Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,153,699 members, 7,820,443 topics. Date: Tuesday, 07 May 2024 at 02:53 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less (34581 Views)
How Do You Cope If Married To Someone You Don't Love? / I Am Sterile But About To Be A Father / The Moment A Father Caught His Daughter Twerking (photos) (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by captainamiedi1: 2:17pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Karleb: You are right. The woman went tru alot. i grew up watching my dad steal my mom's money. He beats up my mom and heap all his misfortune on her. He goes about looking for hardworking women to feed him. In all these mom still remain simply because he wants to stay for her children. when we are all grown, we had to separate them because of the physical assault she get from the man. I am still angry with him. i haven't set my eyes on him for 2 years now. we only talk on phone once once. he is too shy to ask for for anything. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by LoverJoe89: 2:18pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
I aint leaving no woman to discipline my child if he/she errs. Any Bleep up will make me unleash the rod of correction on any child who doesnt comply. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by faste: 2:22pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
SeriouslySense: |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by jaxxy(m): 2:22pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
neonly: Ur last paragraph corresponds with my second paragraph. U only pick out a single part of what I said and left out the others. There is nothing wrong with buying clothes for ur kids or taking them out to buy clothes bt men don’t do much of that for even themselves unlike like women thats why I said so cos kids buys clothes often as they grow. The man can only do it few times, the woman will still do it more. When u took ur kids out u spent time with them and that’s the part I was asking them to pay more attention to not just thinking it’s about the act of shopping itself. U can buy things for Sm1 and there still no real relationship at the end of the day. |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by Benzemma(m): 2:25pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Kingpele: Exactly bro, if my dad had loved my mum and stop seeing her as unimportant to the family right from when we were small, he wouldn't be thinking and saying that my mom took us away from him and none of us like him, which is not true. What you said is true, but ego as been the head, will not allow us apply that simple method. Children always look out to the soft parent in the family, be it the father or the mother. And they always grow with that childhood perception. So if you as a father or mother but fathers especially, make yourself a phero in the family, making your wife to cry like a kid, just know that you are giving your children a reason to hate you and begin to distance themselves from you, if you continue like that till they grew up as an adult. 4 Likes |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by WayStage(m): 2:25pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
OP, pls can I use these your points for a *social experiment*? It's gonna be documented... How do I reach you pls? CondemnBattery: |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by Viserion: 2:27pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
CondemnBattery:that's good to know but my dad is late and only mum has been there for me.. But I'll remember this post to teach my kids to remember me 1 Like |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by cococandy(f): 2:29pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
The funny thing is that what OP is saying is one the core messages I always preach to guys on here. -Be more involved with your kids -Be hands-on fathers -Being a father is more than bringing money -making time for your children to form bonds and attachment is important for their development development Do you know the kinds of responses I get when I say that? “Oh these evil feminists want to emasculate men and ruin the divine order of nature by promoting feminine features in men. They want to destroy the family unit. Men and women are not the same. Roles are different we are Africans”. You name it. I’ve heard it. But now OP is saying the same thing but framing it to talk negatively about women, y’all are buying into the message. Could it be that you don’t really care about loving your children as much as you care about making your women out to be the enemies?? Ponder on that. Jim99: 3 Likes |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by lordally(m): 2:30pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
CondemnBattery: Please how did you carry this man's comment from a different thread to your own... I've been trying to do this but I haven't been able to do so |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by Karleb(m): 2:32pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Awise09: The only place you guys get this turning them against their children is nollywood. If only it was that easy, my cousin would not have hated her mother you have been taking care of him since his father died since his father died close to 20 years now but he told me categorically that he loves his late dad more. Nollywood and reality are very different. 2 Likes |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by descarado: 2:33pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
SeriouslySense:You treat each child differently. Even identical twins differs. Surprised to see a guy( assumed) interested in this topic. I applaud you. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by cococandy(f): 2:35pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Yes men can do all that too. Unless the baby is exclusively breastfed, men can feed in addition to everything else you mentioned. And even more. That’s how to build the relationship. Children don’t wake up all of sudden and prefer one parent. It starts from infancy and who they knew they could depend on to take care of them. Fridaya30: 3 Likes |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by Jim99: 2:36pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
