Goddys:


It's one of these prophetic ministries. I made some money after a prayer there which I can no longer account, and immediately they noticed things were improving for me, they started demanding money to do this or that in the church.

I had to practically shun all of them and blacklisted their numbers last two months.

Anything that will make me spend unnecessarily now, I will cut it off. My gf knows I can break up with her if she bugs me financially. I'm not her papa. If I decide on my own, I spend on her but I'm not sure I will spend a dime till things improve again

nobone:
You must be a banker or an accountant.
As an RM, I can confidently tell you that it is easier to maintain an existing customer, than acquiring a new one except you want to close business completely!
Call that babe back!!!

habsydiamond:
there are many like her out there.. they are very selfish. i pity those who will endup marrying them . i could remember, during my nysc days, there was this lady that lived a couple's life with a male corper. the guy carried all the burden with his allowee. for food stuff and all. if the babe want to buy maggi and salt she would still go to the guy. she will never touch her own allowee oo. sefishness is a disease. treat it while u can

Localemperor:
Its is no longer news that I have been declared insolvent. After all effort to maintain my liquidity level to no avail I decide to let her go.

Just as organization retrenched worker during periods of economic downturn in order to cut cost of operations, I sent her a massage expressing my regret and reasons.


I feed her
I pay money for hair dressing
I buy clothes
I take her out every weekend
I buy shoes
I do everything thinkable

She works and earns but I still wonder why she would want me to do everything for her. I compiled my income statement and statement of financial position for the first quarter and found out that expenditures have exceeded income and debt is on the rise.

So I wholeheartedly declared my self insolvent yesterday and decided to cut cost in order to protect my goodwill.

babakingsto:
Guy ur joking, u spent 60k to buy what? Phone she will use to call other side guys? U fall hand pass. And ur village spirit no let u see say u Don Bleep up o.
Chai, men borrow wisdom. How much fone u buy for ur mum?


quoteor=Goddys post=89461453]I don't spend a dime on my gf unless I want to buy her a gift willingly. Last Xmas I bought a phone of 60k for her and haven't spent a dime on her from then till now.


She must have her own thing. How can men be paying bills of a woman in the name of relationship, not even marriage?

mtschewww

OgeFather:

No true bro !!!
I disagree with you 100%

DexterousOne:

Women using men is everywhere

But to varying degrees

Very few places have women who exploit men in wholesale like the way women in Nigeria do.


An American lady for example is more likely to come down to Nigeria and sponsor a green card for a man

A Nigerian lady in that position 8/10 Will NEVER

I have tasted both sides
The difference is clear

This is not to bash our ladies tho
But it is what it is


Talk to most ladies here in Naija
Two weeks into the talk
She is plotting one scheme on how to collect money from u.

That's it

Teeboy15:

Guy na MAN you be walahi.

Na so one babe wey I meet online open office for my head because of big hips.

Just 3 days after meeting babe don bill me 20k all in the name of shop rent.

I solve that one.

Another 4 days after, na 10k for cement abi tiles to floor shop. I solve am.

Not a talk of subscription, peppersoup, beer (she dey shayo), suya and all these small small funds consuming monies in between the one week wey we don meet. No be like say I no fit afford those things without sweat but she just make am glaring say na office I be.

Once I see her call I know say na billing. And I was never wrong.

Omo na so I blank am after I begin see sign of new billing wey she wan nack me. She come begin send message dey ask wetin she do wey I dey ignore her bla bla bla. Dey beg make i tell am why I change towards her.

Truth is some girls are senseless. They look like they have class but are just hungry leeches beneath those pretty clothes.

They loose the big picture trying to paint a faded image.

As a man don't get carried away by that big nyansh or big breast or pretty face you're salivating over by spending the little you have. No time is bad time for you to pull away, no matter how much you've 'invested', otherwise your loses will be too much to count when it's late.

The juice is not always worth the squeeze.

Goddys:

don't try that. It can never be right again. You already set the standard. She can't see you as fit boyfriend if you lock up.

If she was wise and good, she wouldn't allow you spend on her like that when she is equally earning.

Be firm in your resolve.

My own worst mistake last year was spending close to 150k in one church. We are all fools at a point

SageMK:
You made that decision to spend on her in the first place. She didn't point a gun to your head.

