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Henry praise: Dear Nlanders, a frnd of mine narrated a situation n asked 4 my help, tot I shud share it here. D situation cums up in 2 diff cases

His gf bedwets. D first tym she owned up n d second tym she started lyin n sayin its sweat. Accordin to him, its not d bedwettin dat gets him angry, its d fact dat she was lyin dat its not piss but sweat dat is really puttin him off.

The second case: a frnd came around (an adult above 30) he slept in his huz [size=18pt]i[b]nfact same bed[/b][/size] n by mornin he discovers his frnd has bed wet.

His question how shud he handle des 2 seperate situations?

N wat can be don to a mattress that have bin soiled wit piss(takin it outside to sun will alert d neighbours dat he bedwets.

N.B: he is a bachelor

The bed is possessed.

^^^^of course, this is the romantic me speaking. Girl are you sure you want to marry an SS? Its tough o. I've seen sicklers in crisis and its not a pretty sight, pretty depressing. Then knowing that they have a greater probability of dying...girl. I dunno. He might actually be doing you a favour o.

cinderellla: Hello,

I've been a guest on nairaland for years, I've been broken and I'm lost...

I'm in my early twenties, a christain and I'm AS (genotyPe). I've been heartbroken once in my life due to my genotyPe, after that incident I always ask for your genotyPe before I know your age.


I met someone and we were childhood friends till we sePerated, he told me he was SS and I immediately rebuked the idea of us dating( not because of he was SS but because I'm AS)..

We maintained our friendshiP but rebuked our courtshiP...Unfortunately, we fell in love and he talked about IVF and PGD. I was hesitant at first but he convinced me (He's a doctor). We talked, Planned and we made our Plans to get married..

I always wanted to confide in my Parents but he made me not too, we even talked about adoPtion incase the IVF fails and I was oPen to it.

I did not care about the rumuors of sicklers, i did not care about having my own biological children.


I loved him beyond it all, beyond his looks, beyond his crises, I loved everything..
He came to my house with his Parents and they accePted, he sent the news around and everything.

He called me last month that he had doubts about my genotyPe and he wants someone that's AA..
We talked about it and he decided to sstick with me, I asked him about 100times and he said he was sure.


Today, he sent a message that he wants to end it all and that he wants someone who is aa .

Isn't it obvious that someone is putting pressure on him not to marry you, probably his parents? They probably were in the dark about your genotype as well and he just told them and they are putting the squeeze on him to drop you. Confront him with this and encourage him to talk about what has made huk change his mind then tell him you've been through the same doubts and you are ready to go through any difficulty with him. Don't just give up, fight for your man!

1. How about his own career, is he doing well for himself or rely on her financially?

2. How's your relationship & attitude towards your family before and after you hit big, were you close before, or do you now insult him at the slightest provocation because of your sudden change in financial situation. ( from kobo less to millionaire overnight)

3. What are your plans for him, did you change your plans you both agreed on now you're a millionaire?

You see,a good Nigerian man will stay and weather hardships with their spouses and drink garri & groundnut. But when you suddenly grow wings overnight because of your level change against them, then you're on a long thing

My advice ; Humble yourself , be a bigger person and dont be rude to him if you start to earn more money, tell him you're sorry if you wrong him unknowingly and his insecurities will crumble. CARRY HIM ALONG. He's your HUSBAND & your best friend.



Plagiarized but a good response.

This scenario does not exist.

Me: I love you

She: ****looks at me for like a minute then grabs me and gives me a deep kiss. We were in a fast food restaurant and other customers started to stare. Then she stops, sits back, smiles and says:
"See? Was it so difficult to say?"