, 2020
jimyjames:


Why should I?
Because there’s no difference between women and pets, according to you. grin
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by jimyjames(m): 12:51pm On May 14, 2020
chiddyok:

Because there’s no difference between women and pets, according to you. grin

But I can buy they human pet na grin

Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Ybaby: 9:08pm On May 14, 2020
efosky1246:


stop being extreme. most guys aren't paying any woman for a relationship. except its strictly a transactional one(sugar baby, escorts, e.t.c).

there is nothing wrong with a woman being hypergamous; seeking the highest value mate she can attract in order to ensure
her comfort and that of her unborn children. that's how its always been. and that's how it'll remain no matter how liberal we'll
evolve to be.

you guys claim to be red-pilled but still fight this basic reality.

even most right thinking career women are looking for a man of a higher financial prowess. that's just how it is.

And I hate to break it to you. the intrinsic value(youth, beauty, sexual purity, nurturing capabilities) a woman brings into a man's life would
always be valued more than any financial value she might bring.

a beautiful 18 year old virgin would be more sought out for than a Linda Ikeji.

If a woman has to spend on a man to be deemed valuable, there is something wrong, she has lost woefully.

Only men who have not achieved much in life will be intrigued by a woman's money.

I am not in anyway encouraging a man to start playing husband role in a courtship. but stop making it seem like its wrong
for anyone in a relationship to watch out for his or her own interest. that is the only way to avoid deep resentment down
the line from either party.

Gbam!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 10:44pm On May 14, 2020
chiddyok:

Then make love to your pets.

Why would he do that when he can purchase sex from you with a simple gift.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Nobody: 10:53pm On May 14, 2020
khia:


Why would he do that when he can purchase sex from you with a simple gift.
He actually can’t darling. Only the best for the best. You are your ilk, don’t come close.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by loswhite(m): 11:18pm On May 14, 2020
Eyeness:
pls go and hustle.
Goodbye
Bros abeg you get money?...lol I say make I ask o
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 2:13am On May 15, 2020
chiddyok:

He actually can’t darling. Only the best for the best. You are your ilk, don’t come close.

In other words, you sell to the highest bidder. grin
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by Nobody: 8:25am On May 15, 2020
khia:


In other words, you sell to the highest bidder. grin
Yes. Everyone should go for their class. How often do you hear women complain about gold diggers? We don’t look for stress. I’m not looking for a helper but I’m not going to help someone that is supposed to be the head and still kneel down to worship him. Mbanu. Y’all are eager to be the head of the house but not of the finance.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 12:12pm On May 15, 2020
chiddyok:

Yes. Everyone should go for their class. How often do you hear women complain about gold diggers? We don’t look for stress. I’m not looking for a helper but I’m not going to help someone that is supposed to be the head and still kneel down to worship him. Mbanu. Y’all are eager to be the head of the house but not of the finance.

I'm a woman. Kneel down to worship him? shocked You should only worship YAH.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by meobizy(f): 7:36am On May 16, 2020
khia:


I'm a woman. Kneel down to worship him? shocked You should only worship YAH.
Is Tyrone still up north?
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by xrayj(m): 8:10am On May 16, 2020
Martinez39s:
It's sexylassie's wet dream to see red pill men being broke. That's how she kept stalking me, and kept digging my posts from my old account. cheesy Don't mind her. She might be a broke used up hòe. grin It's funny how women advocate feminism and reject female gender roles, but declare that it's a man's job to provide.
Honestly @bold.
I wanted to type it & saw your comment.
How can u be shouting feminism & at d same time wants a man money? What kind of gender is this? They just want the good side of everything, but will never want to take part in the sacrifice making. Things doesn't work that way. Reason eve was easily mislead by the serpent in the garden of eden! To men it is sacrifice before pleasure, but to women, it is only pleasure. They know nothing about sacrifice, reason Christ came as a man, a woman would have disappointed God. Same person that doesn't want a man to be the head, wants a man to spend on her like a baby, while she does nothing. The sex they keep talking about is mutual. quite funny!
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 8:11am On May 16, 2020
meobizy:

Is Tyrone still up north?
Who is Tyrone?
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by meobizy(f): 8:12am On May 16, 2020
khia:
Who is Tyrone?
Your baby daddy.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 8:17am On May 16, 2020
meobizy:

Your baby daddy.

Don't confuse me with your mama.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by meobizy(f): 8:42am On May 16, 2020
khia:


Don't confuse me with your mama.
Good, now go release twerk videos for his entertainment. I know he needs them.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 11:25am On May 16, 2020
meobizy:

Good, now go release twerk videos for his entertainment. I know he needs them.
I'll leave the twerking for you now go and shake what your mama gave you. I'm sure he'll enjoy it.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by meobizy(f): 11:39am On May 16, 2020
khia:

I'll leave the twerking for you now go and shake what your mama gave you. I'm sure he'll enjoy it.
I hope the child support checks don't bounce. They're needed badly during the quarantine.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 12:29pm On May 16, 2020
meobizy:

I hope the child support checks don't bounce. They're needed badly during the quarantine.

If you take care of your kids you wouldn't have to pay child support.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by meobizy(f): 3:17pm On May 16, 2020
khia:


If you take care of your kids you wouldn't have to pay child support.
Which I can't say for your case.
Re: Why your guy(s) doesn't want to spend on you. by khia: 9:18pm On May 16, 2020
meobizy:
Which I can't say for your case.

I realize that you are under a lot of stress trying to take care of your 10 kids by 10 different Mama's but that's the price you pay for being such an irresponsible man who.re.

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