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Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by angelfallz(m): 4:39pm On May 25, 2020 |
FeliciaOja: My parents were strict too, but i did not do any of the nonsense you said you did. Stop using your parents' strictness to justify your bad behaviour. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Peppermintflav: 4:39pm On May 25, 2020 |
Have u ever noticed that children who are always locked up indoors, (by this i mean from school to home, home to church, not associating with other children in the compound) such children when they have the slightest opportunity to play outside the house, they play like there is no tomorrow. If u have ever seen a dog that broke loose from its chain u would understand what i mean lol. No kid sets out to join bad gang, there will always be peer pressure, it is left to the parents to know who their children hang out with, the type of parents they have. It is not enough to tell a child not to go out, not to associate with some certain people without letting the child know the reason why... Parents get close to your kids, make them your friend, so that the child will be free with you and can confide in you. That way you will learn a lot about the habbits they pick up from friends and the society, cos trust me they pick up a lot. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Nobody: 4:39pm On May 25, 2020 |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Oluf3mi(m): 4:39pm On May 25, 2020 |
FeliciaOja: Na...dont put this on your dad aunty. You alone chose the path you followed. You had choices...you took the wrong ones. Wasiu sang a song which when translated means, my parent gave birth to me well, with good training, I in turn reinforced the train, hence the good name I have that keeps growing....The choices you made were all your doings not your parents. Hope you find peace with yourself. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by thundafire: 4:40pm On May 25, 2020 |
Been strict with ur children or ur parents doing same to u wouldn't change anything,a spoilt brat will still be a spoilt brat. It's all about the mind set doing good or bad. |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Ishilove: 4:41pm On May 25, 2020 |
crackland:#Truth |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Erickymania(m): 4:41pm On May 25, 2020 |
You just chose to be a bad child. That is what ur father saw in you that made him put extra effort in correcting you. Unfortunately, u still turn out to be bad egg & still blame it on him. The fact dat u could blame him for being a bad girl u are despite his effort shows that u are prodigal girl. But look, if u turn out to be bad it is for yourself. He has played his part in your life. Soon, u will become a mother, u can chose one of those bad boys u used to hangout with as ur husband and raise your own children in a marlian way. Omolabi, igbolari. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Nobody: 4:41pm On May 25, 2020 |
FeliciaOja: Young lady, the life you lived at school was what you had inside. It was the life you yawned for. The problem was that your dad didn't give you the opportunity to live that kind of life in his house. As a university student , You are deemed mature to know what's both good and bad. You only choose the bad one , you've known the good life and live in for long but out of pretence. Your uni days was a time to explore all your wish.You were just like a bomb going somewhere to happen. University age, means you are mature not to blame anybody. Anything you do , you are responsible for your own action, not your dad. How can i smoke weed because I wanted to know if it's bad or not and later on, i blame my parents ? If you were a baby, i would blame your dad 9 Likes |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by kiddkash(m): 4:41pm On May 25, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:exactly. someone has to be the bad guy in order to get things done. which is why kids love their mothers more. they don't know their father loves them which is why he does it. Imagine a 13 year old girl putting on make-up and mini skirt in a street filled with older boys and men 1 Like |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by angelfallz(m): 4:41pm On May 25, 2020 |
rockstarB: Well said. |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Ginalex(f): 4:41pm On May 25, 2020 |
crackland:This is the first time I'm liking your post on this platform. |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by isnovic(m): 4:41pm On May 25, 2020 |
FeliciaOja: You were just bad, many others went through the same training your dad gave you and turned out not to be swayed by those things you mentioned above. You should do a lot of introspecting rather than put the blame on your father's strictness. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by sayso: 4:42pm On May 25, 2020 |
After fucking yourself, tearing Your pussy and smoking your brain out,then what? Who will join you to have a family with loving kids? Animal. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by MOnkeyBabe(f): 4:42pm On May 25, 2020 |
FeliciaOja:we in same Boat. Don't mind all these GRa GRA NIGeRians. Na their way |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by openmine(m): 4:43pm On May 25, 2020 |
kazyhm:True! Their dissimilar approach confused the child! She simply chose the easier and less strenuous one! |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Maliqcious: 4:43pm On May 25, 2020 |
