opera1:



I can't blame her, she's not satisfied with two kids. Don't feel bad or afraid of tomorrow God will surely take control of everything.
Love her more and take care of her.
Put the option to her after her delivery.
May God grant her safe delivery in Jesus name Amen �.

IF YOU ARE DONE HAVING BABIES AND SHE REFUSE TO FAMILY PLANNING, ALWAYS USE PROTECTIVE.
OR YOU CAN GO FOR VASECTOMY.

Beni o! I don't know why most men pushes the issue of family planning to women solely.Is it only women that is involved in the action... Although l'm not backing the wife 'cos issue of having babies should be agreed on by couples.

BabalawoPikin:
I feel like calling my wife out on this thread. But to avoid vawulence. Make I shut up.. She actually wants a second child too but I want my first daughter to be 5yrs. Na the matter we dey drag.. Why the rush Women get problem I swear

5yrs margin too much and women don't have much time. it's better she born finished and start enjoying her life with no worries of giving birth again after you are both through

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

So she impregnated herself.
How much be CD again?.

Why u sef no do vasectomy

Get a vasectomy

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

U would have used condom or withdrawal method if she doesn't like condom because most women don't like it. It is up to u bro. As for me, I have two kids and I am on hold at d moment because I nor wan born pickin when go come world cum suffer because d economy is getting worst by d day. Wisdom is profitable to direct.

Kilotat:
Next Time don't just tell your wife to do family planning, You & her should fix an appointment with your family doctor (or a public dr.), Take her their and the Dr. Will run some teses and will recommend the good planing that suit her health

men who don’t want children can wear condoms or get a vasectomy

BabalawoPikin:
I feel like calling my wife out on this thread. But to avoid vawulence. Make I shut up.. She actually wants a second child too but I want my first daughter to be 5yrs. Na the matter we dey drag.. Why the rush Women get problem I swear

5yrs is too much bro. 2 to 3 is better cause of her body system

Tradegood:

Na man you be.

Red Demon Piller cannot exert their brains like this. Them for don slap am kill am

Werin redpillers do you aunty

The Bible tells us repeatedly in His Word how all children are a gift from God. Every single life, every single child, is a reward and blessing. Whether they're bringing parents pride and joy, or whether they are teaching us how to be more patient and forgiving, children are a gift from God and a source for the growth of His Kingdom here on Earth!

God knows that children can bring us closer to Him and help grow our Christian character.

Op
You be mumu,even if your wife no do family planning,you as a man wey you be,why you no use withdrawal method or best pask your prick one side.

This is the effect of boys going into marriage these days.
Shior!

DriverX:
Maybe you should talk to your penis since a woman can't get pregnant on her own volition.

people who reason this way are Normally mad and they are called oponu

luminouz:


Oga...your first paragraph has something I need. The rest are your attempts to justify why hysterectomy is bad and vasectomy is good.

Have a nice week

Lmaoooo.....

Men Empowerment....




This I have seen!

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

You need to find out what your wife really wants, it's safe to say you both might not be on the same page on the number of children you want to have.

Family planning doesn't start from a doctor's office, it starts from home, have you considered being responsible for the family planning? Like having a vasectomy or using condoms? You need to weigh in on the options.

Now that madam is pregnant, you would both have to fashion out ways to increase your family income

You're trying to push the fact that you hate men down our throats. Nobody cares!

Candidlady:


Lol

If it is a boy child ithink your suggestion makes sense!!! They shouldn't just lease the kid they should sell it!!

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

Oh dear!!! The moment she said, you tell her going forward no sex without condom. You will be using ciondom or abstinence if you can cope. This is your responsibility, you impregnated your wife!!!

It's really dicey!!!

That pregnancy is not yours, don't say I didn't tell you

She tricked you and you fell for it. She obviously wanted more kids and I am sure she's likely jobless. Needed something to keep her busy

Nyascobar1414:


So women like s€x

Na dem like am pass.

Yewandequeen:
This Op is just catching cruise please.

November 2021 he was looking for Bleep mate

December 2021 he was asking abt penis enlargement

January 2022 he was talking about sex starvation

March 2022 he couldn't sleep without masturbation

April 2022 he claimed his wife refused family planning and now pregnant.


Take Op serious at your own peril. I don't know why people loves to create fake stories just for the sake of attention. Very irritating

Na wa

Kilotat:
Next Time don't just tell your wife to do family planning, You & her should fix an appointment with your family doctor (or a public dr.), Take her their and the Dr. Will run some teses and will recommend the good planing that suit her health

he should consider a vasectomy

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

she refused to do family planning n u were stil nacking her skin to skin

texazzpete:



Sorry to say, but you and your wife are not serious. But your wife most of all. You married a dumb woman.

Because even people earning much more than you are wary of having more than 2. Now she wants a third.

Well, I don’t know how to help you. The deed has been done. You sef should have used a condom or pulled out

Does she have a job of her own to support your income?

I wont even blame the woman because you can never trust women with reproduction...the man is stupid...you know you earn a salary of less than 100k yet you went to get married...does that make sense

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

Don't bother yourself about the pregnancy, I go wire you some money when she delivers, just mention my moniker when she safety deliver her triplets kids

If with your nephews you are coping, then a third child wont be a problem only that the nephews would have to be few....send them away...after this third bouncing baby Bo-rl sef you can still cope with a fourth because you've been doing that comfortably.

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

I only see people breeding more babies without good stable incomes as fools. Cos, hunger and management go beat them wella

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

I see the problem. Low IQ .

You do not need to regret this or quarrel with your wife. Though you warned her before hand so that both of you won't find yourselves in this situation, but it has happened already. There's no need having sleepless night over this, just put yourself together and move ahead. Be rest assured that the Giver of life ,the almighty God, is aware of your condition and will pull you through this even to your own amazement. I wish your wife safe delivery in advance. I can bet you will be the one that will thank your wife when the child is grown up. I have seen someone with exactly the same situation like this, the man was my neighbor and close friend, in fact to cut the story short, the woman gave birth to twins after their second child. But today the children are all grown up and the man is happiest now.

Ahmed0336:
I somehow like myself. Back then, I took her to the hospital, sat there till all the procedures were completed.

She later said she won't do family planning after my first two kids, I said no problem.

Kongi wan kill her, I just lock upppp

She said I should use condom, I said I won't.

That we should try withdrawal method I no gree.

She report me tire to those concerned, I refused to shift ground.

Nobody tell her, she had to insert again before we continue

Who is this wise man? Many simple problems that nairalnaders bring here can be solved with simple game theory techniques. This man's comment has made my day. May you continue to grow in wisdom, self discipline, self worth, focus, determination, and problem solving mindset. Amen.

Father Abraham

Gaggii:
I just put this here may be I could get some relief.

I don't want to share it with anyone because it's a family issue, since am anonymous here

I told my wife to do family planning after our second child, she refused claiming she is not a kid and knows how to prevent herself.

Now she is pregnant and will not terminate it.

My head one bust, been thinking how to survive this economy with 3kids, while earning a salary less than 100k.

She has her niece leaving with us and my own nephew also leaving with us.

You should do the family planning nah. Do vasectomy. She's probably scared of the side effects that affect your hormones. Try getting a better paid job or do business join salary and let your wife also get something doing if she isn't working. Nigeria is tough now