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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by KingByron: 11:38pm On Feb 25, 2022
Drop your number, I'll text a pastor's number to call....
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 11:39pm On Feb 25, 2022
Acidosis:


That was simply a friendly advice. I believe you understand my point.

About my reaction to misogyny, well I try to address the issues I can in my little way.


You don’t need to advice me on how not to become a man hater. I’m 30+ years old. Not an impressionable child. I can’t be influenced inappropriately. I can however say the truth as I see it. And the truth is that most people are so desensitized to misogyny that it’s just “one of those things” to them.

I know I risk sounding like a broken record whenever I talk about it but I’m fine with that consequence as long as I keep people conscious and alert about it. Even if it’s one person at a time.

“Witchcraft” negativity and witch hunting is rooted in misogyny. Otherwise men would be equally accused like women.

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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by JesusIsAMuslim: 11:41pm On Feb 25, 2022
Pray to God. Leave sin. Work hard. And get intimate with your woman more than you have ever had. Shun needless waka.

Thank God for Islam. For if you a true Muslim, you will understand that only God makes everything possible.

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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Housing(m): 11:44pm On Feb 25, 2022
Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue

Thank y'all

The loan shark are the one killing you financially. Stop taking further loan dare the consequences of mockery, blackmail and threat from them, but be committed to repayments. Don't borrow to pay loan. Within a month you will be spending over 60k just to service loan that keep increasing. You will borrow 5k to repay 8k, 10k to repay 17k within a week, 15k to repay 25k in less than two weeks.

Sitting down and calculates the amount you are spending to service loans.

In Islam interest is forbidden.

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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Olameen1713: 11:45pm On Feb 25, 2022
Needadvice200:
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Thanks sis. You knows it's like having a spiritual husband kind of. They call them emere in Yoruba. She herself didn't know how she got herself there but I noticed she always dreams of water and dustbin most times.

If you know any good alfa that can do ruqiyah(special prayer that casts away spirits in humans) for her. There are also people that specialise in doing ruqiyah. If you can find them you have definitely found a solution.
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by VULCAN(m): 11:45pm On Feb 25, 2022
OP is in a tight spot.

But many others have been there and many scaled through.

OP if you continue visiting occultists you will end up far worse than you are now. That is because the forces they barter with must be promised something before they agree to let you go. That something may mean you or your wife may run mad down the line. Or your daughter will fall sick and die in a few months time. There is always a bitter price to pay when seeking help from dark powers.

Herein I advise you to sit still.
On Monday morning you and madam go to YouTube at 6.45am and find NSPPD. It runs from Monday to Friday. It's just 90 mins of prayer and testimony. Pray with them online for a while and the powers will be neutralised. In most cases the Pastor may release a word of knowledge about your situation to make you know that God has done it.

Don't go to any physical church because charlatans are everywhere after money and other things I won't mention.

If you can do this I expect you to testify here in a few months.

What God cannot Do does not exist!

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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by bubbychis(m): 11:46pm On Feb 25, 2022
Please don’t leave your beautiful wife because of this challenge, it is normal with life , if you leave her you might meet greater challenge; just face it as a man , I see you win at end and smile with her��



Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Brushstrokes20: 11:49pm On Feb 25, 2022
Used to be in similar imbroglio....and it's better imagined than experienced!
Though the lady warned me from the onset but I took it with a pinch of salt until I learnt the HARD WAY!

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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 11:52pm On Feb 25, 2022
Solofresh2:
1. Yes it is real. It is real because it is beyond the physical.Even the pastor confirmed it too.
And for the fact that they fasted and pray and nothing happened shows it is not the solution to there problem.
I don't want to talk much because I continue to reveal somethings here, you will not believe me.
Do you know what it means that the woman is not even aware she is a cult member from the onset.
Let me tell you this though,christainity is a religion,islam is a religion and tradition is a religion to. And there are many more religions too with their means of solutions.So, the fact that you are a Christian does not make other religions awkward.Moreover, life is more than religion.
All this stuff you are spew here doesn't make any sense to me, so you might want to waka pass me cause I am reading this and desperately hoping you get mental help soonest. undecided

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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by princewarri1985: 11:52pm On Feb 25, 2022
Bro as i dey here now self am even confused because i dont know what to tell you, but is all i have to say, BRO YOU ARE bleeped, because this na wetin fela call double wahalla for dead body
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 11:54pm On Feb 25, 2022
bubbychis:
Please don’t leave your beautiful wife because of this challenge, it is normal with life , if you leave her you might meet greater challenge; just face it as a man , I see you win at end and smile with her��
Ssshhh! Why are you trying to tell him the truth. undecided

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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by khalids: 11:58pm On Feb 25, 2022
Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

Oga.....there is a reason why the bible told us not to practice, fortune-telling and divination, because it gives room for the devil to manipulate and destroy...

