You already know what you want and what is good for you
Ask yourself: what is the benefit of her staying with you rather than nyanshing everyday thereby loosing focus of the bright future ahead of you especially when belle enter?
My cent, this is your time to plan.
Your babe is secondary and phuck also.
Unsuccessful men run after women while successful men, women run after them.
Be wise!

collinsfhk:


Are you for real? As a Christian, he should pray whether to stay with girlfriend or not? What kind of Christianity are you practicing? Please repent. Thank you

Lol. It is called 21st century liberal Christianity

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Hightser:
Hello guys, so I'm skeptical about this decision I'm about to take, my girlfriend will be joining the next batch of NYSC and I have been thinking of telling her to work it to Lagos.

Truth is, she learned fashion design sometime and she likes modelling for clothing brands and she teaches too, I believe with all of this she stands a chance of getting something tangible in Lagos than going to serve in one village.

My fear is this, (I recently got an accommodation, a single room self contain on the island, haven't even told her yet)
So I need time to plan my future, I'm not fit financially to start fending for someone, if I am then my younger sister should be the one to come over ( though her service year is next year)

But if my gf is to come here, the agreement will be clear and concise, you fend for yourself while I fend for myself, don't worry, the relationship is that defined and she understands.

My reason of wanting to do this for her is cause she has been very nice to me and she has helped me out financially and otherwise in the past though I repaid her.

But guys, my major fear is living with a girl in the same house, won't attachment get serious, what if she gets pregnant? I don't want anything to hinder my plans, I'm 29 actually and I'm not planning to settle down anytime soon.

Please I need advice and contributions.

Who are you asking. If you're qualified to have a girlfriend then you're qualified to take decisions.

Stop asking us for help

IF SHE GET PREGNANT IT IS YOUR OWN CUP OF TEA !

Dont try it

So that you go give her belle abi

No Chase her
QUICK

If she lives with you agreement or not you'll end up Fending for her ,I see you becoming a father in less than 2 years.

U can allow it but if she die.u will go and dance soapy at ikoyi prison

Replies don full under split seconds...Nawa for una oo.


If na better post, comments go dey drop one one

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Dont try it, my two cent.

Believe me, you would soon loose weight, talking from experience ooo

Dear OP, incase you chose your GF to squat with you, kindly send us invitation for Naming Ceremony soon

Better stay alone and pursue your life dreams first bro.

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collinsfhk:


Are you for real? As a Christian, he should pray whether to stay with girlfriend or not? What kind of Christianity are you practicing? Please repent. Thank you

Please repent....wahala dey for dis naijiria.

Hightser:
Hello guys, so I'm skeptical about this decision I'm about to take, my girlfriend will be joining the next batch of NYSC and I have been thinking of telling her to work it to Lagos.

Truth is, she learned fashion design sometime and she likes modelling for clothing brands and she teaches too, I believe with all of this she stands a chance of getting something tangible in Lagos than going to serve in one village.

My fear is this, (I recently got an accommodation, a single room self contain on the island, haven't even told her yet)
So I need time to plan my future, I'm not fit financially to start fending for someone, if I am then my younger sister should be the one to come over ( though her service year is next year)

But if my gf is to come here, the agreement will be clear and concise, you fend for yourself while I fend for myself, don't worry, the relationship is that defined and she understands.

My reason of wanting to do this for her is cause she has been very nice to me and she has helped me out financially and otherwise in the past though I repaid her.

But guys, my major fear is living with a girl in the same house, won't attachment get serious, what if she gets pregnant? I don't want anything to hinder my plans, I'm 29 actually and I'm not planning to settle down anytime soon.

Please I need advice and contributions.

Young Man, you can't eat your cake and have it...... Don't start what you can't finish....

Will she get pregnant? Probably, if you have unprotected sex......

900warriorz:
Replies don full under split seconds...Nawa for una oo.


If na better post, comments go dey drop one one

Its because questions about life is the only thing everybody both intelligent and unintelligent have an opinion about.

Bro i see where u say uneva gallant with money my advise bros no try bring her in o cos uno go fit finish wetin u wan start i dey talk frm xperience n again u mention ur sis i go like make u see ur fam first. Girl fit leave anytime but fam go always dey deir for u anyday

Hightser:
Hello guys, so I'm skeptical about this decision I'm about to take, my girlfriend will be joining the next batch of NYSC and I have been thinking of telling her to work it to Lagos.

Truth is, she learned fashion design sometime and she likes modelling for clothing brands and she teaches too, I believe with all of this she stands a chance of getting something tangible in Lagos than going to serve in one village.