I applaud you for coming back to your senses.

womenareapes:
I kind of like you!

but beware of Nigeria women

OgeFather:

No true bro !!!
I disagree with you 100%

angelfallz:


What are you even saying? Have you even gone to Quora to verify what I said about American Women mostly white women using their men, white men as meal tickets?
It's like you just want to believe that it is only Nigerian women that have that sort of behaviour. You're the one that's naive.

https://www.opencourt-basketball.com/the-crazy-story-of-stephen-jackson-literally-leaving-his-fiance-at-the-altar-because-she-didnt-sign-prenup/

Latashia:
I just hate guys like this.

Don't start what you cant complete.

cronsberg:
See this guy o. You don't spend a dime on ur gf, yet you bought her a phone of 60k? wow you t really smart. That money could have gone a long way in a poor person's hand, and God would have blessed you for it. I still don't understand why men spend money on women. I mean WHY? not wife o, but gf or partners. why do you spend even a single Kobo on them?

Unrated900:






She doesn’t get angry because she knows you are her ATM machine that dispense daily without failure

If na you,you go get angry niiiiii

Teeboy15:


Well I didn't. Although I had all the opportunity but didn't have the time. No way I'll compromise my daily bread cos of pvssy. Also, her attitude was a big turn off for me, to the extent of almost avoiding her. Imagine someone I had not nacked putting so much responsibility on my neck. Did I also mention she started lamenting about incomplete house rent to my ear? Would even call to tell me nepa came to disconnect her light cos she hasn't paid bill. Guy with all these things we had barely known each other two weeks. I never nack I don incur, what if I come begin nack steady and the thing come get plenty honey inside, that means she go include me for her papa building committee for village.
Any experienced person in the game can easily sight a leech and pull away. Like I said previously, sometimes the juice is not always worth the squeeze
She still calls me though

justli:


Your own serious o. Guys must spend on their women as long as it is done with peace of mind, no compulsion.

Why should a guy spend on a guy? He has hands and can work. Quite clearly you can help a guy in need but not spend on a guy.

Spend within your means. It makes you happy and her as well. Buying a girl a wrist watch, surprise cloths, and what have you, adds thrill to the relationship.

And if it's your woman, someone you care about , that adds value to your life, it makes her complete that you remember to buy her things every once in a while.

Teeboy15:




This guy you funny sha. Person wey still dey call me from time to time dey beg make we meet since Nov last year wey I give am space. She probably don realize the real reason why I withdraw. The pvssy is mine anytime anyday I want, if I want.
About bragging with her friends, no be small pikin she be na. Girl of 34. By d way sef how much she chop sef? Anything wey I give her na wetin I fit comfortably do away with. A woman can only brag about 'chopping' a man when he's struggling to take care of her needs rather than himself or family.

About learning lesson, I don learn am since, before meeting her sef, reason why e no hard me to look beyond that tempting body and move my tent to another location.
Any man wey say him too smart for women never meet women. No winner or looser for pvssy game

Localemperor:
Its is no longer news that I have been declared insolvent. After all effort to maintain my liquidity level to no avail I decide to let her go.

Just as organization retrenched worker during periods of economic downturn in order to cut cost of operations, I sent her a massage expressing my regret and reasons.


I feed her
I pay money for hair dressing
I buy clothes
I take her out every weekend
I buy shoes
I do everything thinkable

She works and earns but I still wonder why she would want me to do everything for her. I compiled my income statement and statement of financial position for the first quarter and found out that expenditures have exceeded income and debt is on the rise.

So I wholeheartedly declared my self insolvent yesterday and decided to cut cost in order to protect my goodwill.

Starberg:




If you can feed me why not make it real and put me in shame and I will snap the alert and display here... I just love some people, they can make mouth even if they stay in hut

chaloskyx:
so you mean to tell me this business partnership you were running only one party was benefiting from the monthly dividend payouts while the other was pouring all his resources to keep the company afloat. well sorry to burst your bubble you see just like so many partnerships which dissolve due to a declaration of financial insolvency or bankruptcy by a party all the other needs to do is look for a potential buyer or investor who would replace you and takeover where you left off. in other wards you were played and forced out of the partnership there is only one winner bro your BABE shes the real MVP