andyanders:

@ogugua88 (f)

You are right. There are lots of good ladies out there. Nigerian ladies are far more better than their foreign partners or western world. Most nigerian woman can endure/tolerate their partners than western women.  I respect nigerian women a lot no matter their short coming.

REALITY101:

Lol@Mrs. Chima # Ozu# if they don't pay you good them slutting can do u lot better. The choice is yours granny

ogugua88:

Reality do you live in LA? If so, you should be speaking basic Spanish by now lol. "Tu no habla Ingles?" Chai.

Men have too much security. Good, bad, you get to keep your fathers' name and now that allows some of you to judge or badmouth women because they want to have a say in whether they take your name or not?

If fathers snatched surnames from their sons for growing up to be irresponsible or dumb, they'd probably be thinking twice. The kind of shame or unworthiness some of you throw on women, you'd be suffering it too. Once, you were Adenola Ogunsanya. Now you're just "Adenola". You'd be turned into a laughing stock lol. Who's unworthy now?

Too Gbasky,

I would let you keep your name OK!!  

Mrs.Chima:

Those poor Nigerian women that tolerating ho arse niggas.  One of them said on this site that they would rather kiss their no good husband's arse then to be on the street in poverty.  How sad.  

You need to teach the likes of MOBO to respect those good Nigerian ladies instead of calling them 2 dollar whores and comparing them to white women.  

Half of the Nigerian men running behind white women calling Nigerian women dirty hoes and blackberry hungry bitches and yet they are so much better than foreign women.  

There is a faux oyinbo Nigerian fool in Coldland telling a foreign woman he loves her and she is the best thing since slice bread but when he is rejected behind the scenes all that fakeness is out the door.  

Yes, I strongly urge those good Nigerian ladies to handle all ho arse niggas because they needs them.  

190:

Too Gbasky,

I would let you keep your name OK!!  

lexxwiz:

If she wants to keep her name and she got a good reason,  Like loosing her Dad or something similar . no big deal. But her Dad still alive and she wants to keep her maiden name? hell NO!!!
but whatever happened to our good lovely women? back in the days,a young lady even changes her surname even before the wedding out of excitement,  

ogugua88:

Back in the days, true love existed.

BABE!:

True love still exists! kinda

REALITY101:

lol BABE you will be fine

ogugua88:

I don't want kinda true love. I want the real mccoy lmao.

REALITY101:

@190 #@impotent dude#

I don't get it, why is it that impotent men are always too damn obsess with women? So you really love licking em  


@BABE Cool. . . but please watch your nyash cuz u have got a limit

REALITY101:

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lexxwiz:

i still stand firmly to what i earlier said,  "except she has a good reason",  else,Hell NO!
if she wants to keep it because it's damn too sexy or mine is pretty annoying and long? then she isn't ready to get married yet.
well in a nut shell,d ladies here on NL are either married or still young,  A 38-45 yr old lady who dey hussle to find husband would sooo throw her maiden name to the dogs if a hubby miraculously shows,  

johnson11:

I have come to realized many people typed whatever they like here just to make them few feel strong, 99% of all the women here used there husband surname but they will come here to type rubbish saying they are western and he have to respect them blah blah  just to feel among,

johnson11:

I have come to realized many people typed whatever they like here just to make them few feel strong, 99% of all the women here used there husband surname but they will come here to type rubbish saying they are western and he have to respect them blah blah  just to feel among,

Coming from a southafrican


I am shocked!  

I never expected such from a south-african

Maybe civilization never reach there,

Good reply bro~

lexxwiz:

i still stand firmly to what i earlier said,  "except she has a good reason",  else,Hell NO!
if she wants to keep it because it's damn too sexy or mine is pretty annoying and long? then she isn't ready to get married yet.
well in a nut shell,d ladies here on NL are either married or still young,  A 38-45 yr old lady who dey hussle to find husband would sooo throw her maiden name to the dogs if a hubby miraculously shows,  

190:

OK my people must hear this

The marriage is OVER!! Mscetwwwww  

johnson11:

I have come to realized many people typed whatever they like here just to make them few feel strong, 99% of all the women here used there husband surname but they will come here to type rubbish saying they are western and he have to respect them blah blah  just to feel among,

ogugua88:

This is all coming down to worth. If a woman is not worthy of keeping her father's name, a man shouldn't be worthy either. All I want is someone to concur. There is no difference between a 38-45 year old lady with no job, husband, or children and a 38-45 year old man with no job, wife, or children. If that woman isn't worthy of taking a man's name, then a man shouldn't be worthy of keeping his father's name. Both are shaming someone. Like I said, in this society, men have too much security.

MzDarkSkin:

I am NOT married
.

My father's name will stay or be hyphenated. End of story.

cantell:

Until you get to that bridge, do not brag about crossing.

MzDarkSkin:

I am NOT married and DAMN proud to be western. Wouldn't change my western roots for ANYTHING.
My choice to keep my name is personal and it is a decision that is to be made by me as it is MY choice.
Luckily some men are open-minded enough to see that it is not the name that matters but the LOVE, TRUST, AND FIDELITY that is what makes the marriage. Any man who want to push the idea that his wife MUST take on his name is not only a chauvinist but he is also possessive and it is HE who is not yet ready to get married.

Whether you are western or African the fact still remains that marriage is just an institution to IDENTIFY. Not even the ceremony nor the rings are necessary in God's eye as love has no monetary or physical value. It is how the two conduct themselves as individuals united under God that matters, not some bloodclot name!

My father's name will stay or be hyphenated. End of story.

BABE!:

Come again??