My fear is this, (I recently got an accommodation, a single room self contain on the island, haven't even told her yet)
So I need time to plan my future, I'm not fit financially to start fending for someone, if I am then my younger sister should be the one to come over ( though her service year is next year)

But if my gf is to come here, the agreement will be clear and concise, you fend for yourself while I fend for myself, don't worry, the relationship is that defined and she understands.

My reason of wanting to do this for her is cause she has been very nice to me and she has helped me out financially and otherwise in the past though I repaid her.

But guys, my major fear is living with a girl in the same house, won't attachment get serious, what if she gets pregnant? I don't want anything to hinder my plans, I'm 29 actually and I'm not planning to settle down anytime soon.

Please I need advice and contributions.

Even if we advice you from now till next year, u will still go and do what your mind tells you,
So no need of wasting my time

You better think deeply about it.

paulolee:
you spoked lyk who have already made his choice bt need online advise to put the blame on when things go wrong....all i can say is...my dad always tell md that "that thing wey u dey do in secret for night go surely show face for morning"

Spoke you mean

Onyi22:
Even if we advice you from now till next year, u will still go do what your mind tells you,
So no need of wasting my time

You nailed it.

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Op
Ask urself if it is morally right to ask a lady to live with u when u're not married to her

That ur condition of fending for urself won't work. U want to be banging her free of charge because u're providing accommodation.

Think clearly how u'll fend for to and of course u're on a cruise into Abuja wedding

Kikiki

Hightser:
Hello guys, so I'm skeptical about this decision I'm about to take, my girlfriend will be joining the next batch of NYSC and I have been thinking of telling her to work it to Lagos.

Truth is, she learned fashion design sometime and she likes modelling for clothing brands and she teaches too, I believe with all of this she stands a chance of getting something tangible in Lagos than going to serve in one village.

My fear is this, (I recently got an accommodation, a single room self contain on the island, haven't even told her yet)
So I need time to plan my future, I'm not fit financially to start fending for someone, if I am then my younger sister should be the one to come over ( though her service year is next year)

But if my gf is to come here, the agreement will be clear and concise, you fend for yourself while I fend for myself, don't worry, the relationship is that defined and she understands.

My reason of wanting to do this for her is cause she has been very nice to me and she has helped me out financially and otherwise in the past though I repaid her.

But guys, my major fear is living with a girl in the same house, won't attachment get serious, what if she gets pregnant? I don't want anything to hinder my plans, I'm 29 actually and I'm not planning to settle down anytime soon.

Please I need advice and contributions.

It will end in premium tears and you may become a father soon.
You’re going to be having sex with her and she’s going to be fending for herself... you’ve shortchanged her.. and trust me every woman is a walking calculator.
She’ll throw tantrums and even open an anonymous thread for you.

Young man, You can’t eat your cake and have it. If you never ready, make you no ‘redi’ o... Free things dey purge belle..woman matter is unending and may hinder your journey as a man.

Once again, it Will end in Tears!

Squart her and bleep her like tomorrow no dey cos she will eventually use you as stepping stone to a richer guy and dump u. Enjoy your stock while it last.
Moreover, couples life is d sweetest. But if u work most hours, access ur neighbors b4 bringing ur girl.

I hate having neighbors.

Hightser:
Hello guys, so I'm skeptical about this decision I'm about to take, my girlfriend will be joining the next batch of NYSC and I have been thinking of telling her to work it to Lagos.

Truth is, she learned fashion design sometime and she likes modelling for clothing brands and she teaches too, I believe with all of this she stands a chance of getting something tangible in Lagos than going to serve in one village.

My fear is this, (I recently got an accommodation, a single room self contain on the island, haven't even told her yet)
So I need time to plan my future, I'm not fit financially to start fending for someone, if I am then my younger sister should be the one to come over ( though her service year is next year)

But if my gf is to come here, the agreement will be clear and concise, you fend for yourself while I fend for myself, don't worry, the relationship is that defined and she understands.

My reason of wanting to do this for her is cause she has been very nice to me and she has helped me out financially and otherwise in the past though I repaid her.

But guys, my major fear is living with a girl in the same house, won't attachment get serious, what if she gets pregnant? I don't want anything to hinder my plans, I'm 29 actually and I'm not planning to settle down anytime soon.

Please I need advice and contributions.

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At the end of the day, it is your life.

Why do you need strangers to advise you on how to live your life?

Some of you are shameless.
/

Belle loading...

On a serious note if you want to assist her like you say, then it must not be by having her squat at your place. It's national service she's being posted for, not a refugee camp.

FYI forget about all that arrangement you think you guys have. If she's staying at your place you must fend for her, there's no 2 ways about it.

Use your tongue and count your teeth