The bestie wey dey hide face, abeg show face no dey regard the person as your friend
Nah you be d bestie, you know wan accept some yabbin


Leave the married lady alone,
I surely know you can't accept that if you are the husband, and your wife won't accept that if you are the one having a female bestie hanging all around you

For Instance, get yourself a gf and continue with your female bestie, come back and tell me how awfully your relationship will end

Leave the married woman alone, let her enjoy her marriage, so you can also face your life.
Besides you dey enjoy because the husband nah white man and he is not familiar with how opposite bestie runs over here in 9ja.

You can't try this with a 9ja guy, you sef know.
Cut all ties and face your life. So you won't later ruin her marriage
My 2kobo

After now they will be speaking grammar when they hear dna test

dharamanil:
Hi everyone.

Let me jump on it. I have this guy who has been friends with a lady for couple of years. Maybe about 8years or thereabout. They v been hanging often she is always at his and sometimes he is with her at her family house.

She recently got married to a white guy who isn't based in Nigeria but rented her an apartment and a lot more. Her husband is aware of the guy so he has no doubt about them.

Now the problem is since her new apartment, the male friend visits her often like oldies and u know still hang around even spends the night there and all. According to him, no sex, she stays in her room and he stays in another. But he recently started complaining that hsi friends feels he should stop visiting her. Not for any concrete reason though than she is married.

Note. The husband doesn't leave in the house.

My guy leave that thing,your guy knows you will criticize him if he told you the truth

ImaIma1:


Two things.

1. It seems you are someone who likes to win arguments, even though it's without proper reasoning.

2. You enjoy playing the blame game instead of taking responsibility.

It's fine if that's what gives you a good night sleep.

It's not about winning argument and thanks for insulting me as a mad man without proper reasoning. You sound educated but still don't know that a female's consent is so powerful than the man's role in issues of cheating, unwanted pregnancy, paternity fraud etc and makes men/women rightly blame your gender.

Even in cheating that men are partially blamed, do you know that it can be curbed if we all condemn it vehemently, but your gender only knows how to defend your gender as you are doing, maybe because you see no big deal in it and can do it.

MNDY:


It's not about winning argument and thanks for insulting me as a mad man without proper reasoning. You sound educated but still don't know that a female's consent is so powerful than the man's role in issues of cheating, unwanted pregnancy, paternity fraud etc and makes men/women rightly blame your gender.

Even in cheating that men are partially blamed, do you know that it can be curbed if we all condemn it vehemently, but your gender only knows how to defend your gender as you are doing, maybe because you see no big deal in it and can do it.

Haba! Why would I call you a mad man.

In case you have not noticed, I'm not defending any of them. I'm saying both are equally liable if anything happens. Even if one is leading on, the other has a chance to refuse. If you consent without force, you are a willing party.