Exc2000:human beings eeh.. How many pastor kids? Pastor kids explore vices in school has nothing to do with parenting if a pastor have 5children 1 or 2 toll the left way.. Shows everyone has a way of adapting to life.. Something most of are not talking about environmental immediate and school.. A girl in uniben, uniport, unilag, uniabj has high tendencies of became morally corrupt to a girl in futminna, convenant university and redeemers. Material, unexposure and inferiority complex are what causes most campus vices. What was in the op mind was to have fun over grades.. Hangout with the boys in campus. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Netblyss(f): 4:44pm On May 25, 2020 |
Take responsibility for your actions and don't go putting the blame on your parents who were only trying to do the right thing. Your father did not force you to do those things. They were your choices and decisions. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by CapedBaldy: 4:45pm On May 25, 2020 |
FeliciaOja:no offense but this is crap. my parents are strict and I'm not interested in partying or drinking. It's not cos I'm scared of them, I just don't like those stuff. you did those things cos you wanted to 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Farki: 4:47pm On May 25, 2020 |
I kind of understand where you're coming from. Not being given appropriate boundaries and having barely any real world experience leads to kids acting out when they finally get some freedom. I've seen it before. 1 Like |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by safarigirl(f): 4:47pm On May 25, 2020 |
Goodmorning2u: LOL...e get who dem teach sex education? Some of you just want to talk like people God did not give sense. Nobody taught me sex education and I don't have any sex partner, nothing spoil. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by mordred44: 4:47pm On May 25, 2020 |
There is an adage dat says sheep wey flock wit dog go chop shit.....dat is 2 sey d shit don dey hungry am to chop tey tey,com see opportunity......dats ur case.....rubbish |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Dharmiejoe(m): 4:47pm On May 25, 2020 |
We are responsible for our actions not our parents. You can decide to live responsibly or otherwise regardless of flogging or not. |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by yongg: 4:48pm On May 25, 2020 |
crackland: This works for the seemingly good ones, which could be subjectively argued. Basically children are visitors you have invited into your home. Some need better handling than others because humans are basically different and all these you put up here aren't the only things that come into play. Things can get so subjective that you'd think that you are referring to the same grade and manner of discipline. How else would you explain why a so called problem child would experience a great turn around when he or she is exposed to an open mind tour guide ( that allows you non threatening doses of consequences of self made choice not imposed 100%) |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by somtoto(m): 4:49pm On May 25, 2020 |
Child wey wan spoil,go spoil.weda the father is strict or not |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Pauldollars(m): 4:49pm On May 25, 2020 |
You embraced stupidity because you wanted to. Everyone has a choice and you made yours. Can you make those excuses before God? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by mordred44: 4:50pm On May 25, 2020 |
FeliciaOja:There is an adage dat says sheep wey flock wit dog go chop shit.....dat is 2 sey d shit don dey hungry am to chop tey tey,com see opportunity......dats ur case.....rubbish |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Sharic: 4:50pm On May 25, 2020 |
FeliciaOja: Omo Olója... Awon omo parent tó strict féran oja |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by wellmax(m): 4:50pm On May 25, 2020 |
FeliciaOja: Another wayward child |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Zane2point4(m): 4:50pm On May 25, 2020 |
Blame youresef for your waywardness,stop blaming those innocent ppl abeg. They gave you strict training u turned out worst,talkless of when they give you cool ones. Child wey wan spoil go spoil ,go and sit down, Child of the world. |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Nobody: 4:51pm On May 25, 2020 |
FeliciaOja: People make choices that's why. The pastors also hail from home with different parents . Some hard very bad and strict parents, yet they turned out to become pastors. The problem you people have is that , you all expect pastors children to be the angels in heaven. Things don't work out that way. They are also human , undergoing training and at the age of accountability, they will finally make their choice to be whatever they like. How many of you turned out to be what you studied in school ? Very few |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by Tillatalk: 4:51pm On May 25, 2020 |
Pikin wen go bad go bad |
Re: Why Children Of Strict Parents Turn Out To Be Worse by AnthonyAk(m): 4:51pm On May 25, 2020 |
crackland: You live life once dude as long as one knows where to draw the line. Coming from a Christian home. I've seem first hand where fellow christians, use Christianity to Bleep you up. Nothing wrong with turning up. After all when you warn your kids about the bad effects of things you know first hand. Most nigerian parents haven't done shit and know nothing really |
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