African_queen:

My dear life goes on. . . Marriage is not d only source of happiness. Besides am not saying she should remain single or get married. Just because she find herself in such situation doesn't mean she should start hawking herself. There are many other ways to feel fulfilled she just have to figure out which way.

Omolola1:

Cool Temper,u culd even get married at age 70, man nor get xpiry date

Omolola1:

Cool Temper,u culd even get married at age 70, man nor get xpiry date

bankylan:

Check me book on amazon or wsicebooks.com or you can order from me directly. The tiitle is HOW TO SURVIVE HEARBREAK AND PROLONGED SINGLENESS.
Lanre

idugbe:

First of all, you must know that singleness is not a sickness, it's only a phase of life, secondly, there is no age restriction or limit for this stage of one's life. Also, you should know that it is better not to marry than to marry the wrong person. Finally, it is not in the place of a lady to find a husband, according to the scriptures, it is a lady's place to be found, so arm yourself with these truths and relax.
people will put you under pressure, but the question is 'are you under pressure?' Do you really want to settle down now? If yes, then there are a few things you can do.
1. Be busy: get involved in your job, career, biz, etc
2. Be involved in charity work, show someone love not because you want to be paid back, but becaus you really care.
3. Be useful in your local assembly, God is a rewarder (Heb 11:6)
4. Be steadfast in your prayers (Matt 7:7-
5. Be yourself, love yourself, love your life and continue to radiate love. It will come back to you!
6. Wait, watch and wait!

Dandas:

U had better go and marry now[b] if u see husband[/b],

singlelife:

if you don't see the husband, what do you do? Hang yourself?

singlelife:

Hey People, I need help

I'm single, over 40 and under pressure from
Parents, Friends and just about every one around me to get Married.

Haven't found the right guy but still praying to.

My question is this:

How do I deal with the pressures?
How do I cope with the pressures?

I'm really looking for ways to cope with
this and would really appreciate sound advise.

Thanks people

40 yrs old? Madam  u almost clockin pension age.  dont worry, age is just a number  

Mr, Cork:

40 yrs old? Madam  u almost clockin pension age.  dont worry, age is just a number  

seedord247:

at least we've seen pple that gave birth at the age of 60-70

queensmith:

Seedord247 where did you read all the nonsense you wrote? Are you being serious Who told you people need validation to be happy? If thats what they taught you at school you better ask for a refund, ive never heard better b*llshit! Only those that lack esteem need any sort of validation for anything. I dont remember the last time i needed permission to laugh and according to neurologists,'happy hormones' are not released when 'validators' demand them! Who is the validator and validatee? If all the women you know can only be happy when you allow them, only experienced happiness when they got married or thier only recognizable 'acheivements' were being married; then i will advise you to move out of the jungle! Mshew,i dont blame you dudes anyways, its all your sense of joy beleiving your needed to be happy!