queensmith:

I always encourage people who dont know what they are talking about to keep quiet, @Bankylan- where did you hear childbirth after 30 is always a challenge? Just because children are having children in Nigeria doesnt mean only children can have children! The average age of childbirth in the uk is 29, and im almost very sure the high incidence of underage pregnancies that contributed to that. So on average most adult women are having thier first offspring at the age of 32 and above.

queensmith <<<great advice from a 40 yr old chick

queensmith:

@poster ill advise you not to buy any book advising single women written by a man! ive heard of alot of books and articles you can read, when i get home ill post them here.

**girl power advise ***

queensmith:

@poster ill advise you not to buy any book advising single women written by a man! ive heard of alot of books and articles you can read, when i get home ill post them here.

Orton1_0:

^
Madame Chima how long was your courtship wif our Bros Nna Chima? It was longer than three days
And did you guys *@&%? We were not desperate nor in a hurry.
And how many times? How many time what?
No mischief intended.  Sure liar

Mrs.Chima:

Poster,

The biggest mistake a woman can make is RUSHING.  I have stated in my previous thread that we need not to rush into ANYTHING especially marriage.  We need to take our time and get to know the person in front of us.  We also need to adopt a no sex relationship with the person we are serious with.  

When you mix sex with courting things can get messy and you lose sight of the real deal.  You will regret rushing into things and if you have faith in your higher power you will know that when you know of the person who is predestined for you then you will not have any doubt if he is the one for you.  

It okay to seek advice but seek those who are positive and elder to you.  You do better sitting in a dark place with your higher power.  You will not be confused because HIS ANSWERS are absolute.

singlelife:

Hey People, I need help

I'm single, over 30 and under pressure from
Parents, Friends and just about every one around me to get Married.

Haven't found the right guy but still praying to.

My question is this:

How do I deal with the pressures?
How do I cope with the pressures?

I'm really looking for ways to cope with
this and would really appreciate sound advise.

Thanks people

You are waiting for the RIGHT GUY?

Then i guess you would have to wait for a very long time.

Phate07:



You are waiting for the RIGHT GUY?

Then i guess you would have to wait for a very long time.

seedord247:

I thank God for being a fool than been an Im-becille here. see if your husband use you as early morning GYM (Punching Bag) you don't need to come here and put the opposite fear in marriage to pple here ( Dalemoshu Clique)

MzD@rkSkin:

Chima don't talk to Orton     I caught him telling Raggedy arse, "show no love to haters" or something like that.

seedord247:

self Centered, ( you know what I mean)  But  i remember my MUM always tel me that when a woman finish her menstrual Period she always in need of $ex like breakfast.

MzD@rkSkin:

Chima don't talk to Orton     I caught him telling Raggedy arse, "show no love to haters" or something like that.

Orton1_0:

Sooo
MzD ,remember the saying; "the guilty are afraid"?
I never mentioned any names, or did I?
I'm highly dissapointed in ya. Ouch.

Orton1_0:

Sooo
MzD ,remember the saying; "the guilty are afraid"?
I never mentioned any names, or did I?
I'm highly dissapointed in ya. Ouch.

MzD@rkSkin:

says the grown man in female affairs? be disappointed. you picked the wrong team. have a good one!

MzD@rkSkin:

It stinks like your hole right? first of all you follow me throughout like you are on this thread. My dudes [/b]are tired of seeing your pathetic posts attacking people and then[b] waiting 30 minutes for their reply [/b]if not being caught via "who's online" staring @ the profiles. [b]I'm not the only one who sees this and you are being laughed @. So don't compare those men to Orton. He said when nobody was hating on you on that sorry backside thread of yours. The only "cyber enemy" on there was me so I am gonna claim that thrown stone. Keep my name out of your posts child. You are mad annoying and an embarrassment to Nigeria, Nairaland and your parents. Dont worry about Jamaica, me or yard sites. None of it is your concern.

Orton you see how childish she is, keep playing the muma lashy role.

ragdollz:

Poor little orphan annie   . Doesn't like to be alone; her own humungous forehead scares her . Keep playing your clutching role okay. You have no where else to go   .

MzD@rkSkin:

Dont worry about Jamaica, me or yard sites. None of it is your concern.

MzD@rkSkin:

^^everyone sees the real deal. keep playing yourself lesbian.