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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jul 02, 2022
You must be stupid. How sure are you is your own? Most of you dragging like this can't even take care of the babe and the lady. Moreover, have you marry her?

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Lastborn0074: 12:02pm On Jul 02, 2022
You want to arrest her over an illegality? Some folks can be funny.
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Pimine: 12:02pm On Jul 02, 2022
MufasaLion:
You can't force her to keep the baby just because you're desperate to have one. Also, you can ask her the reason for abortion.
Oh so now it's her right abi? Anyway you're right, it's her right. But if I say I'm not ready to be a father and she goes ahead to birth the child, I'll be termed a deadbeat, no?

If a woman has the right to terminate or bring to term as she sees fit, a man should have the right to abdicate responsibilities to that child if she had it against his will.

OP, e be like you no too hold paper if not she for use the pregnancy trap you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by bluefilm: 12:03pm On Jul 02, 2022
Mayemavins:
I have been seriously contemplating, she Aborted my pregnancy after we both went to hospital confirmed it and we both agreed to keep the baby.

Moreover I really need the child, she connived with her sister and they Aborted it. I'm thinking to go the Police station to make a report and arresther!!

Pls should I?
Many more things surrounded that Pregnancy. I really need a child.

Before you call the police on her, I'd advise you to go through the Roe v. Wade debate one more time. grin grin grin
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by omotoso1989(m): 12:03pm On Jul 02, 2022
I smell something,no be the guy get the pregnancy or the girl doesn't want him or the guy is not financially stable to take care of the unborn childote author=JBriel post=114348015]

Can you prove the pregnancy to begin with ?


If she aborted, can you prove the aborted foestis is yours ?

If she says she had multiple partners, can you prove it wasn't another who got her pregnant ?

Can you prove she didn't have a miscarriage and it was an abortion?

You just displayed your joblessneee you poor urchin

What right do you have? Is she married to you. Or has a foetus been scientifically proven to be a child.

You really need a child but can't put a ring on it and have her properly married. You're a big full with this mindset looking for naive females to prey on, Jaguar

Carry your sexual predatory, lust and sexual escapades to hell plz[/quote]
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by JBriel: 12:04pm On Jul 02, 2022
omotoso1989:
I smell something,no be the guy get the pregnancy or the girl doesn't want him or the guy is not financially stable to take care of the unborn childote author=JBriel post=114348015]

Can you prove the pregnancy to begin with ?


If she aborted, can you prove the aborted foestis is yours ?

If she says she had multiple partners, can you prove it wasn't another who got her pregnant ?

Can you prove she didn't have a miscarriage and it was an abortion?

You just displayed your joblessneee you poor urchin

What right do you have? Is she married to you. Or has a foetus been scientifically proven to be a child.

You really need a child but can't put a ring on it and have her properly married. You're a big full with this mindset looking for naive females to prey on, Jaguar

Carry your sexual predatory, lust and sexual escapades to hell plz


Him no fit blow. She dey run
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Uzomacharles: 12:04pm On Jul 02, 2022
muykem:
I am a man. You don't have case at all if you have not legally married to her. You might even put yourself into serious trouble by reporting such case.


I don't have case then y quoting me?

Here in Nigerian, we have cases were the wives have to get pregnant first before they can get married to avoid future divorce....

Even the NG Constitution is against



Nigerian Law
The abortion laws of the Criminal Code are expressed within sections 228, 229, and 230. Section 228 states that any doctor providing a miscarriage to a woman is guilty of a felony and up to
14 years of imprisonment.
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Pimine: 12:04pm On Jul 02, 2022
Tannhauser:
grin

This is the reason why i keep saying that no man has ever impregnated a woman. The woman decides who to have a baby for and when. So when i see people saying a man must marry a woman because he impregnated her, i just laugh at the stupidity or is it hypocrisy sef.
Preach, brother
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Analog95(m): 12:04pm On Jul 02, 2022
This bros is funny. You no get money, you no famous, you no be celebrity and you want a gal that you are not married to, to keep a pregnancy, just because you need a child? Ask the likes of davido, Wizkid and 2 baba how it is done. Please make sure you go to the police station to report her o. I just hope the DPO is a woman make you collect wotowoto
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by endy69: 12:05pm On Jul 02, 2022
gracealonev:


Do you have pregnancy of your own? grin

Furthermore, you have yet to consummate your relationship legally.