Belief is a very strong thing... believing wrongly is just as potent as believing rightly

By the way, how do you know that his prophecy is true

See the piece below
Prophecy must always lead to the edification of the body of Christ, and not the division of it. Paul recognized the value of the gift of prophecy, but gave instructions for its proper use (1 Cor. 14:29-33), “Let two or three prophets speak, and let the others judge… For God is not the author of confusion but of peace.” An alleged Spirit-inspired prophetic word given to the church is fallible if it is not critically evaluated by the diverse church community. Furthermore, if it does not build up with peace the body of Christ, but instead tears it down, it is false.
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Basiljoe: 12:01am On Feb 26, 2022
When i was an atheist, i will say your mind is just playing tricks on you, the economy is bad, and you're feeding more people, but now that I've experienced some things of the world all I can say is look for a very powerful man of God and go for deliverance.
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Zivaharry(m): 12:04am On Feb 26, 2022
Have you now become a millionaire since you stop having sex with her?.....
Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Richie77: 12:04am On Feb 26, 2022
God can change her misfortune for fortune but don't forget, sometimes you have to let go of your Lot to get to your dream land. Pray and follow instructions.
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Solofresh2: 12:06am On Feb 26, 2022
Kobojunkie:
All this stuff you are spew here doesn't make any sense to me, so you might want to waka pass me cause I am reading this and desperately hoping you get mental help soonest. undecided
So you are telling me now that am mentally challenged right?
I don't blame you,I blame myself for quoting you in the first place
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by HardMirror(m): 12:07am On Feb 26, 2022
frozen70:


You didn't mention where you ever made it a discussion with her

Seat her down and tell her your findings

Let her know how you love her and your child

But you guy have to work together to get it right

Yes she is not aware, but if she is willing to come out of it, she needs your help

Both of you can wither the storm together pls

If you leave the one you know, how are you sure the next one will not be twice of her
religion produces stupid people. Look at the nonsense a grownup man is writing and accusing his wife of. You ladies are also guilty. Why I dont keep religious friends, very stupid people

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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Moreign001(m): 12:07am On Feb 26, 2022
Man, everything you have said is real 100%. It's happening.
Stop complaining, make the moves.. Visit churches, if you're a Christian. There's a way, it's just a minor thing sha. If you don't know where, I can help you.
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by HardMirror(m): 12:08am On Feb 26, 2022
Basiljoe:
When i was an atheist, i will say your mind is just playing tricks on you, the economy is bad, and you're feeding more people, but now that I've experienced some things of the world all I can say is look for a very powerful man of God and go for deliverance.
you were once an atheist? Lol so what made you start believing a a god?
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by tctrills: 12:08am On Feb 26, 2022
Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all
You are the cause of your problem, not your wife and I predict you would destroy your family very soon. Keep believing stupidity over the one that loved you and stayed with you. Or maybe you should just marry your pastors daughter
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Oyiboman69: 12:09am On Feb 26, 2022
Kobojunkie:
Your ideas are so pagan and bound in ignorance that I am afraid that it may be best to let you alone. -\

So, what do you plan on doing after you have abandoned your marriage? undecided
give your advice and stop being rude to him...even if he's a pagan,can't you as a Christian talk him in God's ways and direction?
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Godwin25king: 12:10am On Feb 26, 2022
Hope she wasn't dating a yahoo plus niqqa before she met you

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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by samwheel(m): 12:10am On Feb 26, 2022
Richy4:

<<<<Before you got married to her I assume both of you had one little sex or the other right? And there was no complaint of business not improving before u eventually married her..

