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Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by ahnie: 10:01am On Sep 16, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:From the op's narrative she's a FULL TIME HOUSEGADGET |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Matheusmartin: 10:02am On Sep 16, 2021 |
IamAsiri:. Yeah. In one of his replies |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by lereinter(m): 10:03am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Beg her for what Did her parents contact you? May God help you to get a better job. Amen |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Morgan9(m): 10:08am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai: Those who has things going well for them .. Thinks their niegbor didn't plan well.. U are such a big fool 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by AutoChick4U(f): 10:09am On Sep 16, 2021 |
ahnie:You only assumed so. Abi na only housewives dey get monthly allowance from their husband? I did not see d pointer to a full housewife up there. Anyways, we pray for lasting and happy marriages |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by neonly: 10:09am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Richy4: Don't listen to all dis kids on nairaland that still live life on fantasy island der They sef go teach der one or d other 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by sunnyphem(m): 10:09am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Bro you tried ho... 5 Pinkin on a go. Lolz. D Lord is your strent. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by bigiyaro(m): 10:11am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:you be small pikin 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by freshvine(f): 10:14am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Men usually marry baby mamas but the gift of a wife comes from the LORD. OP, a baby mama leaves when things get tough... A wife stays stays talk to relatives and friends for a possible placement for you, some even share the children amongst relatives and others may venture into trading until you stand again. Most of the ladies talking trash here only have hairs no head, breast, a pack of cosmetic, a phone for their whoring and since the graduate no job but will be insulting you to move what they term "lazy ass". |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Pinkzebra: 10:19am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985: You are not telling the whole truth. How can a woman who has lived with you for thirteen years leave just because you didn't drop allowance for one month ? Don't mind those family telling you not to go. They will mock you later when the suffering of taking care of three boys alone start telling on you. Go to your wife and her family go and have a discussion and bring your wife home . Women are not wired to be patient for long when there isn't money . Please find another hustle , God will bless you. Doesn't she have what she do ? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by belshazzar(m): 10:21am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985:i don't blame her. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by belshazzar(m): 10:24am On Sep 16, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:To be honest eh,nt every marriage will last . Thats how it has been and will always be |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by conscienceman4(m): 10:24am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Don't listen to your people's advice. Drop your pride, do as if nothing happened. Go and visit your wife without prejudice. A wise response turns anger away. The way you approach this issues will determine your next level of parole in life. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by BarrElChapo(m): 10:24am On Sep 16, 2021 |
LaJoe2: You know some persons are just religious fanatics, who just go about reeling bible verses to suit their present argument(s) without any iota of critical thinking. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Nobody: 10:25am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Within 13 years, you have 5 kids You procreate like its a sport Some yaf wrong with u |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by lagabush(m): 10:28am On Sep 16, 2021 |
chatinent: you are not fair in ur words of advice at all. If a woman could leave just because your husband unable to give u monthly allowance all because he lost his job. A God fearing person should at least understand such situations not to talk of a married wife with 5 kids. If there is no support she can give to her husband and atleast she should not add to it. Besides if there is no any other unsolved issues with them oo, then such action from the wife is an already planned act. My own advice for you husband. Face your life atleast try to get ursef back up. Try as much as possible and pray to God for better opportunity that will turn your life around for good. Take care of your kids. And just kept mute on ur wife own, don't get married to another woman oo. Because 5 kids sef for this economy is big a responsibility. With time everything will be clear. You will see the end of the tunnel and there shall be light again and forever. Time will actually show your wife intention and that of her family. And if you get back on ur fit I beg u fit try do DNA test on those kids 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by adeniyilamlek(m): 10:31am On Sep 16, 2021 |
chatinent:this person av something good upstair 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by themayor4542(m): 10:32am On Sep 16, 2021 |
NaWeDeyHere: Wow!!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by sunkieisland(m): 10:32am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:don't you think that your opinion is biased and unfair. the man had been doing the job for 13 years and there weren't any complaints as far as the story said (if it was true) we should cut the guy some slack... he never said he isn't looking for any job. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by AutoChick4U(f): 10:33am On Sep 16, 2021 |
belshazzar:Yea but 13 years and 5 kids is too deep |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Exkandayee(m): 10:34am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Richy4:I like you so much and you very intelligent,no homo, that reply was civilized and Savage hahaha 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by HEAVEN4444: 10:35am On Sep 16, 2021 |
5 kids ? madness |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Zenithphil8368: 10:35am On Sep 16, 2021 |
OP Your case is not different from what is trending now, this folks are bent on telling us that it is no longer for better for worse again. As a man honestly with the economic situation you have to be up and doing in every aspect of your life, OP please put yourself together i cant say we feel your pain but i understand how you feel because i have been down there before. You need to be stronger than the way you were before. this is an opportunity for you to be of your best. Forget about ur wife for now, if she truly loves you it is now she was suppose to show you better. please be strong for your children, be a better father, forget about anytin women for now because Nigerian Women has lost their value. if you know what so many men are passing through in marriage because of this folks honestly you will prefer to be without her for now, dont forget about those kids with her also they are also your kids. please be a man that you are and if you are a nice man please dont change your nature because she is not worth your happiness. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Amumaigwe: 10:35am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai [/b: 1 Tim 5:8 Says any man who [b]does not....... It did not say Cannot. Does connotes willingness while Can connotes ability. The man in question cannot provide for his family at the moment because of job loss. He has provided for them for 13 whole years the marriage has lasted. Does he still qualify to be seen as an infidel? By the way, this is a time when the resourcefulness of a real wife is needed to help the man navigate through this phase successfully, but she bolted. When the man balances up again financially, she will come back and shed a few crocodile tears and expect forgiveness and reconciliation. I blame the man for allowing her to be idle and non productive all these while. That's the fate that awaits 'good' husbands. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Amumaigwe: 10:37am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai [/b: 1 Tim 5: 8 says a man that [b]does not....... It did not say Cannot. Does connotes willingness while Can connotes ability. The man in question cannot provide for his family at the moment because of job loss. He has provided for them for 13 whole years the marriage has lasted. Does he still qualify to be seen as an infidel? By the way, this is a time when the resourcefulness of a real wife is needed to help the man navigate through this phase successfully, but she bolted. When the man balances up again financially, she will come back and shed a few crocodile tears and expect forgiveness and reconciliation. I blame the man for allowing her to be idle and non productive all these while. That's the fate that awaits 'good' husbands. |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Dozieson(m): 10:40am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ammishaddai: You no get sense 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Thatwasepic(m): 10:40am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985: The type of family you marry from matters for future prospective parents, the girl family didn't even bother to call u and Know what happened. You don't only marry your spouse but her family too 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Killermamba: 10:40am On Sep 16, 2021 |
chatinent: Na man you be. Correct guy 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by Mexyz(m): 10:41am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Dear young men, I hope you're reading this and taking note, marriage no be child's play o. Please think well before you allow your emotions to push you to the aisle even when you're not emotionally, psychologically and financially (very important) ready... E get why o |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by portacabin: 10:42am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985:she left badly, but don't listen to family members. They are not the ones wearing the shoe. Family separation is a mentally, physically and emotionally draining issue. People can advise, but na you know the pain. If she was a good wife, go and get her back. She didn't leave to a man's house, she left because of no feeding money. She probably is a full time house wife |
Re: My Wife Left Me Because I Lost My Job. by mrdino(m): 10:43am On Sep 16, 2021 |
Olivertwist1985: As long as she didn't leave you for another man, do your best in persuading her to come back, also be prayerful about the whole situation. |
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