The law does not consider the interests and feelings of men regarding pregnancies like this.

Even in the US, the call to terminate the pregnancy belongs to the woman. But if she chooses to keep it against your wish, you would still be liable for child upkeep.
Hope you know pro-life won in the supreme Court in US. It is illegal to abort in Nig and some other countries. You can only abort when your life is at risk and a doctor has to prove that the pregnancy endangers your life

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Mmash(f): 12:05pm On Jul 02, 2022
I don't know the situation that pushed the girl to commit such act,but I ll say... woman know thyself,you don't just pop out children because a guy say he needs kids or he just love kids.nine months no be joke & it is a life long thing.woman Know thyself....
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Pimine: 12:06pm On Jul 02, 2022
Analog95:
This bros is funny. You no get money, you no famous, you no be celebrity and you want a gal that you are not married to, to keep a pregnancy, just because you need a child? Ask the likes of davido, Wizkid and 2 baba how it is done. Please make sure you go to the police station to report her o. I just hope the DPO is a woman make you collect wotowoto
Mr Man, he has a case. Abortion is a criminal offence in Nigeria. Abi you missed the memo?

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Cutehector(m): 12:06pm On Jul 02, 2022
Uzomacharles:


But if the guy advised the girl to abort it then you will hear this same bitch!Es saying he can't man up his responsibilities...
yeah bro. The hypocrisy is too much.. Nigerian ladies only do things that suit them, its never ever about you bro.. To them, you can go to hell for all they care.

As a single man living his life saving his money, he is called stingy and too full of himself, if a lady doesnt give, she is termed a good woman who is a money manager.


Bros.. God forbid.


See this life so, money wey i dey earn, i go dey chop am dey go.

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Oladelepsy001(m): 12:07pm On Jul 02, 2022
Your pregnancy indeed!! Who is carrying it? Who is the owner of the carrier of the so called pregnancy? Have you had the backing of her family to call her yours? Does she even have multiple partners? How have you proven beyond reasonable doubt that if she had kept the baby, you'll be a responsible father? Can she really make such decision for someone she perceived to be able to conveniently father and care for her and the baby? Will you even marry her if she had left the baby?
SHE DEY DODGE TO BE BABY MAMA

Oga, you should be happy she made a decision that will further enable you to buckle up and double your hustle for greater tasks ahead of you
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by VirileNelly2420: 12:09pm On Jul 02, 2022
BeeBeeOoh:
shocked

If I may ask, do you wanna get her arrested as your legally married wife or a concubine??

E be like sey u wan smell small rod or abii watery beans dey hungry you?
Lol.... grin
D guy just funny. Abi he think say he dey UK.
Na because dey neva change am for him for impregnating person daughter.

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by micflo28(m): 12:10pm On Jul 02, 2022
You should have married her if you don’t want an abortion. As a lawyer, if you bring such case to my court I will whip Tinubu piss out of your body.

Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Monday60655(m): 12:10pm On Jul 02, 2022
Get who arrested? But you didn't say your wife abort your child, rather your girl friend. If that girl and her family they will even cash out on your head. No dowry nothing nothing, and you are here seeking for help. Go and arrest her nah! That's when you discover that catch am na hold am. Though am not in anyway supporting abortion by any party, but you don't have any legal ground to arrest the girl.
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jul 02, 2022
Mayemavins:
I have been seriously contemplating, she Aborted my pregnancy after we both went to hospital confirmed it and we both agreed to keep the baby.

Moreover I really need the child, she connived with her sister and they Aborted it. I'm thinking to go the Police station to make a report and arresther!!

Pls should I?
Many more things surrounded that Pregnancy. I really need a child.

Your brain isn't functional, it seems! You need a child, why not marry her? Or she told you she's a child producing factory?
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Monday60655(m): 12:14pm On Jul 02, 2022
BeeBeeOoh:


My dear d mata tire me no be here o.

Imagine going to police station to make a report that you want to arrest your 'girlfriend' not your wife for aborting your baby?

If I happen to be the policeman na cell he go enter straight up.

