PastorOluT:
This is a wrong move, he was fulfilling purpose in that condition but someone decided to taking off. May God help us to be more sensitive to the spirit.

bukatyne:


Are you still alive?!

Happy new years.

crackkhaus:

Look at this man..

Are you still on NL?
Where you disappear go since...

crackkhaus:

Right...and by that, the cheater also develops a better awareness of the things that led to this mistake of judgement, is able to correct it and do very well to avoid a reoccurrence.

As such, a cheat is not always going to remain a cheat once they have recognized their error and made changes.

LordReed:
5minsmadness, crackhaus,
pickabeau1
I have thought about this some more and though this is coming late, I still wish say I now understand what you meant in saying a person could make a mistake in cheating.

Also I thought I had made this admission earlier but I can't find the post here.

Mindfulness:




Telling people not to have se.x is like telling someone not to sh.it. The urge is too strong and it is natural. How many of you here preaching abstinence, actually practice what they preach? Abeg!

Mindfulness:

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I wish for all of you a HAPPY NEW YEAR! May all your dreams come true.

Aderola15:

Yeskeh .




5minmadness

sisisioge:


Girlie, nice write up. You sure know how it feels being a woman...go girl

bukatyne:


Look who is asking if I am not tired of quarrel

Have I 'quarrelled' with you?

Or have others not given advise without mentioning feminism?

A man said he no longer wants a marriage. ... not his wife is cheating; not his wife is disrespectful; not the wife is not good in bed, not the wife is dirty, lazy, etc. and you think se.x has magic to make him change his mind.

There is a difference between a man who wants his wife to change (valid or not) and a man who doesn't want his wife/marriage anymore....

Have you heard a Nigerian man tell his wife to tie her tubes after one child?

Oga qualifier of feminists, I am sure the part of your post I highlighted doesn't even make sense to you.

And if you missed it, the OP is a concerned neighbor & not the wife in question.

Merry Christmas to you too.

Jahblessme:
red pant wearers in d house

bukatyne:


I am trying hard to wonder how feminism or lack of correlates with your post.

I guess you just like the sensationalism and want to spark up the thread.

SMH

@OP:

Let her give him a divorce if that's what he wants.

A woman who tied her womb after 2 boys in 2009 is a woman who has tried everything to please her husband.

If he has insisted on leaving, he will still leave with her postponing the evil day with her acrobatics.

Pidgin2:


Thank you, I will pass your advice across but it seems he hasn't touched her for many months now(according to her sister)

teemy:
hi dude. i get your point on 'we are screwed both ways' if sensual passions do much for our wellbeing why withold it from your significant other? more sex = better bonding.

Mimzyy:


I see... Good morning.

Mimzyy:
Are you a therapist?