cococandy: There's nothing to ponder on. How about you let Men advise Men? And focus that energy on advising women on how not to be manipulative moms, especially with the children. |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by descarado: 2:38pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
cococandy:Evil feminist They don't know any better I tell you. They don't. You were brought up in a home, majority here ......., let me reserve my comment. Abeg, I have dry ukwa, have you cooked it with pressure pot? I'm not ready to use edible potash. 1 Like |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by SweetDipBenny(m): 2:38pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Noted |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by descarado: 2:40pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
cococandy:See them. I be man o. And tomorrow he will start whining |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by professore(m): 2:42pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
CondemnBattery:clean |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by zomby(m): 2:42pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Awise09: I think you guys are mixing things up. Caring physically/ mentally/ emotionally for your children is not the same as marrying to a wife that hates you. Every great mom is very happy to have children that cherish their father. In fact, majority of magnificent mothers systematically train their children to always love their father regardless of the circumstances. So please do not mix caring for your children with marrying to a wife that despises you…That should be a different topic. 2 Likes |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by cococandy(f): 2:43pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Hi. I’ve cooked it with pressure pot before but it wasn’t as creamy in my opinion. I don’t know if it’s because of who I got it from. I purchased it. descarado: |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by JustAvo: 2:43pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
CondemnBattery: My siblings are more fond of my mom not because of any of the above... As a matter of fact, MY DAD HAS ONLY BEATEN ME ONCE n HE USED TWO OF HIS FINGERS, my mum on the other hand will make sure u take few minutes to remove brooms from ur body when she's Tru dealing with u. Why are we still more fond of her than him? She will do everything legal n Godly to make sure everyone in the family is alright. Dad on the other hand was the opposite - he'll never inconvenient himself (for anyone other than himself) even if it involves his basic responsibilities.... Now tell me why we the children will not give more to our mom than him? 5 Likes |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by cococandy(f): 2:43pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
zomby: 1 Like |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by cococandy(f): 2:45pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Well I hope you guys take the advice and learn how to be good fathers for your kids’ sakes and not for the sake trying to score points with your wives? Maybe Something good might come out of this thread I won’t hold my breath though. Jim99: 2 Likes |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by shantti(m): 2:45pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Draslo: |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by shantti(m): 2:46pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Draslo: |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by descarado: 2:46pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
cococandy:I wil try then and see. Read we can use baking soda. Thanks. |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by cococandy(f): 2:47pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
descarado: That makes sense seeing as both baking soda and potash are alkaline in nature Good luck |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by zomby(m): 2:48pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
cococandy:On Point! |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by jornwhite: 2:52pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88: Talk is cheap, it takes idleness to spend quality time with kids, in most cases the man is saddle with the responsibility of providing @least 60% of finances if not 100% .... except for the freelancers money is made outside, a man as to be out, whu wants to be a dead beat father, it not as if men have choice to be full house husband The truth is most women don't speak good of there husband to the kids, they alway wana give impression if not for me(ur mom) your father won't have paid your school fee or buy cloth for xmas, most mothers even ring it into there kids ears , your father is stingy if not for me we won't have fed this week. The way mothers sire the kids is a reflection of what we see in our society today, women want all attention |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by shantti(m): 2:52pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
killfear: Women are the ones that need this advise |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by Patriotic9ja(m): 2:55pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Carchoice: I couldn't help but burst into laughter reading the bolded..... well done guys �. When I'm tired, bored, or stressed out, and need something to take out the stress..... I simply read comments on NL 1 Like |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by salt1: 2:59pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Icumsa45: Those are the things you value which may not appeal to them. Your legacy to them can include quality education, strong religious values and memorable moments of laughter |
Re: What You Should Do As A Father, So That Your Kids Don't Love You Any Less by lordally(m): 3:06pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
psalmylee: https://www.nairaland.com/6930979/why-give-money-mom-instead This thread will open your eyes the more |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) (Reply)
My Husband Hates Me For Giving Birth To Three Girls – Housewife Tells Court / Couple Killed By Robbers Shortly After Landing Nigeria For Holiday / Serious Domestic Violence Taking Place In My Street, Help Please
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 81 |