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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 7:53pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
kpompey:You mean am ? Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was inclusive of food stuff |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by esanmantruth: 7:53pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Which markets she dey buy things? This is how you spoils women. When she was living with her father with many children, ask her how much her father dropped for her mother before she her self got married? Cardealer2021: 5 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Toktee(m): 7:54pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021:Na lie abeg there is something else she is using that money....the husband,a baby of less tha . two years and another 9yrs.. Na elephants she the feed? Is she the only one going to the market? What happened to her salary,what is her contributions in all this? She is nothing but a selfish lady if i were the op she will not see anything more than that 50k....i hate women that thinks they are born to enjoy man's sweat without contribution. I cannot/cannever get hbp because of someone's daughter. 9 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Tzar(m): 7:54pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Sadly, he married one of the Jezebels. That woman is bent on destroying him. When his business finally fails , her true colors will show. She will certainly make him feel worthless. You better stamp your feet down as a man. If she changes for the better, fine. If she still decides to make her husband’s life MISERABLE, he better kick her out for better training in her father’s house. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by zedegit: 7:54pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: What is her own usefulness of she can't add extra #15000 to it to augment? 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 7:54pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
efficiencie:Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by nomenclature(m): 7:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
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Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by MrMcJay(m): 7:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
safarigirl:Thanks. She's a thief. Kajaard: No vex, I just dey road dey go house and traffic is crazy. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Nobody: 7:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Newton2024: Very possible. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Basicend: 7:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: Shut up. . I mean shut up. . You spend more than 50k in a week. . On what necessity please? Can't the woman also get a job or biz to support the man? |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 7:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
zedegit:Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Amalekki: 7:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
My people, please learn to read before you comment. Learn to listen before you talk. That is the root of our problem in Nigeria, not Buhari 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Commanderinpips: 7:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: O boy you are not in that young man position. 50k can be managed by a family of six even in this harsh economy. The wife work also can't she support the husband?. Well, the problem with most young married men is that they are not strict with their wives when it comes to family economy. For me i am a down to the earth person. Women don't need petting in some areas if not they can send some one back to the village and they will still haul all the balme on the man. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Anonymous54: 7:55pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian: Make e use am do ritual jare! 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Kajaard: 7:56pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
MrMcJay: No worries bro 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 7:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Commanderinpips:Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Jmichael1(m): 7:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Cardealer2021: u end up saying notin... 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by ihedioramma: 7:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
BluntNigerian:Why some man month payment is below #30,000 . |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 7:57pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Basicend:Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by on4a: 7:58pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Dear poster, This is an easy problem to resolve. I am sharing this with you as someone who also supports the wife monthly. You have given her 50k for the past two years? From your perspective are prices still same across Nigeria in the last two years? Inflation is on the high side and you need to consider her request more compassionately. Here is what you can do. Both of you should seat and plan how to increase your family income. Either she starts a business or you check for a new job. You need to respond to her more compassionately showing that you understand that things are on the high side. Responding without compassion would make her feel you think she is spending your money on something else or stealing from you. God has special favour on the marriage union when the couples are united. So you should both agree and pray on how to increase your income. This can be resolved easily. God bless your home. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by zedegit: 7:58pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Goldbw122: You didn't even read the write-up before giving your half baked advice. Didn't you see where he said he gives her #1000 as transportation to work? |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Toktee(m): 7:58pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
esanmantruth:The thing taya me o...some women are just parasites and devourers in nature...if you check now she is saving that money in her account for only God know why without the husband's knowledge..or she is busy feeding one dick with part of the money.. If you want to marry a "wife" go to UROMI.... Most of this girls are ex oloshos that has zero management skills. 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by WoundedLamb: 7:58pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Hhmm.. family issues. OK, let's get practical. You said the money is for the food y'all eat and nothing else, right? At the core of the issue here is the fact that you believe she's using it for her personal stuff. Since she dared you to go the market and ask the prices of food stuff, could you actually do that? I mean, she said that cause she knew or thought you wouldn't do it, why not shock her by going to market to get the actual prices of food items? This way, you'd know for sure she's cheating and she'd also know she can't easily play you like that next time. If you don't know much about food stuff, ask a friend to help you. The goal here is to make data driven decisions. It's not enough to say your wife doesn't appreciate the money you give to her. The money is for the family, not for her. N50K is big and we're likely going conclude she's keeping some of it to herself. But what we don't know for sure is your living standard. We don't know what you expect to see on the table when you get home, the kind of drinks you take, etc. That's why you alone can tell if she's actually cheating or not. Do a little market survey and watch her jaw drop if she's guilty. Good luck! 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by 00FFT00(m): 7:59pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Mercychen: Frugality is the word I was looking for. Are you married madam ?. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by harsysky(m): 7:59pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Family issues ain't brought into social media. People who have no iota of knowledge will tell you how they feel a standard family should be whereas they can't even handle just a GF comfortably. She is your wife; you know her better than everyone. Sit her down and talk to her. If God doesn't help incases like this, say bye bye to that marriage. Before you know it, one Yahoo guy of 17yrs go carry the wife . 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cutehector(m): 7:59pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
If a girl cant share 10naira with you, she can never support you financially when you marry. Guys please date a woman who is a giver. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Cardealer2021(m): 8:00pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Toktee:Abeg forgive me I didn't even read the part that the lady also has salary. Sorry I didn't read the post well I thought the 50k was for food stuff and her up keep 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by Camelot65: 8:00pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
He better sits her down and tell her to get her acts together. To think she's working is shocking, which kind wahala wife he go marry like this? He shouldn't die early because of frustration. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by penuelway(m): 8:00pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
I will advise you divide the monthly allowance and make it weekly(12,250) . Am sure she will be able to manage it better . However you should also try to increase it to N60,000 because of the high price of commodities. If you can afford to remove N50,000 from your business, an extra N10,000 should not be an issue. Am sure she will appreciate an increase of N10,000 in the short run. Atleast peace will rain for something because pushing for higher allowances |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by boom99(m): 8:01pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
Money too small. Give her 50k per week country hard 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Appreciate House-keeping Allowance Of N50,000. by MadamOk(f): 8:01pm On Mar 21, 2022 |
It is not all women that know the value of what their husband or boyfriend give to them If she has been spending more than that value or exact value when you guys are not yet married. It will be hard to value it now I think you need to sit her up and talk things together |
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