<<< U said that you were sick.. based on your write up, I assumed that you are self employed...I believe in high School, u were taught in business studies or Economics, that one of the disadvantages of sole proprietorship is that business/ finance nose dives in the event of death or sickness...

<<<Why would you allow people to brainwash you?... Assuming you were not sick, do you think your business would have suffered the financial crises it was facing now?... Even people that were not sick are suffering because of the pandemic...


<<<A lot of businesses have closed their doors to customers... The owners did not go about blaming their wives.. God gave you a good wife who stood by u, take care of her.. and stop starving her of sex...

<<<U can change your line of business... U can also dust your certificate and search for a job with a steady income... When things improves, u can start your own business again...

U people also try to tink u re too smart.
Shit happens, life is deeply spiritual, even in d west, dey have cults where dey perform spiritual shit.
Just pray u don't encounter any, no b all dis grammar wey u dey speak.
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by EkiranAlexmedia(m): 12:14am On Feb 26, 2022
Kobojunkie:
The last thing this man and his wife needs is more or that entanglement. He needs to instead unwind himself from all he is currently from all the bullsheet he is currently tangled up in so he can begin to see what what in fact before him. undecided

Go to church for spiritual advice and consultation
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Lacash: 12:17am On Feb 26, 2022
Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all
There’s no two ways about it bro, it’s either you lerrit go or you deal wirrit….Ko sabuja lorun ope. cool
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by madprophet(m): 12:17am On Feb 26, 2022
Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all

This kind of case is very tricky... You need put her under the fire regularly.. they don't want her to have a home...

The best you can do for her is to, Get to deliverance church and let her have it back to back like 3 times. I woukd recommend MFM Ajangbadi and not prayer city self..

Her dream should change, unfortunately even if you don't sleep with her, once you begin to take care of her, they would attack your business.

Best of luck bro
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Gaddafih001(m): 12:19am On Feb 26, 2022
Needadvice200:



Bro I get your point. The journey is about 6 years now. Before I met her my income is 80k above most times 6 digits. I carefully observe this and the signs are obvious bro. She herself knows because we been having issue on it for years yet I kept on overlooking. Am just tired bro. So tired and exhausted
But your money no dey drain when you dey kpansh her while courting.
You need sit up more and pray like you have never prayed before.
I know a man who will help you without shimgbai.
Are you willing to hand everything over to God?
Say yes make I drop phone number.
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Abdul9025(m): 12:19am On Feb 26, 2022
If she can fast and pray because of that say issues.. Then you are lucky
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by trinity11(m): 12:22am On Feb 26, 2022
OP sit your wife down and talk to her, melt her heart with your mouth then buy a drink,
Let her pray for you with the drink, then you can have your drink majestically.

After that you can pray together as husband and wife.

God will see you through IJN.

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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Tayorshd2(m): 12:23am On Feb 26, 2022
Needadvice200:
Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all


HERE IS THE PROBLEM ....
SEE LET ME TELL U FORGWT ABOUT LOVE EHN THE REALITY IS DO U GO FOR PRAYER BEFORE GETTINF MARRIED TO HER??

LIFE IS SPIRITUAL AMD NORMALLY IF YOU HAVE DONE THAT THEY WOUPD HAVE TOLD YOU NOT TO VENTURE IN IT AT ALL..

YOUR SIGNS OF LIFE DOSNT MATCH AND IF U CONTINUE LIKE THIS ...THIS IS STILL SAME WAY U WILL CONTINUE LIVING BRO...

D SOLUTION IS FOR U TO LOOK FOR ÒNÍFÁ AND ASK FOR THE SACRIFICES TO DO AND EVEN SOMETIMES D SACRIFICE MIGHT BE U GUYS SHOULD JUST LEAVE EACH OTHER FOR U TO PROSPER OR RISE AGAIN...

THATS WHY I SAID FORGET ABOUT LOVE FROM ONSET THIS IS REALITY NOW .
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by VanuatuWycombe: 12:25am On Feb 26, 2022
Olameen1713:


If you know any good alfa that can do ruqiyah(special prayer that casts away spirits in humans) for her. There are also people that specialise in doing ruqiyah. If you can find them you have definitely found a solution.


I have told him to google Tijani Waheed Iwosan Irorun. He is a Suuni Muslim brother based In Osogbo.

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