Don't mind him. If he don't like himself, let him carry himself to the police station to go and make entry.

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by AntiChristian: 12:14pm On Jul 02, 2022
Mayemavins:
I have been seriously contemplating, she Aborted my pregnancy after we both went to hospital confirmed it and we both agreed to keep the baby.

Moreover I really need the child, she connived with her sister and they Aborted it. I'm thinking to go the Police station to make a report and arresther!!

Pls should I?
Many more things surrounded that Pregnancy. I really need a child.

Abortion is forbidden in Nigeria.

Get a lawyer and report ASAP.

It's up to 14yrs imprisonment under the criminal code (in the south) for the Doctor, for the woman/man up to 7yrs and other accomplices up to 3yrs.

In the Penal Code in the North, the punishment includes imprisonment, fine or both!

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by sunbreaker: 12:14pm On Jul 02, 2022
MMWandali:
Go and finally marry a better one
You don't have any lawful day because she is not your wife
does he has money to marry? He is looking for baby mama. If he has money he doesn't need to fight for pregnancy,many ladies will seize him with that.
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Uzomacharles: 12:15pm On Jul 02, 2022
Cutehector:
yeah bro. The hypocrisy is too much.. Nigerian ladies only do things that suit them, its never ever about you bro.. To them, you can go to hell for all they care.

As a single man living his life saving his money, he is called stingy and too full of himself, if a lady doesnt give, she is termed a good woman who is a money manager.


Bros.. God forbid.


See this life so, money wey i dey earn, i go dey chop am dey go.

I swear...

and some weaklings called men are still supporting them
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 12:16pm On Jul 02, 2022
BeeBeeOoh:
shocked

If I may ask, do you wanna get her arrested as your legally married wife or a concubine??

E be like sey u wan smell small rod or abii watery beans dey hungry you?
imagine person no gree marry a girl and he wan take ownership of a child, this one na 419 boyfriend oh

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Sterope(f): 12:17pm On Jul 02, 2022
Is there any reason why you are so stupid? You want to force a woman to carry a child she doesn't want.

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 12:17pm On Jul 02, 2022
Mayemavins:
I have been seriously contemplating, she Aborted my pregnancy after we both went to hospital confirmed it and we both agreed to keep the baby.

Moreover I really need the child, she connived with her sister and they Aborted it. I'm thinking to go the Police station to make a report and arresther!!

Pls should I?
Many more things surrounded that Pregnancy. I really need a child.
you really need a child and you refused to marry? You are very stupid sir

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by SeneKit: 12:18pm On Jul 02, 2022
You're just a SIMple fool
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by correctyourself(m): 12:20pm On Jul 02, 2022
tayo60:
No need to arrest her, forget d girl and move on. Find another woman who will bear you children but make sure you marry her o. No woman wan be baby mama of another man.


Who knows if the OP is a responsible person? Moreover, no comment from the GF.
Eveen though she accepted keeping the BB, the reason she went ahead could be the op is one of those promise and faile guys.
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by firstratedcitiz(m): 12:21pm On Jul 02, 2022
Mayemavins:
She Aborted my pregnancy...
"My pregnancy?" Her pregnancy or your pregnancy? Can a man be pregnant? Laughing.
Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by OriOko88(m): 12:21pm On Jul 02, 2022
BeeBeeOoh:


My dear d mata tire me no be here o.

Imagine going to police station to make a report that you want to arrest your 'girlfriend' not your wife for aborting your baby?

If I happen to be the policeman na cell he go enter straight up.
Tell me why the police will lock d guy up if he reports.. Later Una go blame govt for impunity where as most u citizen bask in the same impunity. Where's is it a crime to impregnate ones girlfriend? Nansense undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Aborted My Pregnancy! Can I Get Her Arrested? by Cutehector(m): 12:23pm On Jul 02, 2022
Pimine:

Oh so now it's her right abi? Anyway you're right, it's her right. But if I say I'm not ready to be a father and she goes ahead to birth the child, I'll be termed a deadbeat, no?

If a woman has the right to terminate or bring to term as she sees fit, a man should have the right to abdicate responsibilities to that child if she had it against his will.

OP, e be like you no too hold paper if not she for use the pregnancy trap you.
wise words bro.

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