the one to stop derailing the thread

We are not derailing the thread we are jus elongating.

ok if you say so

uh

@ Topic

i think i would not give it a second thought if i were to be a lady,

These people are not being honest o. If the man can talk a good game and has good stuff then most women will be so desperate to be with him.

As for me. Yes. If he shows me potential and willingness to succeed then I will work with him and make a plan with him. That's what I did with my husband and it's working. We have a our own home, a nice car, nice clothes and plenty of food to eat. It wasn't always like this but I believed in him not in whether or not he had money. Now we are happy and life is getting better for us by the day. What makes me happy is knowing that what we have, I helped to build it.

Now if most of our ladies can have a mind set like that instead of this 'bring make we chop' syndrome. _{@ jaybaby I hope u get to read this}

You started the relationship with your husband in the first instance because u saw a future in him?  May be this question would have been "Ladies would you marry a man who has no future" ( a lay about?)
I definately know, if u didnt see a future in your hubby u wont give in, in the first place.  We are not talking of money as in WEALTH here, but a guy who has a FUTURE (i.e educated or about to be one or even is willingly to go back to school, if he wasnt opportuned to go at the right time.  someone that is harworking and determined to excel)

However, this thread is long over due!

@TOPIC

was a much needed stupidest question.

anyone wanna marry anotha person that is jobless and poor lowlifer. - hell nahh

I want to marry you busta am a low life, poor man

Guy, u gotta do way better than that.

tasting ma patient huh?

Come on am really intelligent, funny, goodlooking. Just poor
Don't lose hope, I have ambitionz as a ridah

JosBoy4Lif:

Come on am really intelligent, funny, goodlooking. Just poor
Don't lose hope, I have ambitionz as a ridah

is that gonna put food on my table, buy ma perfums and maintain ma beauty?

u got a lot goin on for u guy, sorry but i ain't ur type.

tough luck

I WILL MARRY HIM IF HE POSSESS A GREAT CHARACTER

vadewoyin:

I WILL MARRY HIM IF HE POSSESS A GREAT CHARACTER

@ Jos boy, there u go.

@Topic, it depends with how my heart responds to him. coz i bliv someday we'll improve,

If u marry him and he refuses to improve, what happens next?



_divorce

So shine ur eyes well well. You cant CHANGE anybodY. If he cant improve before u marry him, i doubt if he can improve after marriage. let him improve first, if he intends to be a real man, not only _{MAN ON TOP OF U}

Never knew this thread is still on---hmmmmmmmmmmmm

Uche u no say i no like Story tellin pple so i no waste tym go dey read dat SPEECH


If he even says i will improve & u r not seein it in him--let him GO---u no come this world kom SUFFER 4 anybdy PERIOD

he might get a chance with me if he is broke because he is jobless but not if he stupid or lazy

True talk, ONLY ON THAT PREMISE

Now why will i want to sentence my self to death, i have been poor and its a curse i wish on no one.

Its sometimes funny the way life is.Women expects a man to marry a jobless woman if possible and call it love.But wen its their turm they say never.Anyway im sure 98% of women wont date a jobless man talkess less of marry and 1% is not sure cos they not in the situation to decide since its not happening to them ,the remaining 1% are angels so they are in heaven.
Get no decieved,a woman wont date you for who u are but what u can since women will love a man who will meet their every need,money ,sex, etc in that order

@Topic
NO NO NO . if he is jobless and poor he aint ready for marriage

Eurphoria:

@Topic
NO NO NO . if he is jobless and poor he aint ready for marriage

Hello, yes Please, Can you REPEAT that one more time? And this time can you please be a little more louder, Thank you,

neelsel lol you nutter its loud enough you crazy person lol. so i take it you agree

Girl I did more than agreeing. I sanctioned that,

You took the words out of my mouth.

Am not crazy, it's more like freaking insane

Na waooh ladies, you can friend somebody that is jobless and merely seem him, you will know that he has a great future, he is seeking for employement and other thing that will help him, what will you do? Wil you run since he has not got one yet? Answer me ladies?

eslynera:

@Topic, it depends with how my heart responds to him. because i bliv someday we'll improve,

that is why i love you _{longest time}

it is nt going to work out even if u try it, d lady will constantly remind her self not nag, or complain abt finances, infact anyman that goes into such a relationship should be called the WIFE, even in the bible its the duty of the man to provide.

@ Topic,

Hell No. . . But I will marry a Poor Jobless Lass,

This question goes out 2 d ladies. The guy u love and have been dating, is Poor and jobless. U on the other hand is well off and have a job, Will u marry him in his predicament, OR will U wait 4 him 2 get a job (Thats not forthcoming) ??

Well, in my culture, its not good to marry a person whom is not stable but it does not mean I cannot marry him. Since Im well off than him and I really love him, I would advise him to get a job and as long as he moves his butt and build hisself I would marry him but on the other hand, I would see how much I have and see what is his capabilities and together we open a business where he could do what he is really good at and I could handle other things and we share the money to gether and than we can get married. That is also common for my family to do.

mum told me when there is life there is hope,to me a poor man can become a wealthy man, hey ladies if ur dating a poor and ur inlove with him,ill advice u to stick with him,encourage him,pray for him,tell him GOD love him and He got a big plan for me.that the only way to get him moving! a poor can do something great tomorow but he need ur support,engcouragment etc.